Anyone have the urge to receive but not give?

[Travisspank]

I am a married discrete bi guy, with guys I’ve always wanted to receive. In over 20 years of having fun with guys I’ve only topped once and it honestly didn’t do anything for me. I guess I’m just built to take cock!

 

[regina75]

I like both but recieving more

 

[Escierto]

Some guys believe if they only recieve and don't give, that they will be totally sraight. I've had several friends in the past that actually believed that. It was a running joke in the "straight" male for years! I've done both, although I prefer to give.

I don't understand this. They think they are straight if they are being penetrated? Or doing the penetration?

 

[Britva415]

I don't understand this. They think they are straight if they are being penetrated? Or doing the penetration?

He might have meant oral, which was what OP was talking about ... 7 years ago.

 

[Escierto]

He might have meant oral, which was what OP was talking about ... 7 years ago.

Straight if they suck? Or are sucked?

 

[peter49parker]

It's funny the the lengths some guys will go to, to maintain their "straight" identity. From my point of view, it doesn't really matter, if you are having sex with women, and men, you are bisexual. There is nothing wrong with being bi. Embrace it. If you want to keep it on the down low, by all means keep it discreet. One guy I talked to, went so far as to describe himself as straight, because he would 'never' kiss another man. He would suck his cock and get his cock sucked in return, but the lack of kissing is what determines his straight vs bisexual orientation. Just my 2 cents.

 

[likitisplit]

Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?

actually i'm more into giving.

 

[womaneater58]

It's nice to receive, just lay back and enjoy watching her but doesn't last long as I'm not selfish and love 69.

 

[Transguycharlie]

Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?

I’ve always been expected to give and not receive but in all honesty receiving oral off people without having to give it is a fantasy of mine

 

[tommypdx]

Personally, and this is not to suggest others should agree, but I do not "choose" to have a label. My ex-wife disagrees. By the time she graduated from high school, more than 40 years ago, (for the record, 1 year after I did), she had "earned" an honorary "Gold Medal", from her graduating class of over 400, as "Best Blow Job, "Most Cocks Sucked", and "Most Attractive", which, honestly, was NOT BECAUSE of the first two medals. On the contrary, she simply had more opportunities than

As a "recovering Catholic", and having graduated college as a virgin, but NOT by choice, I found my interest in "non-traditional" relationships to stretch.

At age 26, less than a year after losing my virginity, I met a spectacularly beautiful, enchanting young woman. Her life had been the opposite of my own. Her mother was exceptionally permissive, to the point of having countless affairs, resulting in a divorce, when my wife was turning 7. Her mother then continued her a series of affairs, each with married men, leaving her daughters, ages 6 & 7 (my future wife is the older of the two) alone for most weekends.

At this young age, my future wife learned to seek the attention of other men, seeking the attention of other men by way of the same promiscuous behaviors that she had learned from her mother.

In high school, my wife was voted the "Gold Medal", from the general student body, for "Most Attractive", which probably enhanced her "unofficial Gold Medals", as per a private vote from only the male portion of her graduating class, as "Best Blow Job", "Most Cocks Sucked", and "Most Willing", and the only member of her graduating class, of over 400 students, with a count of ">100 dicks sucked".

When we met, when I was 26, I had only had sexual encounters with 2 women, both within the last year, and only twice with one, and once with the other. Frankly, when my new girlfriend divulged her past, I found it strangely enticing. I even permitted, and encouraged, her future encounters, which stretched through our marriage of over 25 years.

She had at least one annual extramarital encounter, while we were married, and I admit that I was quite the cuckold, as I was as active a participant as possible! I cherished the opportunity to bathe her, and delicately and diligently shave her to ensure that she was perfectly prepared to please her eager partner. I am confident that everybody involved appreciated my efforts.

As the comparatively wealthy cuckold, I was aroused at the opportunity to be the "provider", paying for the hotel room, the dinner, and any alcohol, and even 100% of the airfare, a full week's stay at a luxury resort in Hawaii, including all meals, entertainment, including a luxury luau, a helicopter tour, and I even delivered my wife to their shared motel room for the night before the flight, only to walk her to the room, where he was already asleep, give her the key, watch her enter, glance at me with thanks, close the door, then hear him wake up, as she entered the room, hear her climb in be with him, and hear them eagerly fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck and fuck.

