I feel so stupid asking, but I am at my wit’s end. He started having emotional affairs with women online three years ago. He meets them on message boards and some dating sites. I caught him two years ago, and he swore up and down he would stop. He said nothing was as important as our family and he loved me and only me. I believed him and we started to work on our marriage and to heal. I have been suspicious since I first caught him, but he is able to explain away my concerns and tells me I am looking for reasons to doubt him.
He swears he is faithful, but my inner voice will not stop telling me he is lying. Is it possible to go from messaging, cybering and sexting multiple women to leaving it all behind in one day? He messaged with one woman for over two years and now swears he ended it with her immediately, but I have no proof of who she was, and no way to verify what he tells me.
We have sex 2-3 each week and we don’t argue all that often. I try to be a good wife and give him what wants and needs. What am I doing wrong? I believe he continues to be unfaithful, but I do not know how to find the proof since it is all online, except for the woman he also talked to on the phone
He swears he is faithful, but my inner voice will not stop telling me he is lying. Is it possible to go from messaging, cybering and sexting multiple women to leaving it all behind in one day? He messaged with one woman for over two years and now swears he ended it with her immediately, but I have no proof of who she was, and no way to verify what he tells me.
We have sex 2-3 each week and we don’t argue all that often. I try to be a good wife and give him what wants and needs. What am I doing wrong? I believe he continues to be unfaithful, but I do not know how to find the proof since it is all online, except for the woman he also talked to on the phone