_Sin_derella
Seductive Siren!
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- Jun 18, 2023
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How does one find a legitimate Dominant? It seems there are many who pose at it on LIT. Some even go so far as to earn someone's kindness, then use it to their advantage to press for more without developing a foundation. Others take it to another level by using force or intimidation. And, then there are some who think it's ok to use the role to get themselves off, and that is not what I understood the relationship to be. I would love to hear from people who actually understand the D/s dynamic, not those pretending. People who open themselves to this dynamic should not be misled or mistreated, so an individual can be cruel, just for the sake of doing so.
Thanks for the insight you can provide.
Thanks for the insight you can provide.
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