Quirky Limits

session9

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My s.o. is completely submissive to me and I have pushed (and I think extended) her pain threshold beyond anything that I would be able to take.(But then again, I'm not a masochist)
When I think of everything I've put her through, she still has 1 unmovable hard limit which I find really strange and quirky (considering how edgy we can be)...

I cannot for love, money, whips or chains get her to consent to wearing a hood.

Just for fun and interest's sake, I'd like to hear if there are any other 'quirky' limits that any of you have or have come across.
 
Slapping my face.
It's a temper trigger and completely uncontrollable. (Seriously, the last person who slapped my face wound up in hospital) So it's a NO GO zone for me.
 
Degrading someone verbally. Oh sure, I can use names like "slut" or "cunt", but I can't call someone a "whore" or "bitch". And I can't do the scene where I tear someone down verbally and tell them how terrible or useless or worthless they are.
 
LOL. I know a masochistic sub who cannot bend over or get hung upside down for long periods of time or she passes out, so it's become a hard limit. Any position that puts her head below her hips causes the problem...
 
Tickle me and I'll rip you a new one.

And bondage. I get hysterical. I've tried baby steps, many times, but nothing works. A shame because I find bondage so sexy.
 
DeservingBitch said:
Tickle me and I'll rip you a new one.
And bondage. I get hysterical. I've tried baby steps, many times, but nothing works. A shame because I find bondage so sexy.
That is a shame, especially if you find it sexy...
I'm still shamefully new at all of this so I've no NO idea where my limits would be whilst engaged in play... so I may fill up a few spaces here yet! :D
I have the face-slapping limit (or rather reaction) from years back so I just KNOW that that would be a bad idea.
 
While i LOVE LOVE LOVE some things that could be considered "edgy," hoods are a no-no for me as well at this point. i don't like the feeling of not being able to breathe.
 
Hmmmm....

I don't find the hard limit of hoods to be strange at all....in normal life everyone has their own little fears and paranoia's....why would the bdsm world be any different?
Hoods have a very entrapping feeling...I could imagine it's scary for a lot of subs.
 
Any kind of religious theme or connotations....instant turn off and hard limit.
 
wow, inversion. Never done that. You guys must have some mounted gear for that.

As for slapping, its a good turn on. Not too hard, but very effective at getting a point across.

WF
 
Oh - 'forced' feminization.

I'll put you in nice lacy panties and heels, paint your face with make-up, and all that, because I find it sexy, but I won't do it as part of a 'humiliation' scene. Humiliating a guy by 'forcing' him to look like a woman (ie, like me) is against everything I believe in.
 
Amen.

I'll even humiliate a crossdressed guy. But I'm not into people who find the presentation inherently humiliating.
 
I wouldn't wear a hood either cuz of the fear i'd have lack of the air, just like HottieMuma said.

Oh and theres no fukin way to make me wear a skirt! You could be million times my Dom - i just wouldn't do it LOL. I look like idiot in them and nobody can change my mind on this one. Skirt's are taboo here. My man knows that so he don't even try LOL.

I had a skirt on me just twice from my own free will i think. Once on my 12 birthday and then my weding dress. I was okay with it for my weding, even liked it, but wouldn't do that again.

For me a skirt = something in what i feel as uncomfy as possible, so i just don't wear them. I love army dress tho. Use to wear it alot for camping with my man. Army dress and the heavy army shoes LOL. :D
 
Many submissives have a tremendous capacity for pain tolerance but I'm so down with the no hood or extreme gag thing. far too claustrophobic for that. As it is I had to desentisize slowly to allow myself to be put in full bondage. Next we'll work on blindfolded in full bondage. Just keep those cages and closets away from me...far away.

just saying

PS; Now a nice penis gag is ok.

session9 said:
My s.o. is completely submissive to me and I have pushed (and I think extended) her pain threshold beyond anything that I would be able to take.(But then again, I'm not a masochist)
When I think of everything I've put her through, she still has 1 unmovable hard limit which I find really strange and quirky (considering how edgy we can be)...

I cannot for love, money, whips or chains get her to consent to wearing a hood.

Just for fun and interest's sake, I'd like to hear if there are any other 'quirky' limits that any of you have or have come across.
 
Do not tickle my feet. Never. Ever. It's not fun to me it feels horrible.
 
I won't shave my pubic hair, or let it be shaved, for anybody. Been there, hated that. In fact, it was so ugly that I couldn't let my lover down there (i.e., panties to bed) until it grew back.
 
Hoods, blindfolds, gags, bound, caged, whipped etc. none of it bothers me a bit, even boring if you don't move along with the program and while a do have a few hard limits (poop ~ ewwwww, gang bangs ~ hell no) they arn't quirky except ......DO NOT PUT FOOD ON ME! You can make me eat it but don't make me wear it! Ice me down even, tie me up and spray me with a water hose, pour champagne on me and lick it off BUT NO FOOD! It makes me gag!



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I have that fear of hoods too. Which is why my Dom ordered me to make one. I am still working on it. I'll let you all know after I see him the end of Oct if I was able to go through with it without a full panic. I am very claustophobic. I won't even go on cruises because I I feel I can't escape to land. I rather walk 10 flights in heels than go in an elevator. oh well we will see.....

As far as quirky limits...my Dom is really into costumes. There are some I just can't bring my self to do--like a nun costume. Or anything that I feel would be disrespectful (military uniforms, etc)
 
I have no quirky limits.

All of my limits are perfectly rational.

*glare*
 
session9 said:
My s.o. is completely submissive to me and I have pushed (and I think extended) her pain threshold beyond anything that I would be able to take.(But then again, I'm not a masochist)
When I think of everything I've put her through, she still has 1 unmovable hard limit which I find really strange and quirky (considering how edgy we can be)...

I cannot for love, money, whips or chains get her to consent to wearing a hood.

Just for fun and interest's sake, I'd like to hear if there are any other 'quirky' limits that any of you have or have come across.
Hoods aren't about pain...

and they are a hard limit for me. Hoods, masks, gags...


I am terrified of suffocation.
 
Netzach said:
Ice.

On my body, you die.
Good to know. ;)

Of course, you probably grew up a fan of either the Mets or the Yankees, and therein lie my two known hard limits. C'est la guerre.
 
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