loungelizard711
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- Nov 7, 2015
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Realistically I've never heard of this happening to anyone my age but here I am.
Back story:
The girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years as of the 11th this month. I'm 23-she's 22. Within the first 6 months I cheated on her-invited another girl over (long story)-she kissed me and I told her to get out. She proceeded to tell my girlfriend that everything and anything happened, which really crushed her. 3 faithful years later with zero sex and she tells me she wants space. I go to her house one night to fix her computer-and find out she was already getting together with another guy. Turns out she though cheating on me would fix things but it just made them worse. We've been together the last 6 months now and have been happy-however intamacy is absolutely non existent. My birthday back in may-nothing. She blamed it on her BC for a while but then stopped taking it for months and still no libido. I purchased a house a month ago-sh lives with me, we have a dog, we sleep in the same bed and enjoy each others company but every time I try to initiate anything I get ignored or excuses fly. Simple put I love this girl but we have no intamacy.
I guess what I'm looking for is someone to talk to. I want other perspectives on this. I haven't included everything-just most of the main stuff but still.
It's hard having a high sex drive buy being constantly shut down by the one person you try to build a life with isn't condusive to a good mood.
She's very happy in every other aspect just zero interest in intamacy.
Also I'm not overweight, unattractive, I go to school and pay all the bills as well as take us on vacations yearly (cruise in 2 weeks).
Back story:
The girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years as of the 11th this month. I'm 23-she's 22. Within the first 6 months I cheated on her-invited another girl over (long story)-she kissed me and I told her to get out. She proceeded to tell my girlfriend that everything and anything happened, which really crushed her. 3 faithful years later with zero sex and she tells me she wants space. I go to her house one night to fix her computer-and find out she was already getting together with another guy. Turns out she though cheating on me would fix things but it just made them worse. We've been together the last 6 months now and have been happy-however intamacy is absolutely non existent. My birthday back in may-nothing. She blamed it on her BC for a while but then stopped taking it for months and still no libido. I purchased a house a month ago-sh lives with me, we have a dog, we sleep in the same bed and enjoy each others company but every time I try to initiate anything I get ignored or excuses fly. Simple put I love this girl but we have no intamacy.
I guess what I'm looking for is someone to talk to. I want other perspectives on this. I haven't included everything-just most of the main stuff but still.
It's hard having a high sex drive buy being constantly shut down by the one person you try to build a life with isn't condusive to a good mood.
She's very happy in every other aspect just zero interest in intamacy.
Also I'm not overweight, unattractive, I go to school and pay all the bills as well as take us on vacations yearly (cruise in 2 weeks).