Fetish of the Week 01: Pregnancy (Conception, Pregnant Women, Lactation, Birth Control)

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So, here's the first (and, hell, who knows, maybe the last) of my brand spanking new idea for ways to make this forum less boring.

TheRedChamber presents...
Fetish of the Week
for the Week starting 26th February 2024.

In this week's episode: sex, but the kind of sex that can leave her with a hell of a lot more than a smile on her face. That beautiful moment of conception either planned or unplanned, the changes in her body over three whole trimesters, the anticipation as the father of the life blooming inside her decides either to embrace her bulge lovingly in his arms or else buy a plane ticket for another continent. That moment, seconds after birth, where he holds the child in his hands, looks deep into its eyes, and then realizes there's no way it's actually his. And because we cast our net wide on FotW, we also get lactation, the nectar of life flowing from her breasts to, well, someone other than nature's indented recipient.

So, authors of Lit...

Sub-Fetishes:
Breeding and Conception, Sex with or as a Pregnant Woman, Lactation Play, Birth Control, Paternity Doubts, Romance and Relationships while Pregnant, Pregnancy Fears

(Questions will be fairly standard each week, with occassional fetish-specific ones)

1) Have you written a story with this fetish (yes, this is a self-promotion space.) Feel free to post any passages which you particularly think captured the concept well.
2) How did you approach the fetish? What parts of it turn you on? Which parts leave you cold?
3) Is there a big Lit market for this fetish? What do readers want? What don't they want?
4) If this fetish leaves you completely cold, we still want to hear from you and why you are so disgusted with the rest of us.
5) Have I missed any aspects of this fetish?
6) Do you have this fetish in real life, any experiences you want to share, or is it purely an on-the-page fantasy?
 
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4) I've never had any interest in procreating (I'm probably an evolutionary dead end), and to me pregnancy just seems at odds with the idea of "sex purely for fun and pleasure".

But great idea for a thread and ongoing series!
 
As far as my experience goes, pregnancy fears after some silly heat of the moment behaviour have only ever stressed me the fuck out :oops: :p

(sounds like a great idea for a weekly thing! I'm not the one for this specific fetish either, as I haven't written anything about it, but interested to see other replies and have enjoyed the odd story)
 
I've got a breast feeding story, three parts.

I'll Need to Change the Sheets

It plugs in on my own experience, sharing milk with my son for quite some time, and extends that truth into a fantasy about a young woman I knew on Friday nights at my daughter's netball.

The first chapter got as high as #43 in the Fetish All Time Hall of Fame, which is an indication as to how popular the fetish is.

The second chapter went full porno with a three way encounter, while the third part brought it back to intimacy.

As with all my stories, the suspension of disbelief gets anchored by very solid chunks of truth. Readers can decide whatever they want about that, they can think the whole thing is fiction, I don't care. I know the bits that tie the story down.
 
So, here's the first (and, hell, who knows, maybe the last) of my brand spanking new idea for ways to make this forum less boring.

TheRedChamber presents...
Fetish of the Week
for the Week starting 26th February 2024.

In this week's episode: sex, but the kind of sex that can leave her with a hell of a lot more than a smile on her face. That beautiful moment of conception either planned or unplanned, the changes in her body over three whole trimesters, the anticipation as the father of the life blooming inside her decides either to embrace her bulge lovingly in his arms or else buy a plane ticket for another continent. That moment, seconds after birth, where he holds the child in his hands, looks deep into its eyes, and then realizes there's no way it's actually his. And because we cast our net wide on FotW, we also get lactation, the nectar of life flowing from her breasts to, well, someone other than nature's indented recipient.

So, authors of Lit...

