StrangeLife
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All I can say to this is this, Another ugly example of the abuse of Evolutionary Psychology and I'll also add this, Psychology Constructs the Female by Naomi Weisstein. Although Naomi's essay was written in 1968, you, along with a number of other male authors here at Lit, have proven it's just as relevant in 2014 as it was in 1968, forty six years later.
Maybe I'll make my wife a sandwich or maybe she'll make one for me! At least some things have changed in forty six years.
It's always fun to experience how Naomi Weisstein manages to combine confirmation bias with narrowmindedness. She invariably make me think of Abraham Mazlow's famous words, "I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail."
Basically her position is, that women and men are biologically identical and every observed difference between the sexes is aquired and thus caused by societal pressure and gender stereotypes. How refreshingly simple the world was back in the seventies
But today we dont face the same societal constraints, so we are allowed to acknowledge science, even when it goes against "political correctness." And the fact is, that the sexes are quite different in many areas, some of which has nothing to do with stereotypes or aquired behavior. Our way of solving problems are different, our way of resolving conflicts are different, our way of prioritizing ressources are different - and it's not because I played with guns and my sister played with dolls. The gender specific traits will eventually emerge even if the roles are reversed.
Love is a highly complex concept that combines psychology and bio chemistry and draws on both inherent and aquired traits. We evolved it for a reason - most likely because it promotes cooperation and coexistence which increases our survival rate.
So when I claim that SG cant separate sex and love it is not because society doesn't want her to nor because misogynistic male chauvinist pigs can't accept a free-spirited woman enjoying life. It is simply because the cave women most likely to survive thousands of years ago were the ones that kept their cavemen around to clobber those pesky sabre tooth tigers for them.
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