slowpoking
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my wife's experience
At the risk of being blasted as one of those perverted male wankers, I'd like to share a little about my wife's experience with women. But first I want to say what a great thread this is -- I'm only a few pages in so far -- not as something to get off to (although it is sexy) but because it's touching. All of these women wishing -- often secretly -- that they could share moments of intimacy with another woman. I mean it's touching because it's kind of sad that they have to just go on wishing, that they can't or feel like they can't do anything about it. It should be a beautiful thing, not something that people get upset about.
Anyway, my wife has always seemed to appreciate feminine beauty and done things like pointed out attractive women to me, which I've found very cool. At times I'd think that I saw signs of her herself being attracted to women -- like encouraging a friend to lick a shot off her collarbone at a bar -- and maybe feeling hurt if flirting wasn't reciprocated. I assume we discussed it a little -- I honestly don't remember -- but I think I mostly just tried to give her space.
I took her to strip bars a couple times, and she really enjoyed that. She'd make sure we sat down front and would have a huge smile the whole time. At one of these places she received a private dance from a beautiful blonde and nearly orgasmed when the woman got between my wife's legs and leaned into her. They ended up chatting as we were leaving. The woman caressed my wife and my wife suddenly was sucking ravenously on her beautiful breasts. I was amazed that they seemed to click so immediately. Unfortunately, we had to leave.
Not long after that we started going to a swing club. We only went a handful of times, but every time my wife had some interaction with women. As I recall, she would usually approach someone and then the other woman would kind of take over, whether that meant taking her to a private room or fingering and licking her in front of an audience. I don't think my wife ever got between a woman's legs, or if she did it wasn't for long.
I thought this was great but made a point of not pushing her. I just wanted her to feel comfortable to do or not do whatever she wanted. But things fizzled. We had a couple get togethers with a couple from the club, and the other woman liked my wife but ended up being pushy and not very nice. That was a turn-off, but I think the main problem was that my wife didn't like the lower half as much as the upper half. We've talked about it a few times in the years since, and, with a little wistfulness, she'll say something like, "Yeah, I tried that, but I just couldn't get used to being down there." I know she has issues with vaginas, because we also talk about society making them out to be dirty from the time that girls are little. She can't get past the baggage even though she recognizes where it comes from. It's not the end of the world. She says that she loves getting a cock, and she seems to, and I think our sex life is pretty satisfying.
Not sure that this is completely on topic, and I hope the women here don't find it intrusive. After rereading, I'm afraid I sound like a pig. Guess I'll go back to lurking and rooting.
At the risk of being blasted as one of those perverted male wankers, I'd like to share a little about my wife's experience with women. But first I want to say what a great thread this is -- I'm only a few pages in so far -- not as something to get off to (although it is sexy) but because it's touching. All of these women wishing -- often secretly -- that they could share moments of intimacy with another woman. I mean it's touching because it's kind of sad that they have to just go on wishing, that they can't or feel like they can't do anything about it. It should be a beautiful thing, not something that people get upset about.
Anyway, my wife has always seemed to appreciate feminine beauty and done things like pointed out attractive women to me, which I've found very cool. At times I'd think that I saw signs of her herself being attracted to women -- like encouraging a friend to lick a shot off her collarbone at a bar -- and maybe feeling hurt if flirting wasn't reciprocated. I assume we discussed it a little -- I honestly don't remember -- but I think I mostly just tried to give her space.
I took her to strip bars a couple times, and she really enjoyed that. She'd make sure we sat down front and would have a huge smile the whole time. At one of these places she received a private dance from a beautiful blonde and nearly orgasmed when the woman got between my wife's legs and leaned into her. They ended up chatting as we were leaving. The woman caressed my wife and my wife suddenly was sucking ravenously on her beautiful breasts. I was amazed that they seemed to click so immediately. Unfortunately, we had to leave.
Not long after that we started going to a swing club. We only went a handful of times, but every time my wife had some interaction with women. As I recall, she would usually approach someone and then the other woman would kind of take over, whether that meant taking her to a private room or fingering and licking her in front of an audience. I don't think my wife ever got between a woman's legs, or if she did it wasn't for long.
I thought this was great but made a point of not pushing her. I just wanted her to feel comfortable to do or not do whatever she wanted. But things fizzled. We had a couple get togethers with a couple from the club, and the other woman liked my wife but ended up being pushy and not very nice. That was a turn-off, but I think the main problem was that my wife didn't like the lower half as much as the upper half. We've talked about it a few times in the years since, and, with a little wistfulness, she'll say something like, "Yeah, I tried that, but I just couldn't get used to being down there." I know she has issues with vaginas, because we also talk about society making them out to be dirty from the time that girls are little. She can't get past the baggage even though she recognizes where it comes from. It's not the end of the world. She says that she loves getting a cock, and she seems to, and I think our sex life is pretty satisfying.
Not sure that this is completely on topic, and I hope the women here don't find it intrusive. After rereading, I'm afraid I sound like a pig. Guess I'll go back to lurking and rooting.
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