Sherilyn66
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- Feb 16, 2016
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I have an amazing brother with autism, and another amazing brother who works with young children on the spectrum. Dated two guys with Asperger's. It's a condition that takes many, many different forms. While autism presents incredible challenges, it can also present beautiful and brilliant ways of experiencing the world. I am so grateful for the unique and incredible people in my life who are not neurotypical.
I also know the challenges of loving and living with people on the autism spectrum, and I am astounded at the strength of a parent who raises four children on her own. I am even more astounded at the strength of a parent raising four children with autism. Your courage and grace make this world a better place. I am sure your children do, too.
Please know you are appreciated, Sherilyn, and that you have the strength inside you to rise to your challenges. Your family is so fortunate to have you at the helm.
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Wow! Thank you! Every day is a challenge, sometimes more so than others...it's definitely an opportunity for 'continuing education'!
Whenever I'm out and see a parent of a child who's autistic - it's so easy to pick them out in a crowd once you're around them long enough - I always say something encouraging to them, and that at least one person totally gets what they're doing and experiencing. I know that it makes all the difference to me!
Recently, a woman came up to me while I was out with my oldest son, in Wal-Mart, no less, and told me that I was doing everything right, and that she was so impressed. Turns out that she works with autistic children. I was so appreciative for what she had to say that I could have been scraped off the ceiling...fortunately, I had my son to keep me from floating away!
At least if nothing else, I know that my kids love me, no matter how horrible they think I am throughout the day. When they go up to bed every night, they know that tomorrow is a clean slate, and we start all over again.
Again, thank you!