Sub-Fetishes:
Breeding and Conception, Sex with or as a Pregnant Woman, Lactation Play, Birth Control, Paternity Doubts, Romance and Relationships while Pregnant, Pregnancy Fears

(Questions will be fairly standard each week, with occassional fetish-specific ones)

1) Have you written a story with this fetish (yes, this is a self-promotion space.) Feel free to post any passages which you particularly think captured the concept well.
2) How did you approach the fetish? What parts of it turn you on? Which parts leave you cold?
3) Is there a big Lit market for this fetish? What do readers want? What don't they want?
4) If this fetish leaves you completely cold, we still want to hear from you and why you are so disgusted with the rest of us.
5) Have I missed any aspects of this fetish?
6) Do you have this fetish in real life, any experiences you want to share, or is it purely an on-the-page fantasy?
1) Not yet.
2) Oh I love it. One of the best parts about having a kid. Never got to try it in coffee, though.
3) Shrugs
6) I have bred people, I have a preggo fetish and titty milk fetish.
 
I don't really see it as a fetish, although I can understand how someone could. It's just a natural part of sex. I will say that unprotected sex is hotter and more intimate and the lack of birth control and general risk can really heighten the tension in a scene. There's also just that added emotion involved in that primal aspect of natural selection. You're not just fucking or getting fucked, you are choosing or being chosen on some level, even if there is no intention to make a baby.
 
1) I have never written a story featuring this fetish.
2) /
3) There is a pretty large market for this fetish. It is often interconnected with harem kink, and judging by the popularity of stories featuring these fetishes, and the popularity of erotic games that feature these fetishes, yeah, it is quite lucrative to include it.
4) It's definitely not my thing. To me, breeding implies submissive women or women in their traditional roles. Also, I find the idea of sex with a pregnant woman quite repulsive in general. The idea of intercourse while there is a baby inside, and so physically close to my thing... It feels wrong on so many levels 🤢
5) I don't think you missed much except that it's often connected to harem kink.
6) No real-life desires for this fetish whatsoever.
 
1) Have you written a story with this fetish (yes, this is a self-promotion space.) Feel free to post any passages which you particularly think captured the concept well.
Yes.
In My Mom Competes with my Stepmom, Bryson knocks up both his stepmom Allison and his mom.
I sat down next to Allison and asked, "You okay?"

"Yes and no. I'm still very angry at your father. Friday when he came home, he told me he'd be gone Tuesday and Wednesday night. I told him that those would be my most fertile nights of this cycle. He agreed to postpone those trips."

Allison suddenly spun on the couch while going up on her knees. She then threw a knee over me, so she was straddling my lap, facing me. She towered over me in that position. She looked down at me and asked, "Do you know what that bastard told me this morning?" She pulled the zipper on her jacket down a few inches.

"No idea."

Allison pulled the zipper down a few more inches. I could see she wasn't wearing a bra. "He told me that he had changed his mind; that it'd be too hard to reschedule those trips. He was close to closing two big deals, and he didn't want to lose momentum. So he'll be gone my two most fertile days. After he promised me he'd be here." She pulled the zip down some more so only a few inches were left unzipped. The jacket had spread open and I could now see the sides of her magnificent tits. Dad's house had a pool in the backyard, and I had seen Allison in a bikini many times, but I had never seen this much of her boobflesh before. The skin I could see was flawless.

"Your father doesn't seem interested in performing his husbandly duties." She finished unzipping the jacket and it hung open, showing lots of enticing skin and even more boobflesh. "I told you the last time you were here how important it was to me to get pregnant this cycle." Allison was now holding the zipper ends of her jacket and had pulled her jacket even wider. I could see even more of her tits now. I suspect I was close to seeing the dark ring around her nipple. "I've been thinking of a Plan B in case your father did something stupid like this."

Allison put her hands on my shoulder and leaned closer. Her boobs were only a few inches from my mouth. "Bryson, I want you to do me a huge favor." I knew I should be looking at her face, but I couldn't resist staring at her boobs. "This has to be absolutely secret. Not the slightest slip to anyone ever about this. Promise me you'll never tell anyone about what I'm about to ask you."

The main thought in my head was to kiss Allison's gorgeous boobs. I pushed that aside long enough to say, "I promise."

"Bryson, I want you to get me pregnant this week. I want you to fill me up this morning with your fertile spermies so that when my egg drops tomorrow or Wednesday, it'll have a massive sea of spermies to swim through. And I want you to keep filling me with your spermies. I want to be so full of your spermies that there's no way I won't get pregnant. Would you like to do that, Bryson? Would you like to fill me up with your lovely spermies?"

