Cumming Without Touching Yourself...Need to know

My first post here....

I am a 31 year old male. Good looking too and I know it

Anyway, for the past 2 months I have been trying to cum without using my hand.

I feel like the orgasm would be absolutely amazing because I almost got there a few times but it never finished.

I was experimenting a lot. I usually watch porn videos and try to find something that really turns me on, then i just lay there with my pants down and watch it.

I've learned that if i think the girl in the video is my wife (I am not married though) and she makes me watch her fuck i get turned on the most, so I have been doing that a lot.

I usually get to the state where I almost cum but I am not quite there yet. That state is sooo amazing it's almost better than a real orgasm. I can stay in that state where I am almost cumming for quite a long time (usually 10-15 minutes). I cant even describe it with words how good it feels.

I feel it's possible to make it happen if I just keep trying but I think if the setting was real or a woman was next to me while i do it it (she wouldn't even have to do anything just look me in the eye) would definitely happen. I believe the orgasm would be ridiculously good.

I am now literally addicted to that feeling. Before i use my hand i usually get myself to that state and try to stay in it for a long time and then just use my hand to finish. I dont even have to use my full hand...I can just barely touch it with 2 fingers and make a slow motion to push myself over and cum. The orgams is soooo fucking amazing....it's WAY better than if I start with my hand and just jerk off normally like I have been doing before.

Has anyone tried cumming without using your hands by tricking your mind somehow into it?

Also, one of my fantasies is that a woman sits on a chair with her legs crossed and I am down on my knees in front of her. She has her hand out right below my dick and wants me to cum but she doesnt touch or doesnt allow me to touch it. God damn it that is SOOOOOO hot!

Nobody? ..hmm

Sounds interesting. I have given many no touch orgasms, so I know its possible (in women anyway). The mind is an amazing organ. I would guess that once your arousal reaches a certain level, it will happen for you. Maybe you need u do need a better scenario than watching porn solo.

Try phone sex...

In the past when I was ridiculously aroused, I could think myself to near orgasm. All I had to do was think of an erotic scenario and my whole body would tingle.

TwoShades said:

Sounds interesting. I have given many no touch orgasms, so I know its possible (in women anyway). The mind is an amazing organ. I would guess that once your arousal reaches a certain level, it will happen for you. Maybe you need u do need a better scenario than watching porn solo.

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Yeah, women can do it i know that. But for guys it's a bit harder..i think it's possible though cause i was almost there a few times.

The problem is i think that when i am about to cum I am concentrating on the orgasm and lose focus on the scene that got me there and then i cant push myself over the edge.

Noor said:

Try phone sex...

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I dont think that would work for me. I am very visual. I need to see otherwise it won't work.

no hands multiple

Hi

check my video that's in my profile.

I barely used my hand, and reached multiple cumshots. I'dd lo it again, fantastic feeling.

happened when i was a teen

yeah this happened when i was a teen. i was watching one of those late movies on cinemax(i had it for free about for six months or so because the free previews would linger on for some reason lol)i dont know if this was emmanuelle or some other flick.but boy i was aroused but literally came on buckets without touching my penis when i saw a lesbian scene of two women tribbing on a train.like i said i was soo excited that i had an orgasm without touching my cock.the orgasm was REAALLLY intense...good times

If you give your hand a break, your dick will get used to it and be more sensitive. I'm sure you can find pre-recorded "instructions" to direct you online...just listen to them and watch and see what happens.

I can think up a drop of pre cum sometimes if I'm really horny, but I can't actually cum or have an orgasm.

HoldYouDown said:

If you give your hand a break, your dick will get used to it and be more sensitive. I'm sure you can find pre-recorded "instructions" to direct you online...just listen to them and watch and see what happens.

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Yeah, I have been trying to do that for like months now. I use my hand less often and usually only to finish.

I also think that maybe my problem is that I cannot focus on more than one thing at a time. I have a mathematical brain ( I got an engineering degree) I can only focus on one thing not 2 or 3. So when I get close to cumming I start focusing hard on getting an orgasm and not what actually got me excited in the first place...then it just starts falling appart and if I dont stimulate with my hand the excitement will eventually stop.

I guess I might just have to find a woman that would try this with me cause i need constant visual I think to focus on her nothing else.

When you think about it, this is just a waking wet dream.

twister947 said:

When you think about it, this is just a waking wet dream.

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No, it's not. wet dream is something you maybe had as a kid and usually it's not a full orgasm.

CuriousPuppy said:

No, it's not. wet dream is something you maybe had as a kid and usually it's not a full orgasm.

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Mine always were. I woke up either with cum on me or in the process of cumming. Hence the term...

However a wet dream can involve "touching" if you count your dick pushing against fabric. I've had a hands-free orgasm using just the sheets before. To have nothing at all touch it - that's more challenging.

Interesting topic. I would say from personal expierence I've gotten an erection from reading or looking at naughty pics but not an orgasm. Each person is different in their responces to various stimuli.

Once, the first time I groped a sleeping girl, my cock got instantly hard and I felt the pressure in my head, but nothing happened.

Cumming...touching yourself

Hmm. Interesting situation. Can't say I've ever done that.

