You're Speaking My Love Language

[Bisexguy70]

That's what went wrong in my most recent relationship. My second one right after touch is also quality time, and I just wasn't really getting either.

You need to have someone spending alot of time touching you and exploring your body, find out what pleases and stimulates you

 

[Oshkosh60]

We don't just receive love in one of these languages, we also give in one of these languages, and they aren't necessarily the same. It's worth thinking about not just how we receive love, but how we give it, in order to be more intentional.

I like to receive love through physical touch the most, followed by acts of service and words of affirmation. I find quality time and gifts resonate less with me.

But in giving love, I find I do so mostly through acts of service/gifts (I like making things for people), then physical touch and words of affirmation. Again, quality time is less important for me, but it's good to know that, so I can make the effort to prioritize it if I'm with someone that really cares about it.

I should probably revisit this again....I did near the end of a past relationship and everything was so very toxic that perhaps you were looking for reasons to leave rather than finding a way to become closer.

I can easily understand that we should have a good grasp of what our own needs are....though one could argue have you really explored these languages with your current partner. (The gifts you received from your last partner may have done nothing for you....but the gifts from current partner could be fantastic ....and obviously you could substitute 'quality time' or any of the other categories....

But when it comes to the language that you speak to your partner....is it they who need to rate you? Or are you supposed to just ask them ...."hey Honeybabe....what'cha thinking ya needing now...."

 

[DarkRaven13]

I took the test.....and my scores were...

1. Quality time (32%)
2. Physical touch (29%)
3. Acts of service (23%)
4. Words of affirmation (16%)
5. Receiving gifts (0%)

 

[MedicalMuse]

https://imgur.com/a/B5ikdev

I’m too lazy to type it out.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

My quiz results:

1. Quality time (37%)
2. Physical touch (27%)
3. Words of affirmation (20%)
4. Acts of service (10%)
5. Receiving gifts (7%)

 

[Mnkinkcpl]

I'd say this is pretty accurateView attachment 2189299