goodnamesgone
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- Feb 14, 2008
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I recently went to have sex for the first time (I'm 21) and was perplexed to find myself unable to ejaculate or hold my erection for an extended time with my partner. I've obviously masturbated before and never had this issue during that. I was attracted to my partner and wanted to do this very badly but there was just no getting around it. Thinking about it later, I realized that it may have something to do with my masturbation habits. I generally masturbate while sitting down, normally starting out in a cross legged position (this developed at a young age trying to hide my erection quickly in the event someone walked in on me and has just become the way I've done it all these years) so my testicles are sort of cupped and there is a pressure underneath them at the base of my testicular sack. I usually can ejaculate no problem with the pressure there or if I remove the pressure shortly before ejaculation. I tried masturbating in a different position and came up with the same problem I had during my attempt at sex. Is there a solution to this? Can I train myself to ejaculate without the pressure there? Or do I need to start paying a bit more attention to those enzyte commercials? Help would be greatly appreciated.