How did your first threesome eventuate and is there anything you would have done differently to enhance the experience? The same question for hotwifey

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I need some expert advice. I've always fantasised about having a long and leisurely threesome. At first the fantasies were purely MFM however, my curiosity in women is increasing to the extent I'd consider an FMF threesome.

I suppose the thing that has stopped me from bringing my fantasy to reality is my concern that proposing this to my partner and anyone else I'd like to bring into a threesome may be met with shock or disgust or any other negative reaction.

While threesomes are a common fantasy for many of us, initiating them is a whole other ballgame (so to speak😉). I'm not sure what would be an acceptable way to dip my toe in these waters. In my mind's eye, I'd just love to have it play out naturally one afternoon (or even over a weekend away) if we had guests over, things got a bit frisky and one thing led to the other and we all just ended up having some naked fun exploring eachother and any shared fantasies. Maybe watching eachother as we all expose and masturbate ourselves, build up momentum, indulge in some mutual masturbation, and gradually fuck eachother and take turns watching, fucking and making ourselves come. Then have a lazy siesta and get at it again later in the evening. Any guidance on this or potentially hotwifey scenario would be wonderful. I'm so horny and wet I feel I could cum just writing this. Fuck it feels good. Please help this WET AF Damsel in Distress. She needs a good ravishing in the above way ASAP🙏🏿
 
Assuming you are a woman... Any woman who brings into her bed another woman ( along with her husband/male partner) and her man ( as you say):" ....may be met with shock or disgust...." may not be worth your time. Having two women in a threesome is 99 % mens' fantasy... the rest are either closet gays ( who prefer MFM. MFM threesome is just " a gay sex with a witness". ) or are too religious. So just tell him and he will be as excited as you.....:).

After you clear that, you can worry about " scenarios".
 
I had my first ffm threesome with my best friend at the time. She was a few years older than me, and we were at a party. I got seriously wasted drunk, and I told my BFF that I was ready to get devirginized.
She left for a minute, then came back and grabbed my hand and we went into her bedroom where her BF was too.
She noticed I was horrible at giving him a BJ so she taught me some pointers...
Then she ate my pussy while her BF was fucking her doggy, followed by me on my knees eating her while I finally got fucked!
It was the funnest and best 3some I've had!!!
 
I had my first ffm threesome with my best friend at the time. She was a few years older than me, and we were at a party. I got seriously wasted drunk, and I told my BFF that I was ready to get devirginized.
She left for a minute, then came back and grabbed my hand and we went into her bedroom where her BF was too.
She noticed I was horrible at giving him a BJ so she taught me some pointers...
Then she ate my pussy while her BF was fucking her doggy, followed by me on my knees eating her while I finally got fucked!
It was the funnest and best 3some I've had!!!
Oh MY GODDD!!! I can't tell you how much I enjoyed reading about this exciting first of yours🫦 Seriously girl!! My man just came home to find me GOING FOR FREAKING GggGOLD with my glass cock and vibe. Thankyou for sharing🥰 I'm sooo curious to experience this for myself (with my man of course). Would send me through the roof!!!

Do you have regular threesome friends you plan to play with? Or does it happen more organically?

Also I wanted to acknowledge your literary talents. I have a number of your stories book marked as faves and reeeeeeally, reeeeeally enjoy them. My man reaps the benefits regularly so we both THANK YOU for your work there! 🏆🥇🏆
 
I, too, have never done a three-some, but with the right couple, I'd love to see where it goes. I'm straight, but if the other guy is up to it ... :)
The closest I've ... ahem ... cum is by phone with a longtime female Lit friend, listening to her and her husband fucking while I was on speaker phone so they could hear me playing with myself in sync.
 
Wasn’t planned, by me anyway. Told this before on another thread. Short version: I was working on a horse ranch. Hard, sweaty work and I was running late to shower and change for a Beastie Boys / Fishbone concert with friends. Decided to shower at my friends oldest brother’s house since it was within walking distance to the arena and I could park at his house. Got there and was locked up and this was before cellphones so I couldn’t reach anyone. So I went next door to some girls house we had partied with before and asked to shower there. They said yes, when I got out of the shower they were naked and fingering each other on the bed. I did not make the concert.

