numeniusa's boudoir

numeniusa said:

Ah, but who would know what I have on underneath, that's the delicious secret, eh?

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And delicious is exactly what I would describe you as!!!

numeniusa said:

Ah, but who would know what I have on underneath, that's the delicious secret, eh?

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Ooh, ooh, a guessing game! I love these!!
It's like a game show - 'Guess what Numi's got on underneath her ski gear!'.
We surveyed 100 people and you need to correctly guess their top six answers.

OK, here we go:

a) thermal underwear (the practical option)
b) more jumpers, long shirts and trackie pants than you can poke a stick at (Numi hates the cold?)
c) nuthin! (Numi doesn't care about the cold at all?)
d) a hi-viz safety vest (in case of skiing accidents)
e) a fetching lingerie ensemble (also in case of skiing accidents - you want to make sure the paparazzi get good pics)
f) a swimsuit (from the slopes to the spa without a change!)

Jett scores a possible 1/6.

37_ttej said:

a) thermal underwear (the practical option)
b) more jumpers, long shirts and trackie pants than you can poke a stick at (Numi hates the cold?)
c) nuthin! (Numi doesn't care about the cold at all?)
d) a hi-viz safety vest (in case of skiing accidents)
e) a fetching lingerie ensemble (also in case of skiing accidents - you want to make sure the paparazzi get good pics)
f) a swimsuit (from the slopes to the spa without a change!)

Jett scores a possible 1/6.

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Nice one, Jett!

numeniusa said:

I fell over today, Simon, first time in years... What did I say...?

What are you going to do to make me feel better?

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Oh kisses all over your poor bruised skin darling!

And here was me too busy offering tender loving care elsewhere to have been around to offer first aid when you came back to your pad. I trust that someone offered you some consolation in your need which may have been sufficient for the moment.

Just for the record though, this is the treatment I offer in those kinds of circumstance: First off, a guy must expose a woman's area of bruise or strain and kiss very tenderly. Then it's a case of 'distraction therapy': he needs to go to some other part of her body where he can offer some kind of stimulation such that the pleasure of it radiates from there to every part of her in order that aches are overwhelmed with much deeper, stronger, long lasting sensations which create ripples of healing joy in mind and body.

Since I must bear responsibility for what happened to you on the slopes, I guess that in this case I have to offer the psychological treatment as well. That consists of naked abasement on the floor before you with no agenda other than your whim.

Will that do?

Dome60 said:

A letto e al ristorante ...
Haha, non mi sono fatto capire. !!!!!
La moto ha due ruote non quattro.
La mia è stata fatta in Jap da una fabbrica che si chiama Yamaha.
In Inghilterra c'e una fabbrica di nome Triumph che fa moto bellissime, forse ne hai vista qualcuna!!! Scherzo ovviamente.

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A letto e poi al ristorante, sì, mi piace questa idea....

Ah, yes, moto, a motorbike. I think my grandfather had a Triumph, actually, I remember a black and white photo of a handsome young man with a motorbike.

Spero che tu sia andato in giro oggi. Qui nevica e ci sono molti nuvoli - tutto bianco ovunque...

hotcpu said:

And delicious is exactly what I would describe you as!!!

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37_ttej said:

Ooh, ooh, a guessing game! I love these!!
It's like a game show - 'Guess what Numi's got on underneath her ski gear!'.
We surveyed 100 people and you need to correctly guess their top six answers.

OK, here we go:

a) thermal underwear (the practical option)
b) more jumpers, long shirts and trackie pants than you can poke a stick at (Numi hates the cold?)
c) nuthin! (Numi doesn't care about the cold at all?)
d) a hi-viz safety vest (in case of skiing accidents)
e) a fetching lingerie ensemble (also in case of skiing accidents - you want to make sure the paparazzi get good pics)
f) a swimsuit (from the slopes to the spa without a change!)

Jett scores a possible 1/6.