When I republished A Week at the Lake with My Sister for the second time, I added an epilogue where the brother knocks up the sister and then, nine months later, the sister gives birth to their baby. It was very much the fulfillment of the sister's plans for her life.

In Sister Has a Plan, the sister moves in with her brother when she has a five-month-old who she is breastfeeding. She briefly breastfeeds her brother.

In Carpooling With My Sister and My Lingerie-Loving Sister Moves In, I hint that the brother and sister will make a baby someday soon.

2) How did you approach the fetish? What parts of it turn you on? Which parts leave you cold?
I approached it differently every time. I'm not just throwing it in; it has to make sense for the story I'm writing. The couple has to be in a position where they can handle an addition to the family.

3) Is there a big Lit market for this fetish? What do readers want? What don't they want?
In I/T, impregnation is big. As family members can't marry, deciding to make a baby is the biggest commitment they can make. "My Mom Competes with my Stepmom" reached the top of the 30-day Most Favorited Story list after one week. With the stories where I hint they'll make a baby soon, many of the comments I get are excited about that idea.

4) If this fetish leaves you completely cold, we still want to hear from you and why you are so disgusted with the rest of us.
--Skipped--

5) Have I missed any aspects of this fetish?
With I/T, commitment is a huge part of the fetish. They are going to be together forever and want to have a family together.

6) Do you have this fetish in real life, any experiences you want to share, or is it purely an on-the-page fantasy?
No.
 
I'll certainly mention one subset, 'pregnancy fears', given that birth control of all varieties is not a foolproof solution (even surgical approaches are not always 100% effective.)

Now of course, given the nature of this site, and the fantasy aspect of much sex depicted here, this will be a gloss for most stories, but it definitely shows up and is an issue in more than a small percentage of tales. One paragraph from one of my offerings:

Inside me! I had not let sperm from any man enter me without some protection for many years. All of this had happened so quickly. And now a mass of little, single-celled flagellates were fighting their way to their hoped-for meeting with my ova. I panicked and urged him out.
 
Back when 50 Shades came out and newspapers were calling it 'mummy porn', some friends and I joked that real mummy porn would be along the lines of "yes, I will do lots of filthy things to you, but first you will be forced to have a nap!"

So I wrote Mummy Porn and eventually posted it here. But being almost the opposite of a fetish story, it didn't get appreciated much - 'not what I was expecting' said the comments.

The Bet ch2 includes a section discussing fertility treatment and the effect of relevant drugs (making you want to shag everyone in sight and making it really hard to resist groping a cop in jodhpurs...) It's just part of the storyline (the The Bet series is the heterosexual parts of the Smoking Hot series), but there's a potential Fetish or Mind Control story there!

I'm thinking of writing a First Time story - first time having sex after giving birth...
 
1) Have you written a story with this fetish … ?

Yes. It’s stored in ‘Draft’, but I’m undecided whether it’s too tasteless to publish.


2) How did you approach the fetish? What parts of it turn you on? Which parts leave you cold?

Any guy who’s fathered children will appreciate the allure of a pregnant wife. Inspired by real events, this features a girl pregnant by another, who’s left in a desperate situation. The exploitative aspect is distasteful. I’ve written it as a romance with a HEA.


3) Is there a big Lit market for this fetish? What do readers want? What don't they want?

Don’t know. I suspect the fetishists would enjoy the exploitation rather than the romance.


4), 5) and 6) follow from 1) and 2).
 
1. Out of my forty-some stories, there are only a handful that don't include an impregnation or two.
2. For people who are into breeding/impregnation, I think it's a primal desire kind of thing - spreading your genes and leaving your mark on someone in a very permanent way. My stories focus on the beginning of the pregnancy, because the sex is, well, sexy, but there's no part of it that turns me off.
3. There is a market for stories involving pregnancy, certainly. I don't play excessively to the numbers, but my stories often mention breeding or impregnation in the subtitle and they get decent views. Readers into impregnation seem to like dialog about possible pregnancy during the sex, a narrative focus on how unprotected it is, and sometimes a scene that shows the characters later on once they are pregnant.
(4 and 5 don't apply to me much so others can speak to them).
6. I definitely have this fetish in real life, but my partner and I have kept it to two kids because children are expensive and the world is getting crowded. It's not a hard fetish to play with, though - you can talk about it during sex, and if you're using the pill or the like for protection, your lizard brain doesn't know that it's not for real.
 
