Your Ideal Lover

[OnlyByMoonlight]

Just curious, what would you like

hot and fast
slow and sensual
dirty
romantic
with a long term partner
with a stranger
in private
or in public

 

[thegoosegirl]

My ideal lover would be a really good kisser

 

[trick1962]

An Heiress-Nympho-Mute!

 

[ZipBlockBloodie]

A woman who excepts me for who I am.

That is it really everything else will fall into place.

 

[AnitaMann]

My ideal lover:

Smart, and witty - with a silly sense of humor.
Thoughtful
Nice teeth, and an EXCELLENT kisser - and ENJOY kissing!
Manly - he must be strong, and fiercely possess his masculinity.
Must love - or at least tolerate my obsession of sports!
You HAVE to love getting BJs. Not just like them, but LOVE them. As much as I love giving them!
Have a job, a car, don't live with your parents, enough money that you can pay for a night out once in a while. ( I certainly don't mind paying, but not every time!)
Please accept me for who I am. Don't ask me to change, or do something that goes against my moral fiber.

And lastly, accept that this list can be modified at will, whim, and fancy.

 

[KinkyMichigan]

My ideal lover:

Smart, and witty - with a silly sense of humor.
Thoughtful
Nice teeth, and an EXCELLENT kisser - and ENJOY kissing!
Manly - he must be strong, and fiercely possess his masculinity.
Must love - or at least tolerate my obsession of sports!
You HAVE to love getting BJs. Not just like them, but LOVE them. As much as I love giving them!
Have a job, a car, don't live with your parents, enough money that you can pay for a night out once in a while. ( I certainly don't mind paying, but not every time!)
Please accept me for who I am. Don't ask me to change, or do something that goes against my moral fiber.

And lastly, accept that this list can be modified at will, whim, and fancy.

I think most men would LOVE your obsession of sports...myself included. And you know what they say..."A blow job a day, keeps the..." Hmmm I forgot how the rest goes. LOL

 

[AnitaMann]

I think most men would LOVE your obsession of sports...myself included. And you know what they say..."A blow job a day, keeps the..." Hmmm I forgot how the rest goes. LOL

Even better - a blow job while watching a sporting event!

 

[KinkyMichigan]

Even better - a blow job while watching a sporting event!

Mmm yes, please! Saturdays and Sundays would be marathons of oral fun during football season.

 

[Midnight_Man]

Female and breathing. Okay, at least female!

 

[phaedra83]

Female and breathing. Okay, at least female!

it musy be good to know your ideal is readily available

 

[Midnight_Man]

it musy be good to know your ideal is readily available

Yeah, not waiting!

 

[katamaribbw]

Humm...I wouldn't normally reply to this..but i think about it alot lately and well I have a few drinks in me so why not reply...

My ideal lover..

I want passion...love and lots of raw sex. I mean I want a man to fully want to be with me and just me..I know it sounds cheesy or old fashioned but I really seek true love..didn't used to believe it in....but I really want someone to engulf me and want to be part of my world and well I want to be the same way back.

I want to roll around the bedroom all day...and just make love one time after another...Walk on the beaches of Jamaica..Look at the eifel tower together...and travel the world.

He would be smart, witty, and sensual like me..He would have a passion for music...the arts...and he would definitely be oral. He would love a smart strong woman and love that I am all about sex and very open about it. But most of all he would just love me for me....

 

[phaedra83]

Humm...I wouldn't normally reply to this..but i think about it alot lately and well I have a few drinks in me so why not reply...

My ideal lover..

I want passion...love and lots of raw sex. I mean I want a man to fully want to be with me and just me..I know it sounds cheesy or old fashioned but I really seek true love..didn't used to believe it in....but I really want someone to engulf me and want to be part of my world and well I want to be the same way back.

I want to roll around the bedroom all day...and just make love one time after another...Walk on the beaches of Jamaica..Look at the eifel tower together...and travel the world.

He would be smart, witty, and sensual like me..He would have a passion for music...the arts...and he would definitely be oral. He would love a smart strong woman and love that I am all about sex and very open about it. But most of all he would just love me for me....

