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I'm also 5' tall. But I'm very curvy - busty, bubble butt, things like that. My target weight is between 120 and 130.BeachGurl2 said:This has been a very interesting thread. Like most women my age, I've bounced between being very thin and being pretty overweight - but at my heaviest, I still only weighed about 155. I'm 5'2" and very petite - I buy my shoes in the children's department and my hands are smaller than my 11yo's. I think it's important when talking about weight and size to remember that each of us has a very different body style - 155 pounds on me made me look like beached whale, but might be the perfect weight for someone taller and/or larger boned. When I graduated high school, I was 5' tall and weighed about 98 pounds and wore a size 0 - that was about 23 years ago. After having my first child at 21, I dropped the weight immediately. But I had my second child when I was 29 and it was much harder to lose that weight.
*hugs* I'm sorry about the lupus. If you ever just need to bitch, my IM and email addy are on my profile.Like Netzach and Gracie, I have an autoimmune disease that contributes to weight gain depending on flares - I have lupus and also have no thyroid so am medicated for that (my mom and brother both have Crohn's). I also have arthritis, which is secondary to the lupus, so yes, joint pain does affect movement at times, but again, depends on flares. I'd like to lose about 15 pounds and try to exercise when I have the time. I'm fairly active, though, so while I'm not in the best shape, I'm not in bad shape. I'm in the same weight range at Netzach, fluctuating between about 125 and 135 and I'm in about a size 6-8. For me, when my weight is up a bit, I'm very self conscious about it and tend to wear bulkier clothing. When my weight is down, I feel much better about myself and my dress reflects that. I also tend to feel sexier the less I weigh.
Thanks, Gracie. Same goes.graceanne said:*hugs* I'm sorry about the lupus. If you ever just need to bitch, my IM and email addy are on my profile.
Etoile said:This thread is awesome. I think the only other thread we've had on this subject was more along the lines of "why are there so many fatties in BDSM?" I don't have anything further to contribute right at this time, but I'll think on this and probably post later.
Quint said:I wanted to share an experience from the same day that I posted my first response to this thread.
T approached me and asked if I had noticed that he was losing weight. I said that to be honest, I hadn't. But went on to explain that I have not seen him naked, felt him naked, for any length of time in about 10 days. (He just started a new job in a new district and we've both been running on empty since the month started.) He nodded and said that I was going to learn his body again and I'd be taking notes. (Week 1 and he's already in full-blown Teacher Mode.)
So I did. He took my hands and held them to various places on his face and body and I re-learned my husband. Afterwards, I noted where was tight, where was soft, and where was "enjoyable" for us to touch. It was a lovely lesson in appreciating what was right in front of me.
If T were a male equivalent of me (read: lanky), I would be less attracted to him and possibly feel less of the D/s vibe. I need a big, burly man-type to protect and threaten me in approximately equal proportion. Likewise, I know he wants me to remain fragile, but probably with more energy to resist and endure than I currently have.
FurryFury said:I have noticed on my recent cruise that people are far less shy about their bodies than I am or than I would prefer. I mean I would NEVER have the nerve to wear a bikini because my stomach is not "show quality." I don't know whether to congratulate these people for being so comfortable with their fat or take them aside and ask them if they've ever looked in a mirror. I tend to be very tolerant of people but some things can be enhanced with a little common sense and the right sort of suit.
brioche said:That irritates me too, Fury. I have got to a point where my attitude as far as shorts, for example, is that I will wear them to be comfortable, and you don't have to look, but these are decent shorts, that go down farther than my hands can reach on my thighs. I'm still decent.
When I see larger people wearing styles that are not meant for them - midriff baring tops, bikinis, etc. I find it somewhat offensive. In this case I am talking about people who are quite overweight, not ones where it is an unfortunate fashion choice. I don't advocate talking to them - they're probably uncomfortable enough already. I just sigh, exchange a look with Mum if she's there, and go on with my life.
That worries me greatly. If children are overweight it's mostly due to wrong food (too much fast food/snacks, not enough healthy stuff). They don't learn as children that their parents cook meals, and they don't learn that salad, veggies and fruit taste good. They will never really learn it.FurryFury said:I agree with you. What is really sad to me are the children that are so overweight these days.
Fury
chris9 said:That worries me greatly. If children are overweight it's mostly due to wrong food (too much fast food/snacks, not enough healthy stuff). They don't learn as children that their parents cook meals, and they don't learn that salad, veggies and fruit taste good. They will never really learn it.
CutieMouse said:... and possibly controversial subject.
In 1950 the average woman wore a size 8 (a vintage size 8 is about a 24" waist, or a modern size 4-ish).
Today, the average woman is a size 14.
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