Yes. It’s stored in ‘Draft’, but I’m undecided whether it’s too tasteless to publish.
Come on, don't leave us hanging...

I'm thinking of writing a First Time story - first time having sex after giving birth...
That's...actually a really good idea. I'm thinking of stealing it and doing it from the husband's point of view. The exhuastion, the guilt, the fear of the baby waking up halfway through. Might have to go in non-erotic though.
 
1) Have you written a story with this fetish (yes, this is a self-promotion space.) Feel free to post any passages which you particularly think captured the concept well.
2) How did you approach the fetish? What parts of it turn you on? Which parts leave you cold?
3) Is there a big Lit market for this fetish? What do readers want? What don't they want?
4) If this fetish leaves you completely cold, we still want to hear from you and why you are so disgusted with the rest of us.
5) Have I missed any aspects of this fetish?
6) Do you have this fetish in real life, any experiences you want to share, or is it purely an on-the-page fantasy?
1. Working on it. Breeding, lactation, breastfeeding, uninhibited public sex. About half done and after tomorrow it's #1 on my hit parade.
2. Science fiction. A group of colonists meet an alien species and there are after-affects.
3. I think there is. I'd read it.
6. That's kinda personal but umm ...............................................................yeah.
 
1. Like some of the other authors above, almost all of my stories involve impregnation.
2. One thing I try to bring to impregnation is to emphasize that the woman is already willing to have kids. Being misleading about the real father (in the case of mind control or noncon) is one thing. I think it works best when the woman is already willing to have children instead of forcing her to carry it, since it lets you fully indulge in the primal satisfaction of impregnation. For men and women, spreading your genes and ensuring part of you will live on is a very powerful turn-on, as is knowing you are using your and your partner's body for its intended purpose.
3. I'd say yes.
4. N/A
5. N/A
6. I have no kids and no s.o. atm, but I definitely find this erotic in real life.

I think my best-written story may be "Fuck You, Dick!" in terms of writing and imagery, but my "Lending Her Body" series best captures the 'already willing to have kids' theme I mentioned. It involves body possession and mind control to ensure women have no memory of the father of their child, but they were already willing to have that child.

A more humorous take on this willingness theme should be arriving soon (God willing). My latest submitted story is called "International Copulation Day"
 
Just for reference - I'm guessing that Lit doesn't have a 'babes in arms' exception for children under one, when it comes to being in the same room as sexual activity? Still forbidden, even if the child is asleep?

I guess my new parents will have to break health guidelines and have the baby sleep in a different room, if they're going to be allowed to get it on themselves.

I hope a fetus kicking in response to parental activity is still allowed.

Out of interest, are American parent and baby movie showings allowed to show age-restricted films? In England they have to ensure no babies over 12 months see a 12,15 or 18 rated film (there's no exceptions for being with an adult unless it's a 12A), so you get mums shocked that their kid has been banned aged one year! (I'm quite proud my son was thrown out of his first pub age 6 months! Rite of passage.)

I might write a pregnancy sex story, but again, it would disappoint the fetishists, because the content would be way more like:

"Could I persuade you into a bit of sex?"
"Oh, the mind is willing, love! This body, however..."
"You're gorgeous, love!"
"I know! This whole 'blooming' thing, innit? No, it's just - don't be offended if I fall asleep in the middle of it. Feel free to keep going!"
"Uh-huh. Not sure I could..."

(Bloke eventually gets the hang of keeping going even as she, yet again, falls asleep on him!)

Actually, postnatal sex can be pretty similar...
 
