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Male4Strapon said:
I have chatted with so many men who have followed the same basic trajectory:
1. They had no desire for bi sex before marriage. Then their wife loses her sex drive so the guy turns to porn more than usual.
2. He eventually bores of the usual stuff and starts to explore kinkier scenes, often cuckold (which has bi elements), pegging and trans.
3. They internally defend this to themselves as cuckolds are being “forced” to the gay acts. Pegging is with a woman, so it’s still straight. Trans are essentially women but with cocks, so it’s still not truly gay.
4. Eventually they seek bisexual porn, again justifying it as there’s a woman in the scene so that makes it “less gay”
5. Acceptance of gay porn and desires of being with a man because it’s much easier to find a willing guy. They would prefer it be with a woman but Men who post online ads for sexual encounters with women may never get a response whereas man to man encounters are easy to find interested partners. Essentially it’s like they have no choice but to turn to other men.

Perhaps some of this desire was always in there and would have come out eventually, but that exact path is far too common to be coincidence.
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That pretty much nails it for me. Well thought post, thank you!
 
wahoo33 said:
That pretty much nails it for me. Well thought post, thank you!
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Thanks. Ironically it's not exactly my own path, though not off by much. The difference being that I was into pegging long before ever becoming curious about a real cock. But the rest is basically me. I have yet to do anything with a guy but it's clearly evident that I could hook up with a different guy every night this week but would be extremely lucky to do so with a woman. The ease of encounters for men is what I have been told is the opening of the flood gates, if you will. A straight but curious guy can resist only so long. One guy told me it is like an alcoholic resisting drinks versus an alcoholic who also works in a bar. The easy availability is what does it.

This didn't occur to me until chatting with a number of bi guys and discussing the origins of our curiosities. I began to wonder if I was chatting with the same men over and over because the story was so consistent. I really do wonder what wives who refuse sex would think if this was more commonly accepted as a potential result of them ignoring their husband's desires. Sexless marriages can indeed lead husbands to gay sex.
 
Male4Strapon said:
Thanks. Ironically it's not exactly my own path, though not off by much. The difference being that I was into pegging long before ever becoming curious about a real cock. But the rest is basically me. I have yet to do anything with a guy but it's clearly evident that I could hook up with a different guy every night this week but would be extremely lucky to do so with a woman. The ease of encounters for men is what I have been told is the opening of the flood gates, if you will. A straight but curious guy can resist only so long. One guy told me it is like an alcoholic resisting drinks versus an alcoholic who also works in a bar. The easy availability is what does it.

This didn't occur to me until chatting with a number of bi guys and discussing the origins of our curiosities. I began to wonder if I was chatting with the same men over and over because the story was so consistent. I really do wonder what wives who refuse sex would think if this was more commonly accepted as a potential result of them ignoring their husband's desires. Sexless marriages can indeed lead husbands to gay sex.
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Geez dude, you summed it all up, at least for me.
 
I think I've always had fantasies, they've certainly become more pronounced the older I've got. getting into things like pegging and anal play has definately opened my mind as well...
 
darkdreams85 said:
Any interesting bi guys around wanna chat? 37 m us here.
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Don't know if you find me interesting or not, 65 mwm early years thinking I was gay, mainly since I was a very shy guy and well guys were for the most part all I hung around with, it wasn't until I was in my early 20's I figured out I was in fact bi. In my early college years and before it was just guys I had sex with until after my 2nd year in college then I dated both guys and girls until I was 23 when I decided to focus on girls then at 24 married my wife and have been very monogamous since. No she doesn't know about my past and never will since I know she would not be accepting of it. I still do have wanton desires of being with other guys but have fought those feelings for almost 40 years now. If you find me interesting I would be more than happy to chat with you.
 
Seems like the story is somewhat the same - wife stops wanting sex, man doesn’t want to cheat with a woman, so looks for the alternative. The typical problem is finding a place, as the man generally wants the pleasure from another married man. I’m finding release in watching and being watched - far safer!!
 
Male4Strapon said:
Thanks. Ironically it's not exactly my own path, though not off by much. The difference being that I was into pegging long before ever becoming curious about a real cock. But the rest is basically me. I have yet to do anything with a guy but it's clearly evident that I could hook up with a different guy every night this week but would be extremely lucky to do so with a woman. The ease of encounters for men is what I have been told is the opening of the flood gates, if you will. A straight but curious guy can resist only so long. One guy told me it is like an alcoholic resisting drinks versus an alcoholic who also works in a bar. The easy availability is what does it.

This didn't occur to me until chatting with a number of bi guys and discussing the origins of our curiosities. I began to wonder if I was chatting with the same men over and over because the story was so consistent. I really do wonder what wives who refuse sex would think if this was more commonly accepted as a potential result of them ignoring their husband's desires. Sexless marriages can indeed lead husbands to gay sex.
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Same for me.
 
X4_Quickee said:
Hey. Mid-50’s fit MWM curious but no experience. Looking for a similar married bud for chat. I can set up a Skype account if you’re interested in chatting.
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62, bi MWM, likes your ad. would love to chat some, share fantasies, etc.
PM me.
 
curiousnme said:
Seems like the story is somewhat the same - wife stops wanting sex, man doesn’t want to cheat with a woman, so looks for the alternative. The typical problem is finding a place, as the man generally wants the pleasure from another married man. I’m finding release in watching and being watched - far safer!!
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Yes, sounds like a lot of fun.
 
Male4Strapon said:
I wonder if wives knew how often sexless marriages led to husbands turning bi, if maybe they would be more open to pleasing their husbands.
SO MANY bi men went down this route in frustration over wives refusing sex
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I also wonder how many would snap too if they were told flat out, "Honey since you don't like to suck my cock anymore I have a few buddies who are willing to take over that job. And also since you don't want to be penetrated but once in a blue moon, a few of them are willing to give up their backsides as long as I let them suck me off." I would love to do a controlled study of this with live interviews and men telling wives this. I am deeply saddened that so many women do not get it. I hate sexless marriages, there is no reason for it, otherwise why the heck did you get married? I am glad that many of you guys do not give up. We ladies who love bi men greatly appreciate you!
 
always been bi, and even after married, i've noticed my Bi side has increased in cravings. not having had a man in 10 years i guess does that lol.

Before I was married, my Bi was never as strong as after. not sure if it's because I'm married or because of the extended time away from that lifestyle.
 
dodgeboy2 said:
Don't know if you find me interesting or not, 65 mwm early years thinking I was gay, mainly since I was a very shy guy and well guys were for the most part all I hung around with, it wasn't until I was in my early 20's I figured out I was in fact bi. In my early college years and before it was just guys I had sex with until after my 2nd year in college then I dated both guys and girls until I was 23 when I decided to focus on girls then at 24 married my wife and have been very monogamous since. No she doesn't know about my past and never will since I know she would not be accepting of it. I still do have wanton desires of being with other guys but have fought those feelings for almost 40 years now. If you find me interesting I would be more than happy to chat with you.
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Very Similar situation, except concentrated on girls late teens. The bi desires really increased mid 50's and still continue to get stronger even though I don't want to mess up a marraige for sure. I think many men have this increased desire for other men as they age.
 
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