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Trackie pants? I'm horrified, horrified that you should think I have ever owned such an item of clothing. Expunge that vision from your thoughts immediately! I will admit to some fetching lilac thermal long-johns, although I haven't worn them in many years, my salopettes are so warm anyway

Still, one of your other suggestions has given me an idea... *giggles*

suckonsimon said:

Nice one, Jett!


Oh kisses all over your poor bruised skin darling!

And here was me too busy offering tender loving care elsewhere to have been around to offer first aid when you came back to your pad. I trust that someone offered you some consolation in your need which may have been sufficient for the moment.

Just for the record though, this is the treatment I offer in those kinds of circumstance: First off, a guy must expose a woman's area of bruise or strain and kiss very tenderly. Then it's a case of 'distraction therapy': he needs to go to some other part of her body where he can offer some kind of stimulation such that the pleasure of it radiates from there to every part of her in order that aches are overwhelmed with much deeper, stronger, long lasting sensations which create ripples of healing joy in mind and body.

Since I must bear responsibility for what happened to you on the slopes, I guess that in this case I have to offer the psychological treatment as well. That consists of naked abasement on the floor before you with no agenda other than your whim.

Will that do?

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Mmm, I feel better already....

In fact I'm not even bruised, and I can't really blame it on you - random patch of ice - but I'll take the ripples of healing joy, thank you... I might even provide some ripples of joy in return....

@Jett

Psst, Jett.... Over here. Is this what you meant by hi-viz? *giggles*

(Hi-viz jackets must be carried in your car on European roads... Never thought we'd actually use ours.... )

http://i.imgur.com/fvqPrFN.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/Nm76iTq.jpg

Hi-viz jackets

numeniusa said:

@Jett

Psst, Jett.... Over here. Is this what you meant by hi-viz? *giggles*

(Hi-viz jackets must be carried in your car on European roads... Never thought we'd actually use ours.... )

http://i.imgur.com/fvqPrFN.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/Nm76iTq.jpg

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I spent 9 great years in Italy and Germany - don't think I ever saw a prettier display in a Hi-viz jacket!! I've got plenty of crime scene tape - I could see you wrapped up in a little of that tape!! DAve

Hello beautiful.

Very beautiful jacket Numi!!!
Now I am waiting you in Milan for fashion week!!
Bye

numeniusa said:

@Jett

Psst, Jett.... Over here. Is this what you meant by hi-viz? *giggles*

(Hi-viz jackets must be carried in your car on European roads... Never thought we'd actually use ours.... )

http://i.imgur.com/fvqPrFN.jpg

http://i.imgur.com/Nm76iTq.jpg

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I think that'd stop the traffic, Numi.
I notice the vests don't come with patching pants, though ...

BMW75RT said:

I spent 9 great years in Italy and Germany - don't think I ever saw a prettier display in a Hi-viz jacket!! I've got plenty of crime scene tape - I could see you wrapped up in a little of that tape!! DAve

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Thank you I have never worn one ever before! Next time I see anyone in one, it's going to remind me of this, though...

Where in Italy and Germany I wonder? Did you pick up any of the languages? I did German at school, learned Italian to a much higher level as an adult.

Crime scene tape, eh? But isn't anything wrapped in that tape entirely out of bounds?

TongueLust said:

Hello beautiful.

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Hello lovely, I hope you're feeling fine and well

Dome60 said:

Very beautiful jacket Numi!!!
Now I am waiting you in Milan for fashion week!!
Bye

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Hehe - you think I might start a new trend?

37_ttej said:

I think that'd stop the traffic, Numi.
I notice the vests don't come with patching pants, though ...

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I don't think the European regulations mandate the wearing of hi-viz pants...

Now you've got me thinking, though... So, my car breaks down on the autostrada, and it is the law that I must don my hi-viz jacket before I get out of the car (to position my red warning triangle 100m behind the car... Or is that France? And is it 50m....? Anyway, I digress...).

