Is it bad that I want to hear about my boyfriend being used sexually by others?

[BiGirlWithKinks]

Hi everyone,

28 yr old bisexual female here who is in a relationship with a lovely guy for about a year now. I have found myself with a new kink that is giving me an insatiable itch that I truly need scratching. Lately, all I can think about is what other would do sexually to him behind my back! Usually I am imagining what other women would do to him but I will admit that I have also imagine how a guy could pleasure him as well. The weird thing about my kink though is that I don't think I'd actually want this to happen in real life as I can get a bit jealous and it'd probably just make me more upset than anything!

However, I have been finding myself night after night laying in bed, rubbing myself to the thought of what others could do to him and how they could pleasure him far better than I could ever imagine all while I'm just a fly on the wall observing it all. IS IT BAD?

I would absolutely LOVE to find someone who has a way with words and would love to help paint me a picture of what others would do sexually to him. I have plenty of references or if you'd want to pleasure him yourself, then even better! As long as you're a confident sexual goddess or god lol. I don't want to hear about him getting pleasure from someone shy and timid. No no, I want him having the orgasms of his life but someone who can work his cock better than any top level porn star, all while I'm just rubbing away on myself orgasm after orgasm.

So if you're confident, love to please and love to write, then please reach out to me and let's connect!

 

[Erodicus]

To the best of my knowledge, Lit attracts so many people because it offers a venue where we can drop our inhibitions or imposed norms, and have the freedoam to say, dream or discuss with other consenting adults, whatever turns us on - with very few restrictions.

 

[boo56]

IS IT BAD?

Oh, I don't know. It sounds harmless.

 

[t_h_seacrest]

Pretty much all the scenarios I fantasize/masturbate to I'm pretty sure I would not want to really experience, or if experiencing the real thing... might freak out more than enjoy (because of jealousy, etc). Probably better to not say for sure either way.

Saying this to say I understand strangely arousing fantasies. What a perpetual mystery is sexuality/fantasy.

 

[Pad_Foot]

If you would get jealous, then you have to step into the role of using him

If you dream of nonconcentual humiliating hurtful things to be done to him?

 

[Ashfordbloke]

My take on this is that a guy with a good idea of how to seduce another male would find him to be a delicious inviting victim and would target him in the same way as a heat-seeking missile follows an enemy aircraft...
The bonus for the guy doing the "seeking" is the joy of finding him to be receptive and enjoying the feel of another man's hands or mouth on his cock... and the satisfaction that would follow from feeling him come hard into the mouth of the seducer!

 

[trinisity]

Personally I think its a super sexy kink. It might make for some nice role play. Just be clear that its just role play.