The language of lust vs. porn

[cookiecat]

I've noticed when guys talk about sex - whether it's recounting a sexual encounter, sending a PM or an IM - it's generally fairly similar:

"I pounded her pussy with my fat dick"

"My rock hard cock rammed her hole"

"My tongue stabbed at her clit until she came"

"My big piece of meat hammered at her cunt"

"She sat on my cock, riding me like a jackhammer"

So when I get a message that says something like "hey slut, wouldn't you love to feel my 9 inch rod pummel your pussy?"

I either say - no, I like guys with 6 inch cocks because usually they're nicer to my pussy OR

no, I'd love it if you'd tease my clit first, gently tap the tip of your cock - slick with precum - on my clit. Then maybe, just maybe, slide the tip of your cock in to my tight, amazing, super pretty, wet hole and fuck my pussy with just the tip - tease me a bit, maybe slowly slide your cock another inch or two in, ask me to milk your cock with my cunt before you'll give me another inch...

Is the language of sex different for guys than it is for girls?

 

[Farawyn]

"glistening folds"

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

I think awkward jackass is a universal language cookie.

Also, if someone takes their cues from porn, chances are they don’t know what the fuck they’re doing
Whether that’s a good or bad thing, is up to whomever is on the other side of the conversation I suppose.

 

[quietlylooking]

I've noticed when guys talk about sex - whether it's recounting a sexual encounter, sending a PM or an IM - it's generally fairly similar:

"I pounded her pussy with my fat dick"

"My rock hard cock rammed her hole"

"My tongue stabbed at her clit until she came"

"My big piece of meat hammered at her cunt"

"She sat on my cock, riding me like a jackhammer"

So when I get a message that says something like "hey slut, wouldn't you love to feel my 9 inch rod pummel your pussy?"

I either say - no, I like guys with 6 inch cocks because usually they're nicer to my pussy OR

no, I'd love it if you'd tease my clit first, gently tap the tip of your cock - slick with precum - on my clit. Then maybe, just maybe, slide the tip of your cock in to my tight, amazing, super pretty, wet hole and fuck my pussy with just the tip - tease me a bit, maybe slowly slide your cock another inch or two in, ask me to milk your cock with my cunt before you'll give me another inch...

Is the language of sex different for guys than it is for girls?

I would definitely concur. And I think the authors of this article that I read today would agree as well.

 

[NeonKnickers]

When I read messages like those listed above, I wish there was a written form of that whiney "yeuuuuuaahh?" sound that women make in porn...though that would probably just encourage them.

There's a lot to be said about a beautifully written bit of smut.

 

[Farawyn]

I think what's difficult is that I run out of words.

 

[Farawyn]

"A moan tore from her lips as he explored her *glistening folds*, the vocal betrayal of her lust becoming more and more effusive as his misnistrations set a rythm, his tongue expertly delving the source of her pleasure."

"He gripped her thighs and pulled her into his mouth, biting softly, then harder, tasting her want in his mouth..."

We need a "heaving bosom" somewhere.

 

[HisArpy]

Miss Kitty sat on a bollard and watched with fascinated eyes at the bosun heaving and hauling on the lines, his rock hard muscles visibly standing out as he strained to pull the net full of cargo on board the ship. As he finally pulled the cargo net over the rail, Miss Kitty stretched and yawned and pranced her way up the gangplank to twine her body sinuously around his ankles. All the while making tiny chirps and squeaks in her bid for his undivided attention. She wanted him. She needed him. It was time for dinner and then a nap.

There you go. A heaving bosun.

 

[jason28053]

I prefer porn written by women. It seems more real and believable then what men write.

 

[gracie920101]

Miss Kitty sat on a bollard and watched with fascinated eyes at the bosun heaving and hauling on the lines, his rock hard muscles visibly standing out as he strained to pull the net full of cargo on board the ship. As he finally pulled the cargo net over the rail, Miss Kitty stretched and yawned and pranced her way up the gangplank to twine her body sinuously around his ankles. All the while making tiny chirps and squeaks in her bid for his undivided attention. She wanted him. She needed him. It was time for dinner and then a nap.