What do you think the carabinieri will do if I'm wearing the hi-viz jacket as required, but I'm not wearing any pants?

numeniusa said:

I don't think the European regulations mandate the wearing of hi-viz pants...

Now you've got me thinking, though... So, my car breaks down on the autostrada, and it is the law that I must don my hi-viz jacket before I get out of the car (to position my red warning triangle 100m behind the car... Or is that France? And is it 50m....? Anyway, I digress...).

What do you think the carabinieri will do if I'm wearing the hi-viz jacket as required, but I'm not wearing any pants?

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Haha Numi,
Immagino la faccia dei carabinieri:
... excuse madame, because you dress a regularity hi-viz jacket but you don't wear pants???
Pants? In GB is normal because without pants is easier find help
Ah OK, but please carefully, here must ne dangerous for traffic ....

Bisogna essere stupidi per fare il carabiniere !!!!!
Ciao

Dome60 said:

Haha Numi,
Immagino la faccia dei carabinieri:
... excuse madame, because you dress a regularity hi-viz jacket but you don't wear pants???
Pants? In GB is normal because without pants is easier find help
Ah OK, but please carefully, here must ne dangerous for traffic ....

Bisogna essere stupidi per fare il carabiniere !!!!!
Ciao

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Without pants it is easier to find help...

La mia insegnante d'italiano anche mi ha spiegato che i carabinieri sono specialmente scelto dagli più stupidi....

On the cycle of desire

For me at least, desire is a cyclical thing, satisfied, then growing, building, demanding satisfaction again. I suppose it's what they mean by libido. After a good session, I feel relaxed, sated, nicely tired, my pelvic floor feels exercised (it's very strong, I like to use it for evil... ), sometimes my legs or arms will be a little stiff, depending on the positions I've been in.

But then it begins again, like a clock ticking. At first it's just a little quiet whisper, so distant it can hardly be heard. Then a more insistent interruption, popping into my consciousness unbidden, a sudden thought, a mental image, an almost physical memory of 'the last time'.

After a day or so, it starts to become more the physical than the mental, a sort of internal yearning, not an ache, not an itch to be scratched, more like my skin is sensitive and calling out for touch, the secret core of me tingling for attention...

It builds and grows, and I love that feeling of really, really wanting to fuck and be fucked. Sometimes it's just not possible, and having to wait can be a delicious torture, or in fact choosing to wait until the time is right, and having the sexual tension increase until the appointed hour.

It's varied throughout my sexual life, this cycle, but at the moment it runs at somewhere between two and three days, I think. Closer to two or under right now, probably, being as I am on holiday, with all the relaxation it brings, a release of tensions, work or family based perhaps, a distance from the more tedious aspects of ordinary life. And that gives me more freedom to listen to the calls of my body, to relax into the yearnings and let them come without having to think "I need to be doing this, or that, or the other", because there really isn't anything I need to be doing that is more pressing than this...

I also think that the number and intensity of my orgasms might vary with the cycle and hence with the frequency of sex. Less frequent sex, or having to wait, seems to mean I need to cum more, and I cum harder, both of which make the waiting worthwhile, desirable sometimes, even. I might settle for two orgasms on a one or two day cycle, but make me wait three days and it's just not enough!

I have no idea how further aging and its effects will change any of this (I'm 50 now), but I'm hugely encouraged by what I read here on Lit and in the press about female sexual response in later years.

And I fully intend to continue to enjoy my desire, and to exploit it to the full - I definitely want to be one of those disgraceful seniors whose younger relatives roll their eyes at their antics....

numeniusa said:

Without pants it is easier to find help...

La mia insegnante d'italiano anche mi ha spiegato che i carabinieri sono specialmente scelto dagli più stupidi....

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Infatti sono sempre in due, uno sa leggere e l'altro sa scrivere.
Si dice che sono stupidi perché applicano sempre la legge senza pensare.

