twowetlips
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Mmmmmm.... I don't like slim shaved guys, I like a man with a bit of meat on him and body hair.... with a killer smile 
What do you find attractive in a person that first gets your interest?
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A combination of intelligence and warmth that is extremely rare and often overlooked.
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iamshaun
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Face, tits and ass.
Simple as that.
Simple as that.
TheLittleBambi
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A quiet confidence, not cocky but self assured.
twowetlips
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Thank you for the replies....
I like broad shoulders, unmistakable under the shirt
I like broad shoulders, unmistakable under the shirt
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If she's in a sun dress... Legs, love them.
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Eyes that are alive, and a sincere smile - those are winners every time and guarantee my further attention.
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Unspeakably attractive....
I'm easily manipulated by a man's smile.
Boyish, cocky, mysterious, warm and sympathetic....I love them all.
Especially a man who smiles with his eyes.
*swoon*
I'm easily manipulated by a man's smile.
Boyish, cocky, mysterious, warm and sympathetic....I love them all.
Especially a man who smiles with his eyes.
*swoon*
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Mmmmmm.... I don't like slim shaved guys, I like a man with a bit of meat on him and body hair.... with a killer smile
wow...me all over....he he
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A girl's eyes and her pretty smile. They can be so hypnotic and mesmerising
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ease of conversation....but a good bum helps too!
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If they raise a smile with their words 
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Guys are silly, they hope for other things to rise
Me... A combination of both with knowing smile in return
Me... A combination of both with knowing smile in return
Sorry, I missed "first gets your interest" erase all inward stuff.
Wow. Where do I start?
Physical attributes get my attention first.
Hair color usually first. blondes and redheads primarily.
A smile can exceed hair color (worse for me if she has a twinkle in her eye (sorry, that can't be defined by words)).
Harder to define is the shape of her face (and that can trump hair color or smile). All I can say is, a certain profile can make me spell bound. Not every woman (and some men too, but then I just say the man is good looking and leave it at that) has it but it is available to every race I've met (except perhaps American Indian, their faces tend to be longer and flatter as a rule).
All I can say is the closest analogy of a face that looks good in profile is one that looks cat-like. The muzzle is more pronounced, the nose parallels the cheek... I'd have to draw a picture beyond that.
Not an attractant, but a negative is the eyes. I don't like "sad eyes" (and I don't mean by Rubert John). Eyes that are lower at the outside. No matter how happy she might be, she always looks a little sad. Makes me think I always have to work harder to make her laugh. This is a deal killer.
"laughing eyes" are a hoot and a half. Best example of that is Jennifer Love Hewlitt (or was that Hugetits?). When she smiles or laughs, she has this signature eye shape that look like crescents. Not something I look for but it's the sort of thing that makes me smile (and I like smiling).
As far as body shape, I like petite shoulders best, size/proportional breasts are good, a trim stomach but more important is a narrowed waist. and a saucy flair of hips.
Tomboyish muscular is always nice, but not a deal killer and a firm butt is choice.
Dimples of Venus, are a bonus, but likewise are not a deal killer if they aren't there (very few people have them sadly).
Inwards...
These aren't traits you normally see, but have to get to know someone to find out about them, and thereby are attracted to them more)
A girl with a sense of humor. Someone who is similar but different in personality. Too different is bad, but so too is too similar. One you constantly have to explain everything to, the other is just boring.
Someone that hasn't just been sitting idly all her life waiting for life to happen is healthy, but not a deal killer. Someone who has friends, but doesn't go to them constantly for advice. Someone who has her own mind on things, but isn't too independent of other people.
In a sense, a traditional woman, someone that needs me in her life as much as I need her.
heh, and a woman that has a penchant for her butt being tanned is always a bonus.
Beyond that, an open mind, but not a "cow" (lacking sense or drive). A wicked sexual streak is always a bonus. Again, I don't want her to be constantly waiting on me to initiate something. Her being her own person is a good thing. this (or lacking this as applicable) is a deal killer. The trouble is, most of this is not something you find out about someone in short term, but only in the long term.
That she cares for another but isn't dominated to act on that desire.
Some combination of common sense, street smarts, and intelligence is desired, but that is asking a lot of the average woman (and man).