She would call me, daily, from Hawaii, and give me the erotic details of their activities. He was a very lucky man. He was the best-looking man she had ever known, he had one of the biggest dicks she had ever experience, and this is out of well over 100 dicks, he could last "for countless hours", as she put it, and he was a "magnificent specimen of male sexual perfection", as she put it. Each night, she described the multi-hour event as "the best fucking I have ever had!" She admitted that, as much as she wanted to see and experience the joys of the island, she was too busy enjoying the experience and joys of his fucking, to they rarely left the room!

I lay alone, in bed, luxuriating in my self-created "Ultimate Cuckold Fantasy", knowing that I had not only permitted such an encounter, but that I had stayed home, working, so I could PAY for my wife to "get her brains fucked out better than she could ever imagine!" Hearing my well-fucked wife THANK ME for being so accepting, so willing to pay, so eager to hear her thrilling details, then hearing her "I have to go, now. I can hear him desperately begging me for another fuck-fest and I NEED as much of this as I can get! Excuse me, now. I don't want to make him wait!"

I lost count of how many times I came, just imagining her getting fucked so well. She even called her best friend and gave her the details, BEFORE she called me with the details. Somehow, I found that slightly degrading and OH, how THAT added to my cuckold fantasy! I LOVED being her HUSBAND, her PROVIDER, and the father of her children, but a DISTANT SECOND PLACE, AT BEST, regarding her sexual satisfaction, her pussy-pummeling partner, her favorite suck-stick, and, frankly, hearing each erotic detail of his ABSOLUTE SEXUAL SUPERIORITY in every regard!

I cuckoldly cherish each of the several nights he spent at our house, while our children slept, and he slept upstairs in the guest quarters of our 12,000+ square foot mansion, only to be awakened because my wife could not fall sleep next to me, in our marital bed, only to beg me to escort her to his room, ensuring that our sleeping children were unaware, only to "deliver her" to him as a "gift for the evening".

Sadly, of the countless times they fucked the night away, inside the mansion that I provided, while I slept alone, downstairs, there was only one occasion when, after she spent several hours fucking and sucking him, that she returned to our marital bed, full of many of his loads, and provide me with my one-and-only delectible "sloppy seconds" experience.

 

[Transguycharlie]

I'm at the point I want to try it all, cause it's my fantasy.

I’d suck the fuck out of you

 

[phreedom]

I love to suck and love to bottom, and I don’t really need a guy to do anything else for me. If he likes to kiss and suck my nipples that’s a huge plus, but not necessary for me to feel fulfilled.

 

[Britva415]

It's funny the the lengths some guys will go to, to maintain their "straight" identity. From my point of view, it doesn't really matter, if you are having sex with women, and men, you are bisexual. There is nothing wrong with being bi. Embrace it. If you want to keep it on the down low, by all means keep it discreet. One guy I talked to, went so far as to describe himself as straight, because he would 'never' kiss another man. He would suck his cock and get his cock sucked in return, but the lack of kissing is what determines his straight vs bisexual orientation. Just my 2 cents.

People aren't widely aware of the separation of romantic vs. sexual orientations.

Maybe these guys would own up to being bisexual but heteroromantic?

Maybe not.

 

[guns4444]

I want to suck and stroke and swallow a mans cum, and want nothing in return. I want to jerkoff to it later

 

[Vitriolhack]

Personally, and this is not to suggest others should agree, but I do not "choose" to have a label. My ex-wife disagrees. By the time she graduated from high school, more than 40 years ago, (for the record, 1 year after I did), she had "earned" an honorary "Gold Medal", from her graduating class of over 400, as "Best Blow Job, "Most Cocks Sucked", and "Most Attractive", which, honestly, was NOT BECAUSE of the first two medals. On the contrary, she simply had more opportunities than

As a "recovering Catholic", and having graduated college as a virgin, but NOT by choice, I found my interest in "non-traditional" relationships to stretch.

At age 26, less than a year after losing my virginity, I met a spectacularly beautiful, enchanting young woman. Her life had been the opposite of my own. Her mother was exceptionally permissive, to the point of having countless affairs, resulting in a divorce, when my wife was turning 7. Her mother then continued her a series of affairs, each with married men, leaving her daughters, ages 6 & 7 (my future wife is the older of the two) alone for most weekends.

At this young age, my future wife learned to seek the attention of other men, seeking the attention of other men by way of the same promiscuous behaviors that she had learned from her mother.