There you go. A heaving bosun.

OMG! Pussy porn!

 

[KimGordon67]

I've definitely had some guys with a pretty astounding command of erotic language. One would take five minutes to describe something (in text) that probably would have taken 30 seconds to actually do.

... but 'pounding' and 'holes' (ugh) is a fairly common theme among many men, definitely.

 

[Blue]

I would never intentionally write like that 'cause it just sounds too stupid.
I think a mix of physical insecurities, a need to impress and just a general lack of fluency over English produces those kinds of comments.

 

[AngusBridie]

I prefer porn written by women. It seems more real and believable then what men write.

this is how I feel too..

 

[HisArpy]

I prefer porn written by women. It seems more real and believable then what men write.

this is how I feel too..

https://www.literotica.com/s/the-winner-1

Read that and tell me the gender of the author. Don't peek at the bio, just read the story and guess.

 

[HisArpy]

OMG! Pussy porn!

Never! Laurel has rulez against beastie stuff.

But, maybe, Miss Kitty Black might make a re-appearance next fall. No guarantees - 'cuz life and stuff, but maybe.

 

[HeyAll]

Is the language of sex different for guys than it is for girls?

I think it's more about the person than the gender.

Some guys really like the sensual talk.

On the flipside, there are a lot of women who like the hardcore dirty talk.

 

[LiamHDunn]

I think it's more about the person than the gender.

Some guys really like the sensual talk.

On the flipside, there are a lot of women who like the hardcore dirty talk.

The more sensual language is something I'm am struggling to get right. Fortunately, I have very apt assistance at my disposal.

I think the bigger challenge is going to be in blending the two. Rough and vulgar when it should be, sensual and inviting when it should be; but always evocative and engaging.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

A lot of porn is pure crap. Most of it shows 2 people with an expression of indifference or even anger on their faces. That doesn't arouse me at all. It's all so surface layer and fake. In fact POV and a lot of the crap out there, the overwhelming majority is designed as though the intended audience is a 12 year old boy.

It just lame and juvenile.

 

[Farawyn]

Pound my banana.

 

[Blue]

Pound my banana.

 

[HisArpy]

Eww, a snuff flick.

 

[Farawyn]

Mhmmmm, just like that...

 

[Miles Long]

Mhmmmm, just like that...

Yeah fist it.

 

[Tallcajun]

I've noticed when guys talk about sex - whether it's recounting a sexual encounter, sending a PM or an IM - it's generally fairly similar:

"I pounded her pussy with my fat dick"

"My rock hard cock rammed her hole"

"My tongue stabbed at her clit until she came"

"My big piece of meat hammered at her cunt"

"She sat on my cock, riding me like a jackhammer"

So when I get a message that says something like "hey slut, wouldn't you love to feel my 9 inch rod pummel your pussy?"

I either say - no, I like guys with 6 inch cocks because usually they're nicer to my pussy OR

no, I'd love it if you'd tease my clit first, gently tap the tip of your cock - slick with precum - on my clit. Then maybe, just maybe, slide the tip of your cock in to my tight, amazing, super pretty, wet hole and fuck my pussy with just the tip - tease me a bit, maybe slowly slide your cock another inch or two in, ask me to milk your cock with my cunt before you'll give me another inch...

Is the language of sex different for guys than it is for girls?

Alright, ALLRIGHT!!!!
I get the message!! I'll stop with the PMs.....
Sheesh......

 

[cookiecat]

I think it's more about the person than the gender.

Some guys really like the sensual talk.

On the flipside, there are a lot of women who like the hardcore dirty talk.

Yes, this is true. It's not always gender related. A lot depends on what you like. And, there are only so many adjectives you can use to talk about rough fucking.

The more sensual language is something I'm am struggling to get right. Fortunately, I have very apt assistance at my disposal.

I think the bigger challenge is going to be in blending the two. Rough and vulgar when it should be, sensual and inviting when it should be; but always evocative and engaging.

Word.

Pound my banana.

The glistening folds of your banana.