submissivehippie
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Just a heads up, this is a long one, but I think it’s a very important conversation to have considering how common it is.
Preface: Over the weekend I celebrated my 19th birthday at a coworker’s lake house. My BF/Dom and I were in the upstairs bedroom getting freaky, and he was standing at the edge of the bed railing me. He started choking me right as he was about to cum, and I passed out. He started freaking out because I wasn’t breathing, and he had no idea what to do. Fortunately he was able to get my coworker (for context we’re lifeguards), and I was resuscitated before paramedics even arrive. That being said, there’s nothing worse than waking up naked in a pool of your own vomit. We’re all pretty shaken up by the experience, and I don’t think either of us will do breath play again. I hope I can use what I learned to help others.
Passing during sex, particularly when orgasming is common, however it can be dangerous. Some people may have a medical condition which can cause this to happen, in which case it’s important to give your partner a heads up.
If Your Partner Passes Out Without Warning or for Longer than 30 seconds
1. Loosen any restraints, particularly those around the neck.
2. Check for responsiveness by lightly hitting their cheek and asking if they are okay
3. If they are unresponsive, check for pulse and listen for breathing
4. If they are unresponsive but breathing, roll them onto their side into recovery position.
5. If they are not breathing, begin mouth to mouth resuscitation: tilt their head back, pull the chin down, and pinch their nose. Use your mouth to form a seal over their’s and deliver two rescue breaths. Let go of the nose and make sure chest rises. Repeat process by giving two breaths every five seconds until they are breathing on their own.
6. If they have no pulse and are not breathing, place them prone on a solid surface. Place one hand on top of another in the center of their chest and begin giving compressions (2 inches deep) it helps if you count “1-100, 2-100, etc.” then give two breaths after every 30 compressions.
Important Note: CPR is nothing like how it looks in the movies. Chest compressions will break the rib cage, and often the victim will vomit.
7. If they are still unresponsive after 2 minutes call Emergency Services
I’d definitely try to avoid using chokers/collars that are too tight, and go for gags that have holes for breathing. ALWAYS have a safe word when engaging in any form of BDSM.
If you have anything to add on/experience with this topic please share! I’d definitely recommend checking the Red Cross website for resources.
Preface: Over the weekend I celebrated my 19th birthday at a coworker’s lake house. My BF/Dom and I were in the upstairs bedroom getting freaky, and he was standing at the edge of the bed railing me. He started choking me right as he was about to cum, and I passed out. He started freaking out because I wasn’t breathing, and he had no idea what to do. Fortunately he was able to get my coworker (for context we’re lifeguards), and I was resuscitated before paramedics even arrive. That being said, there’s nothing worse than waking up naked in a pool of your own vomit. We’re all pretty shaken up by the experience, and I don’t think either of us will do breath play again. I hope I can use what I learned to help others.
Passing during sex, particularly when orgasming is common, however it can be dangerous. Some people may have a medical condition which can cause this to happen, in which case it’s important to give your partner a heads up.
If Your Partner Passes Out Without Warning or for Longer than 30 seconds
1. Loosen any restraints, particularly those around the neck.
2. Check for responsiveness by lightly hitting their cheek and asking if they are okay
3. If they are unresponsive, check for pulse and listen for breathing
4. If they are unresponsive but breathing, roll them onto their side into recovery position.
5. If they are not breathing, begin mouth to mouth resuscitation: tilt their head back, pull the chin down, and pinch their nose. Use your mouth to form a seal over their’s and deliver two rescue breaths. Let go of the nose and make sure chest rises. Repeat process by giving two breaths every five seconds until they are breathing on their own.
6. If they have no pulse and are not breathing, place them prone on a solid surface. Place one hand on top of another in the center of their chest and begin giving compressions (2 inches deep) it helps if you count “1-100, 2-100, etc.” then give two breaths after every 30 compressions.
Important Note: CPR is nothing like how it looks in the movies. Chest compressions will break the rib cage, and often the victim will vomit.
7. If they are still unresponsive after 2 minutes call Emergency Services
I’d definitely try to avoid using chokers/collars that are too tight, and go for gags that have holes for breathing. ALWAYS have a safe word when engaging in any form of BDSM.
If you have anything to add on/experience with this topic please share! I’d definitely recommend checking the Red Cross website for resources.