If I would change anything it would have been to slow down and really enjoy it and watched them more. I jumped right into the fray.
 
My ex and I had a series of threesomes with a good friend of ours.

The best part was watching the two women kiss. So sweet and tender were those kisses.

The next best part was having my ex massaging the base of my cock with her hand while I was ejaculating into our friend's pussy.

The next best part was sucking on our friend's breast while my ex sucked on her other breast (yes, that did cause her to come).

All in all, good times were had by all.
 
Hot wifey. Told this before too. Had a client that was very friendly and we had messed around a few times. Told me her husband was out of town so we were at her house. Husband was watching unbeknownst to me. Wasn’t a fan of not knowing and not a fan when I found out.
 
Wasn’t planned, by me anyway. Told this before on another thread. Short version: I was working on a horse ranch. Hard, sweaty work and I was running late to shower and change for a Beastie Boys / Fishbone concert with friends. Decided to shower at my friends oldest brother’s house since it was within walking distance to the arena and I could park at his house. Got there and was locked up and this was before cellphones so I couldn’t reach anyone. So I went next door to some girls house we had partied with before and asked to shower there. They said yes, when I got out of the shower they were naked and fingering each other on the bed. I did not make the concert.

If I would change anything it would have been to slow down and really enjoy it and watched them more. I jumped right into the fray.
Now that's definitely a random and randy experience you'll NEVER forget! How lucky for you, strolling into that sexy lair! I think that's the way I'd like a threesome to evolve. Just a random situation presenting itself, no planning, no great expectations... Just three potential participants feeling conveniently amorous at the same time and deciding to wing it😉
 
Assuming you are a woman... Any woman who brings into her bed another woman ( along with her husband/male partner) and her man ( as you say):" ....may be met with shock or disgust...." may not be worth your time. Having two women in a threesome is 99 % mens' fantasy... the rest are either closet gays ( who prefer MFM. MFM threesome is just " a gay sex with a witness". ) or are too religious. So just tell him and he will be as excited as you.....:).

After you clear that, you can worry about " scenarios".
Sorry Celand. I thought I replied to your response. Love your advice and observations. Thankyou so much 🥰

I spilled about some other fantasies I'd love to experience with Light of My Life while romping with him earlier. Should have seen the grin and twinkle in his eyes - can't wipe these from the bugger's face! His response to my indecent proposal was "Geeee whiz! SOMEONE'S got it ALL mapped out haven't they...??!" and to "Watch out because he can definitely see these things happening" 😆👍 Hopefully he'll have the same cheeky enthusiasm when I spring him on how he'd REALLY feel about a threesome...🤞🤞
 
Oh MY GODDD!!! I can't tell you how much I enjoyed reading about this exciting first of yours🫦 Seriously girl!! My man just came home to find me GOING FOR FREAKING GggGOLD with my glass cock and vibe. Thankyou for sharing🥰 I'm sooo curious to experience this for myself (with my man of course). Would send me through the roof!!!

Do you have regular threesome friends you plan to play with? Or does it happen more organically?

Also I wanted to acknowledge your literary talents. I have a number of your stories book marked as faves and reeeeeeally, reeeeeally enjoy them. My man reaps the benefits regularly so we both THANK YOU for your work there! 🏆🥇🏆
*I wrote about this in my "memoir" story published... And I'm super glad you enjoy my writing style!! 😘

I've had 2 other FFM threesomes in my life besides my first. 😎
 
I, too, have never done a three-some, but with the right couple, I'd love to see where it goes. I'm straight, but if the other guy is up to it ... :)
The closest I've ... ahem ... cum is by phone with a longtime female Lit friend, listening to her and her husband fucking while I was on speaker phone so they could hear me playing with myself in sync.
Gold!!!🏆🏆🏆 That's actually a really great way to test the water for chemistry before the debut. If the phone session gets off to a mindblowing start you can keep them on speaker phone while driving over there😜
And if the phone sesh doesn't really ring your bell, you can just pretend you've got patchy reception and hang up. I like it!!!
 
My ex and I had a series of threesomes with a good friend of ours.