While I don't mind lies, I expect a certain level of honesty and I expect her to know the difference.
To me, almost all inward traits are what I consider of a "traditional" woman. Some are acquired while others are intrinsic but those are qualities I consider "traditional" (as so did my father and his father and...)
Most important of all, I like to be smarter than my woman, and if I'm not, then I hope she has the decency to allow me to have my delusion that I am (and not laughing with her friends about it behind my back). This is a deal breaker.
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Now here is the kicker... That describes my perfect woman. I don't expect to find the perfect woman out there, and thus some of these are fluid, with exception to deal killers.
Wow. Where do I start?
Physical attributes get my attention first.
Hair color usually first. blondes and redheads primarily.
A smile can exceed hair color (worse for me if she has a twinkle in her eye (sorry, that can't be defined by words)).
Harder to define is the shape of her face (and that can trump hair color or smile). All I can say is, a certain profile can make me spell bound. Not every woman (and some men too, but then I just say the man is good looking and leave it at that) has it but it is available to every race I've met (except perhaps American Indian, their faces tend to be longer and flatter as a rule).
All I can say is the closest analogy of a face that looks good in profile is one that looks cat-like. The muzzle is more pronounced, the nose parallels the cheek... I'd have to draw a picture beyond that.
Not an attractant, but a negative is the eyes. I don't like "sad eyes" (and I don't mean by Rubert John). Eyes that are lower at the outside. No matter how happy she might be, she always looks a little sad. Makes me think I always have to work harder to make her laugh. This is a deal killer.
"laughing eyes" are a hoot and a half. Best example of that is Jennifer Love Hewlitt (or was that Hugetits?). When she smiles or laughs, she has this signature eye shape that look like crescents. Not something I look for but it's the sort of thing that makes me smile (and I like smiling).
As far as body shape, I like petite shoulders best, size/proportional breasts are good, a trim stomach but more important is a narrowed waist. and a saucy flair of hips.
Tomboyish muscular is always nice, but not a deal killer and a firm butt is choice.
Dimples of Venus, are a bonus, but likewise are not a deal killer if they aren't there (very few people have them sadly).
Inwards...
These aren't traits you normally see, but have to get to know someone to find out about them, and thereby are attracted to them more)
A girl with a sense of humor. Someone who is similar but different in personality. Too different is bad, but so too is too similar. One you constantly have to explain everything to, the other is just boring.
Someone that hasn't just been sitting idly all her life waiting for life to happen is healthy, but not a deal killer. Someone who has friends, but doesn't go to them constantly for advice. Someone who has her own mind on things, but isn't too independent of other people.
In a sense, a traditional woman, someone that needs me in her life as much as I need her.
heh, and a woman that has a penchant for her butt being tanned is always a bonus.
Beyond that, an open mind, but not a "cow" (lacking sense or drive). A wicked sexual streak is always a bonus. Again, I don't want her to be constantly waiting on me to initiate something. Her being her own person is a good thing. this (or lacking this as applicable) is a deal killer. The trouble is, most of this is not something you find out about someone in short term, but only in the long term.
That she cares for another but isn't dominated to act on that desire.
Some combination of common sense, street smarts, and intelligence is desired, but that is asking a lot of the average woman (and man).
While I don't mind lies, I expect a certain level of honesty and I expect her to know the difference.
To me, almost all inward traits are what I consider of a "traditional" woman. Some are acquired while others are intrinsic but those are qualities I consider "traditional" (as so did my father and his father and...)
Most important of all, I like to be smarter than my woman, and if I'm not, then I hope she has the decency to allow me to have my delusion that I am (and not laughing with her friends about it behind my back). This is a deal breaker.
****
Now here is the kicker... That describes my perfect woman. I don't expect to find the perfect woman out there, and thus some of these are fluid, with exception to deal killers.
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...but before that even... before you even speak....
It's something that I see before she speaks. It's in her eyes and the way she walks. If she has laughing eyes that don't miss much, and she lets her hips sway as they will when she walks, I become interested.
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Dark hair...the way he moves with confidence, a smile that seems to come naturally to him (tells me he smiles often), the way he deals with others, his laugh