Just for reference - I'm guessing that Lit doesn't have a 'babes in arms' exception for children under one, when it comes to being in the same room as sexual activity? Still forbidden, even if the child is asleep?
You've got to have the kid out of the room, and ideally, out of the house. Having written babes in arms in several stories, my rule is keep the child well away physically, and at least five hundred words away from the sex.
I guess my new parents will have to break health guidelines and have the baby sleep in a different room, if they're going to be allowed to get it on themselves.
Yes, that's playing it safe.
I hope a fetus kicking in response to parental activity is still allowed.
I think I've written that, but don't make a fetish thing of it.
(I'm quite proud my son was thrown out of his first pub age 6 months! Rite of passage.)
Well done! I'm impressed!
I might write a pregnancy sex story, but again, it would disappoint the fetishists, because the content would be way more like:

"Could I persuade you into a bit of sex?"
"Oh, the mind is willing, love! This body, however..."
"You're gorgeous, love!"
"I know! This whole 'blooming' thing, innit? No, it's just - don't be offended if I fall asleep in the middle of it. Feel free to keep going!"
"Uh-huh. Not sure I could..."
(Bloke eventually gets the hang of keeping going even as she, yet again, falls asleep on him!)
Very romantic. Also, very true to life!
Actually, postnatal sex can be pretty similar...
That's when the breast feeding kink kicks in.
 
You've got to have the kid out of the room, and ideally, out of the house. Having written babes in arms in several stories, my rule is keep the child well away physically, and at least five hundred words away from the sex.

But is there an actual written rule anywhere?
 
I like the idea of the thread. Unfortunately I never quite understood this particular fetish.

Not that pregnant women aren't attractive. I just don't get the whole "breed me" thing. Most guys trying to just get laid wanna avoid the pregnancy thing at all costs lol.

Plus I just can't equate the "fantasy" of "breeding" a woman with the reality that now there's a living breathing child involved that will need serious parents to raise it. Oops, not just a kinky rush now is it?

Hey no kink shaming though, right?

Closest I came to the festish was in The White Room, where at the end we find out the aliens want our trapped protagonists to breed.

I had several people tell me I should have tagged with "breeding fetish" but I didn't really think of or see it that way, although the characters were in love and were happy and excited to make the baby.
 
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Not that pregnant women aren't attractive. I just don't get the whole "breed me" thing. Most guys trying to just get laid wanna avoid the pregnancy thing at all costs lol.

Plus I just can't equate the "fantasy" of "breeding" a woman with the reality that now there's a living breathing child involved that will need serious parents to raise it. Oops, not just a kinky rush now is it?

To be clear I put 'breeding and conception' together as I've done a couple of 'loving couples ready to be parents' stories as the other side of the coin.

The nice thing about fantasy is that it stops when you want it to (usually) and usually doesn't pop round to demand child support.
 
You've got to have the kid out of the room, and ideally, out of the house. Having written babes in arms in several stories, my rule is keep the child well away physically, and at least five hundred words away from the sex.
I've had many an under-18 need to not be within earshot of any sex, but I find a new paragraph suffices, after explaining how they are definitely upstairs/downstairs or in a different field.
 
1) Have you written a story with this fetish (yes, this is a self-promotion space.) Feel free to post any passages which you particularly think captured the concept well.
Not about pregnancy itself, but Elizabeth pt 7 does have some lactation play.
2) How did you approach the fetish? What parts of it turn you on? Which parts leave you cold?
I don't find pregnancy in general sexy. Just not my thing.
3) Is there a big Lit market for this fetish? What do readers want? What don't they want?
Having never tried to find said market, I really don't know. I do know the story I linked to above is by far the lowest rated of the ten installments in the Elizabeth series, but I suspect that's because a major character dies. I doubt it's because of the sex scenes, which in my opinion are some of my very best.
4) If this fetish leaves you completely cold, we still want to hear from you and why you are so disgusted with the rest of us.
I'm not disgusted with you, I just don't share your fetish. Why not? As a man I can only go by what I've heard, but pregnancy does not sound like much fun.
5) Have I missed any aspects of this fetish?
Not that I know of.
6) Do you have this fetish in real life, any experiences you want to share, or is it purely an on-the-page fantasy?
I've had sex with a few mothers, but not while they were actually pregnant.
 
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