I have an interesting and somewhat relevant experience to share, representing the female side, when I was in college and was taking an organic chem exam. I was usually a good student, but this test was one of those exams, however, where each question draws upon the answer from the previous question. So if you are lost on the first question, you are completely screwed.

I become very stressed realizing I was completely unable to come up with a reasonable answer to the first question, and this feeling just grew and grew. I think it may have been a panic attack, actually?

Anyway, as a result of my stress, I believe I was tensing up my muscles in my thighs and groin region. I was not thinking of anything even remotely sexual. And suddenly, I felt an orgasm come on. I didn't believe what was going on; it was very surreal, sitting there having this happen to me, in a brightly lit exam room, fully dressed, surrounded by other students, wondering if anyone had any idea what had just happened to me.

I ended up having two orgasms during that exam. Perhaps they don't really count as "cumming without touching", since I was probably wearing jeans, contributing friction, and I was clenching my muscles. I've tried since then to cum like this intentionally (well, not in an exam or other stressful situation), and at times have come close, but never all the way.

As an aside, I can feel very aroused in dreams, but do not cum unless I wake up and touch myself.

quietlylooking said:

I have an interesting and somewhat relevant experience to share, representing the female side, when I was in college and was taking an organic chem exam. I was usually a good student, but this test was one of those exams, however, where each question draws upon the answer from the previous question. So if you are lost on the first question, you are completely screwed.

I become very stressed realizing I was completely unable to come up with a reasonable answer to the first question, and this feeling just grew and grew. I think it may have been a panic attack, actually?

Anyway, as a result of my stress, I believe I was tensing up my muscles in my thighs and groin region. I was not thinking of anything even remotely sexual. And suddenly, I felt an orgasm come on. I didn't believe what was going on; it was very surreal, sitting there having this happen to me, in a brightly lit exam room, fully dressed, surrounded by other students, wondering if anyone had any idea what had just happened to me.

I ended up having two orgasms during that exam. Perhaps they don't really count as "cumming without touching", since I was probably wearing jeans, contributing friction, and I was clenching my muscles. I've tried since then to cum like this intentionally (well, not in an exam or other stressful situation), and at times have come close, but never all the way.

As an aside, I can feel very aroused in dreams, but do not cum unless I wake up and touch myself.

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A similar thing happened to me during a mock physics exam. It was a strong subject of mine but as I studied the questions, I could only answer four of the five questions you had to write a short essay on. I became so uptight and tense that I came in my pants. I did not have a hard on, I simply became incredibly wound up. I was so embarrassed, I swore never to get so worked up again about sitting an exam.

CuriousPuppy...

Just today I caught a glimpse of a man who, I believe, was referring to exactly what you speak of. I believe he called it, "edging." You may wish to do some research on that term, to see if that is what he was referring to.

I do know it's possible in women, as I have gotten off without any manual stimulation, whatsoever, but then again for us women sex is 99% influenced by what is going on in our mind, at the time.

I was just sharing with someone here at Lit, that women are most like tea kettles. If a man applies just the right "heat" to our brain, we start to "percolate" and before you know it, you've got us whistling like a tea kettle. lol. This "percolation" process can begin months, weeks, days and hours in advance, too. Fill her mind with provocative, lust-filled words and thoughts, and before long you'll have your woman whistling Dixie.

Okay hun, i've gotten my boy to do it twice. Work yourself up to an orgasm three or four times by masturbating until you're about to cum then stop. Completely ignore the erection until you can fully (nearly fully) start over the jerk. Then phone sex with a demanding person works. Tell her to describe what she would do, then have her demand you cum when you feel you're close
Allow her to bribe you with other kinks you love like eating pussy etc.

If it doesnt work build up until you swear you can't take it anymore.

Good luck hun.

If you want to do it without zero contact whatsoever, it may be best not to be lying down. Stand or kneel and when your erection builds, use your muscles to make your dick throb. The up and down vibration should build some momentum toward orgasm. You might need to focus on it, i.e. visualize your dick getting bigger and bigger and building up like a geyser. This is just an idea and not from experience but I'm going to try it tonight. If you had someone whispering in your ear it might help - if you don't have a partner like I said maybe find a recording online and listen to it.

I have had an orgasm without touching my self. however the catch is I used a electrosex toy.
if you have never heard of it do a google search.

I must say that the electrosex toys require a bit of experimentation/practice before you can achieve a hands free orgasm. They provide a very unique feeling which is completely unlike any other I've ever had.

HoldYouDown said:

If you want to do it without zero contact whatsoever, it may be best not to be lying down. Stand or kneel and when your erection builds, use your muscles to make your dick throb. The up and down vibration should build some momentum toward orgasm. You might need to focus on it, i.e. visualize your dick getting bigger and bigger and building up like a geyser. This is just an idea and not from experience but I'm going to try it tonight. If you had someone whispering in your ear it might help - if you don't have a partner like I said maybe find a recording online and listen to it.

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I did that but the problem is my mind...i think. As soon as I am at the point where I am almost cumming I start concetrating on the orgasm and it starts going down hill from there. I need a visual I think otherwise it won't happen. I need a real woman in the setting i think. It's time for me to start dating I believe.