Justadude64
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How do I get people to email me for sexy nsa chat. Pretty much a sexless marriage. But what gets me going is sexy chat and flirting and sharing fantasies.
How do I get people
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NightL
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Give people the common courtesy you would in everyday life. Be engaging and interested. Develop a friendship and allow mutual trust to develop.
Dump the self pity.
You have just indicated the person closest to you has lost interest in you, so not doing a great job of selling yourself here. Still though, dump the self pity.
If you want instant sex you will have to pay for it.
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A compliment from someone who knows you well will have meaning but “You big hunky hairy ball of hot pudding meat” from an instant hook-up will probably have as much meaning as “would you like fries with that”.
Building relationships takes time and concerted effort – a bit like repairing a marriage.
Dump the self pity.
You have just indicated the person closest to you has lost interest in you, so not doing a great job of selling yourself here. Still though, dump the self pity.
If you want instant sex you will have to pay for it.
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Edit:
A compliment from someone who knows you well will have meaning but “You big hunky hairy ball of hot pudding meat” from an instant hook-up will probably have as much meaning as “would you like fries with that”.
Building relationships takes time and concerted effort – a bit like repairing a marriage.
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Jada59
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Agree. I just mentioned this to someone else here. And I'm not going to name name names but... I get a lot of messages from bored guys. I can't fathom that. Keep yourself busy, find some interests. Work on yourself and make yourself whole. Make yourself a better person. People will be attracted to you.
Please note that the "you" I refer to is not any one person in particular. That's just how I feel.
Justadude64
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Not looking for sex at all. I am looking for intelligent conversation with someone, preferably about sexual escipades, that's about it. I didn't realize self pity came across. But I guess you're right.