The best part was watching the two women kiss. So sweet and tender were those kisses.

The next best part was having my ex massaging the base of my cock with her hand while I was ejaculating into our friend's pussy.

The next best part was sucking on our friend's breast while my ex sucked on her other breast (yes, that did cause her to come).

All in all, good times were had by all.
Sounds DIVINE😵😵😵

Just out of curiosity who initiated the first threesome? Did the idea of it catch any of you by surprise? And did the friendship change in any way afterwards?

I respect if you'd rather not to divulge.
 
Sounds DIVINE😵😵😵

Just out of curiosity who initiated the first threesome? Did the idea of it catch any of you by surprise? And did the friendship change in any way afterwards?

I respect if you'd rather not to divulge.
I think that I suggested it but all three of us had been sexual partners with each other as a couple previously. So it was not a surprise but a natural result of our previous sexual relationships with each other. Our friendship was closer as a result.
 
I think that I suggested it but all three of us had been sexual partners with each other as a couple previously. So it was not a surprise but a natural result of our previous sexual relationships with each other. Our friendship was closer as a result.
That would have made it a lot easier. Also knowing what eachother enjoys sexually.
 
That would have made it a lot easier. Also knowing what eachother enjoys sexually.
True. The person who enjoyed it the most was my wife at the time. She had so many orgasms from each of us eating her pussy or being fucked while she kissed our friend or licked our friend's pussy.
 
*I wrote about this in my "memoir" story published... And I'm super glad you enjoy my writing style!! 😘

I've had 2 other FFM threesomes in my life besides my first. 😎

Hmmmm! I "may" have read and enjoyed that very sexy Memoir...I thought the story sounded familiar to what you describe here.😘

I hope you keep writing! I love the way you write. You describe and depict things well which is important. Ends up a way sexier experience for me than if I was watching porn. Reading and audio erotica is way more conducive to me to let my imagination run wild.
 
Hmmmm! I "may" have read and enjoyed that very sexy Memoir...I thought the story sounded familiar to what you describe here.😘

I hope you keep writing! I love the way you write. You describe and depict things well which is important. Ends up a way sexier experience for me than if I was watching porn. Reading and audio erotica is way more conducive to me to let my imagination run wild.
I have a new story getting published tomorrow, I Believe🤩😉
It's rather taboo
 
Now that's definitely a random and randy experience you'll NEVER forget! How lucky for you, strolling into that sexy lair! I think that's the way I'd like a threesome to evolve. Just a random situation presenting itself, no planning, no great expectations... Just three potential participants feeling conveniently amorous at the same time and deciding to wing it😉
Apparently, it wasn’t random on their part. What I was told was they didn’t think I would freak out or be intimidated. I didn’t freak out but there was some intimidation, just didn’t show it.
 
Apparently, it wasn’t random on their part. What I was told was they didn’t think I would freak out or be intimidated. I didn’t freak out but there was some intimidation, just didn’t show it.
Haha! Sneaky little fuckers, planning to spring you like that🤣 Good on you for admitting "some" intimidation AND riding it out. Would have been fun!
 
I need some expert advice. I've always fantasised about having a long and leisurely threesome. At first the fantasies were purely MFM however, my curiosity in women is increasing to the extent I'd consider an FMF threesome.

I suppose the thing that has stopped me from bringing my fantasy to reality is my concern that proposing this to my partner and anyone else I'd like to bring into a threesome may be met with shock or disgust or any other negative reaction.

While threesomes are a common fantasy for many of us, initiating them is a whole other ballgame (so to speak😉). I'm not sure what would be an acceptable way to dip my toe in these waters. In my mind's eye, I'd just love to have it play out naturally one afternoon (or even over a weekend away) if we had guests over, things got a bit frisky and one thing led to the other and we all just ended up having some naked fun exploring eachother and any shared fantasies. Maybe watching eachother as we all expose and masturbate ourselves, build up momentum, indulge in some mutual masturbation, and gradually fuck eachother and take turns watching, fucking and making ourselves come. Then have a lazy siesta and get at it again later in the evening. Any guidance on this or potentially hotwifey scenario would be wonderful. I'm so horny and wet I feel I could cum just writing this. Fuck it feels good. Please help this WET AF Damsel in Distress. She needs a good ravishing in the above way ASAP🙏🏿
So, my first was… interesting.
I was 19. I think I’ll answer the question about what I would’ve done differently first. Then I’ll tell you the story… (It seems that you like the story part, a lot)
The main thing I would’ve done – and this perspective was really only available to me in hindsight – would be to have paid equal attention to both of the women.
One of the women involved was an ex-girlfriend who was still very much in love with me, though I not so much with her. The friend that she brought along was someone that I had secretly begun seeing several months beforehand. And, she was the epitome of sexual perfection for me. We couldn’t get enough of each other. Thus, the night ended in disaster. No exaggeration.
 