Niente sci oggi, troppa neve?
Forse domani il tempo sarà migliore. I hope so

Numi, Numi Numi ... You really must publish your reflections some day. I mean it.

My responses to your 'cycle' thoughts:

I love when my woman says, when we're relaxing after action, "I'm so sated" I don't think I hear that word in any other context. I'm smiling that it's one of your words too.

The difference being on holiday makes to how the cycle pans out: As happens our holidays of the last two years - eek! - have all been shared with several other family members. This June - our ruby anniversary time - we are scooting off alone and you remind me of how our last twosome holiday was: a week in a cottage in Norfolk, and our memories of those days are all set in the frame of the fucking - what we did before, or after, or between the luscious sessions which was celebration of what we had just done or else titivation towards what we were going to do again soon. Oh yes roll on June!

My woman is about a decade your senior: believe me darling, you are still very much on the climb up the mountain of delights.

One of our sons lives at home, and at age 35 and a few relationships behind him well understands what we have; I think he quite enjoys hinting to his mates that his mum and dad are by no means past it! Let's drink to "disgraceful"!

Dome60 said:

Infatti sono sempre in due, uno sa leggere e l'altro sa scrivere.
Si dice che sono stupidi perché applicano sempre la legge senza pensare.

Niente sci oggi, troppa neve?
Forse domani il tempo sarà migliore. I hope so

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one who can read and one who can write... *laughs*

Domenica è caduta 50cm di neve, oggi nevica ancora! Abbiamo fatto una buona mattina di sci, ma era difficile, tutto bianco, non si può vedere niente!

Dovremo trovare la macchina sotto tutta la neve

numeniusa said:

one who can read and one who can write... *laughs*

Domenica è caduta 50cm di neve, oggi nevica ancora! Abbiamo fatto una buona mattina di sci, ma era difficile, tutto bianco, non si può vedere niente!

Dovremo trovare la macchina sotto tutta la neve

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It's simple.
Put on your jacket (without pants obviously) and look around for a shivel.
Then go out to find help ...

suckonsimon said:

Numi, Numi Numi ... You really must publish your reflections some day. I mean it.

My responses to your 'cycle' thoughts:

I love when my woman says, when we're relaxing after action, "I'm so sated" I don't think I hear that word in any other context. I'm smiling that it's one of your words too.

The difference being on holiday makes to how the cycle pans out: As happens our holidays of the last two years - eek! - have all been shared with several other family members. This June - our ruby anniversary time - we are scooting off alone and you remind me of how our last twosome holiday was: a week in a cottage in Norfolk, and our memories of those days are all set in the frame of the fucking - what we did before, or after, or between the luscious sessions which was celebration of what we had just done or else titivation towards what we were going to do again soon. Oh yes roll on June!

My woman is about a decade your senior: believe me darling, you are still very much on the climb up the mountain of delights.

One of our sons lives at home, and at age 35 and a few relationships behind him well understands what we have; I think he quite enjoys hinting to his mates that his mum and dad are by no means past it! Let's drink to "disgraceful"!

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Thank you, Simon, you're very kind! I'm enjoying the process of rambling about stuff, in fact I showed H a first cut of another reflection this morning, on a holiday experience as it happens, and the effect was gratifyingly, ahem, visible...

One of the reasons I am less scared of the menopause and after is your reports of your good lady, actually, so thank you I'm so excited for you both for June, I'm sure you'll celebrate properly with family and friends, but being able to holiday together alone will be something very special.

We recently met my step-son's new lady, and, in the middle of a conversation about (amongst other things) the lack of blue balls in the house she turned to him and said "I cannot imagine my parents ever having this conversation, let alone in front of me", which was kind of sweet. And she didn't run away screaming either, fortunately!

The son I mentioned just now: so happens he told me about losing his virginity a matter of hours after doing it. We had a really special embrace. For me, it was one of those days when I felt I might have got some of this parenting half right after all.