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Hi Ivy--I'm, umm, 60-something, and have been married and in love with guys, but I've maintained a sexual relationship with a woman since we were 18. It's a long story (I actually wrote a series for Lit that's pretty much autobiographical) but it has been one of the greatest joys of my life. I can't imagine not being lovers with her. All the guys I have been with, married or otherwise, have known and been supportive. (Great that your husband is too!)

To actually get started? Maybe watch some lesbian or bi- porn with your hubs to warm up to the idea more. The jewelry is a great suggestion. Swinger websites are another alternative, and you'll find many couples or single women that would party with both you and your husband. Clubs that are GLBT friendly are another path.

But take it at a comfortable pace. Don't force yourself into something that feels artificial or wierd. Sooner or later, the right path will become apparent.

Kisses and nibbles,
Val
 
Valendon said:
Hi Ivy--I'm, umm, 60-something, and have been married and in love with guys, but I've maintained a sexual relationship with a woman since we were 18. It's a long story (I actually wrote a series for Lit that's pretty much autobiographical) but it has been one of the greatest joys of my life. I can't imagine not being lovers with her. All the guys I have been with, married or otherwise, have known and been supportive. (Great that your husband is too!)

To actually get started? Maybe watch some lesbian or bi- porn with your hubs to warm up to the idea more. The jewelry is a great suggestion. Swinger websites are another alternative, and you'll find many couples or single women that would party with both you and your husband. Clubs that are GLBT friendly are another path.

But take it at a comfortable pace. Don't force yourself into something that feels artificial or wierd. Sooner or later, the right path will become apparent.

Kisses and nibbles,
Val
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My favourite thread ~ I get weak & a bit jittery at times reading it :eek:

This is why I’m on Lit ~ to hear others’ stories like this!

Thank Val :rose:

Nan
 
BeautifulBlueSky218 said:
I've had this fantasy since I was much younger. It started out when I was 12 years old. I've only dated one girl and she ended up going back with her ex girlfriend which was a bummer. So trust me, you're not alone and feel free to pm me anytime. It be nice to talk to more ladies on here. Especially when I'm given the chance too. :) I've always found woman to be beautiful, both inside and out. It's good that you're finally being open about this. I've kept my hidden for awhile because of my parents being so religious and frowned upon it. Both of them know I'm bisexual now, my mother is more accepting of it than my father is. I just want to be happy and not keep it hidden, I don't think anyone should. :) So welcome aboard and I'm sure you'll talk to a lot of lovely ladies on here. :rose:
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It took me a long time to open up to the fact I like woman too
 
Valendon said:
Hi Ivy--I'm, umm, 60-something, and have been married and in love with guys, but I've maintained a sexual relationship with a woman since we were 18. It's a long story (I actually wrote a series for Lit that's pretty much autobiographical) but it has been one of the greatest joys of my life. I can't imagine not being lovers with her. All the guys I have been with, married or otherwise, have known and been supportive. (Great that your husband is too!)

To actually get started? Maybe watch some lesbian or bi- porn with your hubs to warm up to the idea more. The jewelry is a great suggestion. Swinger websites are another alternative, and you'll find many couples or single women that would party with both you and your husband. Clubs that are GLBT friendly are another path.

But take it at a comfortable pace. Don't force yourself into something that feels artificial or wierd. Sooner or later, the right path will become apparent.

Kisses and nibbles,
Val
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Thank you val that a great Idea
 
Thanks Val

Will save the link so I can get into it later tonight when it’s quieter & im alone
 
NancyBB said:
Thanks Val

Will save the link so I can get into it later tonight when it’s quieter & im alone
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Hi Nan!
LOL--There's a series following my BeeBe and Petey stories with "Nan" as the protagonist! That would be my lover's daughter, but unlike the autobiographical tales about her mom and me, those stories are straight from my lusty imagination.
 
I am single. Never married. Have been with men most of my life. I did join a couple in a threesome. I enjoyed performing cunnilingus on the wife. Now, I often wonder what it would be like to be with a woman sexually not just orally. I think about it quite often.
 
As a married woman, I think it's safe to say that I'm not Bi 'Curious' anymore at all. I desire women. I'm definitely Bi sexual!
 
starrheat said:
I am single. Never married. Have been with men most of my life. I did join a couple in a threesome. I enjoyed performing cunnilingus on the wife. Now, I often wonder what it would be like to be with a woman sexually not just orally. I think about it quite often.
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Now that you are single you should go for it enjoy your self :)
 
I'm 36, married to a great guy who knows and is fully supportive, and I don't really like labels...but if I had to I guess I would identify as a pansexual who prefers women. As I'm sure you can imagine, that doesn't really work well in rural Alabama. So I had my first sexual experience with a woman this past spring at the age of 35. We dated for a while, she married her boyfriend (he knew and was supportive as well...we were all like one big family and it was absolutely lovely). But a couple of months ago things sort of fell apart...she ended up arrested, we supported her through her incarceration, then someone stole my husband's identity and several hundred dollars from our bank account. It became obvious rather quickly that it was my girlfriend and her husband. I am devastated, but hopeful I can find someone to be happy with again. As loving and amazing as my husband is, I miss the female companionship.
 
tisAmber said:
I'm 36, married to a great guy who knows and is fully supportive, and I don't really like labels...but if I had to I guess I would identify as a pansexual who prefers women. As I'm sure you can imagine, that doesn't really work well in rural Alabama. So I had my first sexual experience with a woman this past spring at the age of 35. We dated for a while, she married her boyfriend (he knew and was supportive as well...we were all like one big family and it was absolutely lovely). But a couple of months ago things sort of fell apart...she ended up arrested, we supported her through her incarceration, then someone stole my husband's identity and several hundred dollars from our bank account. It became obvious rather quickly that it was my girlfriend and her husband. I am devastated, but hopeful I can find someone to be happy with again. As loving and amazing as my husband is, I miss the female companionship.
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wow Amber. that is heartbreaking, what you went through. I am so sorry. I hope you find someone to make you happy, too. :kiss:
Amy
 
tisAmber said:
I'm 36, married to a great guy who knows and is fully supportive, and I don't really like labels...but if I had to I guess I would identify as a pansexual who prefers women. As I'm sure you can imagine, that doesn't really work well in rural Alabama. So I had my first sexual experience with a woman this past spring at the age of 35. We dated for a while, she married her boyfriend (he knew and was supportive as well...we were all like one big family and it was absolutely lovely). But a couple of months ago things sort of fell apart...she ended up arrested, we supported her through her incarceration, then someone stole my husband's identity and several hundred dollars from our bank account. It became obvious rather quickly that it was my girlfriend and her husband. I am devastated, but hopeful I can find someone to be happy with again. As loving and amazing as my husband is, I miss the female companionship.
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I am sorry you had to go thought that. I know you will find someone soon
 
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