I need some expert advice. I've always fantasised about having a long and leisurely threesome. At first the fantasies were purely MFM however, my curiosity in women is increasing to the extent I'd consider an FMF threesome.

I suppose the thing that has stopped me from bringing my fantasy to reality is my concern that proposing this to my partner and anyone else I'd like to bring into a threesome may be met with shock or disgust or any other negative reaction.

While threesomes are a common fantasy for many of us, initiating them is a whole other ballgame (so to speak😉). I'm not sure what would be an acceptable way to dip my toe in these waters. In my mind's eye, I'd just love to have it play out naturally one afternoon (or even over a weekend away) if we had guests over, things got a bit frisky and one thing led to the other and we all just ended up having some naked fun exploring eachother and any shared fantasies. Maybe watching eachother as we all expose and masturbate ourselves, build up momentum, indulge in some mutual masturbation, and gradually fuck eachother and take turns watching, fucking and making ourselves come. Then have a lazy siesta and get at it again later in the evening. Any guidance on this or potentially hotwifey scenario would be wonderful. I'm so horny and wet I feel I could cum just writing this. Fuck it feels good. Please help this WET AF Damsel in Distress. She needs a good ravishing in the above way ASAP🙏🏿
But, here was the event in question:
I was 19, like I said, and I was only recently out of the Canadian military. I had started modelling just a few months beforehand.
One of the largest agencies in North America at the time – John Casablanca’s – had put on a major male modelling competition – Discovery ‘83. Apparently 5000 men across North America – but mostly from Canada, from what I could tell – had entered. They whittled that down to, if memory serves, 13 of us.
Despite my lack of experience, I had managed to place second, with the winner being a slightly older, much more experienced guy who was represented by Casablanca’s (go figure).
Either way, it was a huge deal for me…
And, it was a huge deal for my ex who was my loudest supporter that night in the theatre. She had brought her/our friend Linda along to support me.
But, I ended up going home that night with one of the judges from the competition, someone I had known casually for years and was looking forward to getting to know better. We were hanging out at my place, on the eighth floor of an apartment building a block from the beach, when my buzzer rang.
It was Terry, my ex. She was very excited, and screamed at me through the intercom to get my ass downstairs as she had a surprise for me.
My new friend demurred quietly and exited stage left.
I went downstairs, where Terry was waiting outside the building. (Backstory: she used to live in the same building, two floors up from me, which is how we ended up together in the first place. After we broke up, she moved out of the building.)
She congratulated me, and then said, “Go and see who’s waiting in the cab.”
I go over to the cab, and Linda pops out of the window from the backseat, grabs me by the back of my neck, and shoves her tongue down my throat. As she is doing her best to pull me in the window of the cab, Terry grabs my legs and lifts them up, trying to shove me in through the window.
They both giggle something about kidnapping me away from my new friend. I then broke it to them that my friend had taken off when they had buzzed, so kidnapping wasn’t necessary.
Long story short, we ended up naked and in my bed a few minutes later.
So, trying to be chivalrous – for want of a better word – I fucked Terry first. But… and this is a very big BUT… while I was fucking Terry, I was passionately kissing Linda.
I was so fucking turned on, my first threesome, slamming away into my ex-girlfriend while kissing my incredible new lover, everybody screaming and moaning, and both Terry and I came pretty quickly.
There was some sucking and kissing, and very quickly I was on top of and deep inside Linda.
BUT I wasn’t exactly chivalrous when it came to my time with her. That is to say, I didn’t want to kiss Terry while I was fucking Linda. Linda was my turn-on. Linda was the main event. Linda was dinner and dessert.
We were so lost in each other that we barely noticed when Terry got out of bed, took her clothes, and must’ve gotten dressed in the living room. The first we knew about it, the door was slamming.
We came out of our bubble, looked around, realised that we were down one person, asked one another if we should go after her, but both agreed it was pretty futile at that moment, so we may as well just enjoy the time that we had together.
Linda‘s legs were wrapped around my back, my cock was deep inside of her, and that’s when the shit hit the fan. Technically, that’s when the purse hit the window.
There was a loud knock at the door.
Linda and I were loud enough that it’s possible that it was the most recent of several loud knocks, but either way, I slipped on my jeans, taking great care not to break my cock in half, and tiptoed to the door to look through the peephole.
It wasn’t Terry. It wasn’t my neighbours. It was my landlords. Technically, the building managers, a 30 something couple who had taken over about six months earlier.
I opened up the door affixing my most disarming smile to my face, and asked, “Is everything o—?”
But everything was not okay. One of them was holding up a purse that I immediately recognised. It was Terry‘s. Apparently, she had screamed like a deranged wounded animal when she got downstairs, and then pitched her purse through their floor-to-ceiling plate glass window on the ground floor.
So, yeah… Like I said in my first answer: I would definitely make sure that everybody got equal time, even if my passion for one of them was worn out whereas the other one was, to me, like mainlining Viagra and cocaine.
 