In high school, my wife was voted the "Gold Medal", from the general student body, for "Most Attractive", which probably enhanced her "unofficial Gold Medals", as per a private vote from only the male portion of her graduating class, as "Best Blow Job", "Most Cocks Sucked", and "Most Willing", and the only member of her graduating class, of over 400 students, with a count of ">100 dicks sucked".

When we met, when I was 26, I had only had sexual encounters with 2 women, both within the last year, and only twice with one, and once with the other. Frankly, when my new girlfriend divulged her past, I found it strangely enticing. I even permitted, and encouraged, her future encounters, which stretched through our marriage of over 25 years.

She had at least one annual extramarital encounter, while we were married, and I admit that I was quite the cuckold, as I was as active a participant as possible! I cherished the opportunity to bathe her, and delicately and diligently shave her to ensure that she was perfectly prepared to please her eager partner. I am confident that everybody involved appreciated my efforts.

As the comparatively wealthy cuckold, I was aroused at the opportunity to be the "provider", paying for the hotel room, the dinner, and any alcohol, and even 100% of the airfare, a full week's stay at a luxury resort in Hawaii, including all meals, entertainment, including a luxury luau, a helicopter tour, and I even delivered my wife to their shared motel room for the night before the flight, only to walk her to the room, where he was already asleep, give her the key, watch her enter, glance at me with thanks, close the door, then hear him wake up, as she entered the room, hear her climb in be with him, and hear them eagerly fuck, fuck, fuck, fuck and fuck.

She would call me, daily, from Hawaii, and give me the erotic details of their activities. He was a very lucky man. He was the best-looking man she had ever known, he had one of the biggest dicks she had ever experience, and this is out of well over 100 dicks, he could last "for countless hours", as she put it, and he was a "magnificent specimen of male sexual perfection", as she put it. Each night, she described the multi-hour event as "the best fucking I have ever had!" She admitted that, as much as she wanted to see and experience the joys of the island, she was too busy enjoying the experience and joys of his fucking, to they rarely left the room!

I lay alone, in bed, luxuriating in my self-created "Ultimate Cuckold Fantasy", knowing that I had not only permitted such an encounter, but that I had stayed home, working, so I could PAY for my wife to "get her brains fucked out better than she could ever imagine!" Hearing my well-fucked wife THANK ME for being so accepting, so willing to pay, so eager to hear her thrilling details, then hearing her "I have to go, now. I can hear him desperately begging me for another fuck-fest and I NEED as much of this as I can get! Excuse me, now. I don't want to make him wait!"

I lost count of how many times I came, just imagining her getting fucked so well. She even called her best friend and gave her the details, BEFORE she called me with the details. Somehow, I found that slightly degrading and OH, how THAT added to my cuckold fantasy! I LOVED being her HUSBAND, her PROVIDER, and the father of her children, but a DISTANT SECOND PLACE, AT BEST, regarding her sexual satisfaction, her pussy-pummeling partner, her favorite suck-stick, and, frankly, hearing each erotic detail of his ABSOLUTE SEXUAL SUPERIORITY in every regard!

I cuckoldly cherish each of the several nights he spent at our house, while our children slept, and he slept upstairs in the guest quarters of our 12,000+ square foot mansion, only to be awakened because my wife could not fall sleep next to me, in our marital bed, only to beg me to escort her to his room, ensuring that our sleeping children were unaware, only to "deliver her" to him as a "gift for the evening".

Sadly, of the countless times they fucked the night away, inside the mansion that I provided, while I slept alone, downstairs, there was only one occasion when, after she spent several hours fucking and sucking him, that she returned to our marital bed, full of many of his loads, and provide me with my one-and-only delectible "sloppy seconds" experience.

Oh my, that is quite a hot story. This would make a great lit story.

100s of cock sucked, she must have become quite proficient at it!

I love the way you enjoy sloppy seconds.

 

[womaneater58]

I would never turn down an opportunity to receive but usually give as well.

 

[Jeph77]

I want to suck and stroke and swallow a mans cum, and want nothing in return. I want to jerkoff to it later

Do you ever pleasure yourself as you do the man?

 

[HonkOnBobo]

this thread needs a bump and grind

 

[TomTeacher19]

I have no real idea but I've wondered if it's easier for bicurious men to start with receiving because they have had that experience with a woman already, but giving us trickier since they have not.

 

[GECuck]

I want to receive and pleasure others. I have a small cock that doesn’t get super hard so sticking it up an ass is not likely