I was the 3rd in my first experiences. The first time, an ex girlfriend and her husband( who had become a good friend ). They and their kids were traveling and stopped for an over night break at my house. Their kids were well asleep when I went to my room( work the next morning) and a few minutes later the couple slipped into my room, naked, the wife slid up under the covers from the bottom of the bed and started giving me a BJ, followed by her husband who fucked her from behind. I was pretty stunned. A few days later the husband called and told me a story about being recruited by a couple to join them years before. Part of that story included an explanation of how multi orgasmic women could be and how much fun it could be to have another guy, into the woman as well, to team up for her pleasure! He should have told me that story BEFORE the first time, LOL, I would have been much more comfortable. We did play together a little more, but more a "hotwife" type thing. He would call and tell me she was passing through, wanted to spend the night, and we should enjoy each other. Great deal for him in terms of the "Hotwife" scenario suppose to include the husband getting a lot of detail. Not only did his wife tell him about it, so did I. He got both stories. I had a similar experience with another married couple, friends, but by surprise. As well as a room mate and I with one of my cousins( A very naughty girl, her idea), as well as with two ex girlfriends in fmf. With both the married couples it would have been better if the husbands had talked to me before hand so I had some idea where it was headed, but I was a good partner, always about pleasuring the woman, never any kind of negative energy between the guys.
Married, the first time was with a casual friend who had gotten a little overly flirty with my wife. When I showed up at his place to "discuss" his being inappropriate with her, he thought he was in trouble. But after a few minutes of telling him his "compliments" had turned her on, a brief story revealing my past experience as the extra guy and if he was interested in playing the same way, and the simple rules: It's about pleasing her and if anyone gets uncomfortable we speak up, work it out, go a different direction, or stop. No harm no foul. And he came home with me and we had a great time pleasuring my wife. That was probably the only good experience. It was really difficult to find men among our friends that had a decent attitude for it, mostly they wanted her, but didn't want to share. We did hook up with a stranger from am adult site, he had a good attitude but it was uncomfortable.( for the most bizarre reason, an anonymous hook up and in a city of half a million it turned out he shared office space for 12 years with my brother!) And the one time my wife invited one of her girlfriends to play, my wife discovered she did NOT like sharing me, LOL.
Anyway, my advice is that if you are looking for a partner as a couple, make it a single friend that maybe hasn't been dating successfully recently, so they appreciate the offer. The partner of the same sex ( husband with a man, wife with a woman)have a casual chat with the "recruit" in advance( at least a few minutes ) so the 3rd has a clue what's going on. Or try an adult hook up site if you prefer anonymous ( tedious and time consuming, but wife and I did meet a few real people that way.)
 
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