Not a thing is corny about what you are saying here sweety its just rare..damn rare

 

[katamaribbw]

Not a thing is corny about what you are saying here sweety its just rare..damn rare

You think? Maybe you are right..maybe my expectations are to high...but hey I can't help but think some man out there will desire me ....heres to hoping...

 

[phaedra83]

You think? Maybe you are right..maybe my expectations are to high...but hey I can't help but think some man out there will desire me ....heres to hoping...

Oh no honey a man that will desire you isn't rare but put together will all those other qualities are well IMHO (and bitter too so take with a grain of salt) is hard to find

 

[Roxanne_Smith69]

Humm...I wouldn't normally reply to this..but i think about it alot lately and well I have a few drinks in me so why not reply...

My ideal lover..

I want passion...love and lots of raw sex. I mean I want a man to fully want to be with me and just me..I know it sounds cheesy or old fashioned but I really seek true love..didn't used to believe it in....but I really want someone to engulf me and want to be part of my world and well I want to be the same way back.

I want to roll around the bedroom all day...and just make love one time after another...Walk on the beaches of Jamaica..Look at the eifel tower together...and travel the world.

He would be smart, witty, and sensual like me..He would have a passion for music...the arts...and he would definitely be oral. He would love a smart strong woman and love that I am all about sex and very open about it. But most of all he would just love me for me....

Thought for a long time (*many* years) that this was the impossible dream. It isn't. I found mine. And he's just like this and uber-romantic to boot.

Don't give up -- they are out there ...

Rox

 

[misfortunex]

Has to be sporty and fit
Owns his own home (I do and I am sick of being someones free rent)
Graduated (tho this is reviewable if he has some level of intelligence)
Employed in a professional capacity or is a real cowboy (must have his own stetson, spurs and horse to qualify)(oh and lawyers need not apply)(oh come on Natty how could I not put that!!)
Has impeccable personal hygeine
Is incredibly tactile
Loves giving as much as he loves getting oral
Understands that anal is not his God given right, but that a few glasses of good champagne might just do the trick....
Can focus his eyes on my body rather than that of every passing female, even after he has fucked me three times
Is a mans man
Never had or needed therapy
Does not live with his parents or a wife he forgot to mention
Is tall
Has good teeth and clean shoes and vice versa
Smiles....a lot
Knows his way, head to toe, around a womans body
Likes to hug as much as I do
Can tolerate my at times (it's infrequent!!) brattishness (I am the youngest of a big family)
Can tolerate my flirtatiousness
Likes a smartass
Gets my humour (on the rare occassion it should present itself)
Has an extremely GSOH
Doesn't bitch about me smoking
Has an inner child
Does NOT have a mean temper
Is neither needy nor high maintainance
Knows what dominance in bed is, without wanting to peg my nipples, have my clit pierced nor beat me to within an inch of my life
Can change a plug, lightbulb and hang a ready made shelf
Does not snore nor think passing wind is funny (it really isn't)
Remebers my birthday and preferably my name
Thinks romance exists, and is even permissable, outside of valentine day

I know thats some list for simply a lover, but you wanna see my ideal man list!!

If you happen to run across him please forward him my e-mail adress dontfuckingwantmuch.com where he can duly apply for the position

 

[call_me_Melody]

Has to be sporty and fit
Owns his own home (I do and I am sick of being someones free rent)
Graduated (tho this is reviewable if he has some level of intelligence)
Employed in a professional capacity or is a real cowboy (must have his own stetson, spurs and horse to qualify)(oh and lawyers need not apply)(oh come on Natty how could I not put that!!)
Has impeccable personal hygeine
Is incredibly tactile
Loves giving as much as he loves getting oral
Understands that anal is not his God given right, but that a few glasses of good champagne might just do the trick....
Can focus his eyes on my body rather than that of every passing female, even after he has fucked me three times
Is a mans man
Never had or needed therapy
Does not live with his parents or a wife he forgot to mention
Is tall
Has good teeth and clean shoes and vice versa
Smiles....a lot
Knows his way, head to toe, around a womans body
Likes to hug as much as I do
Can tolerate my at times (it's infrequent!!) brattishness (I am the youngest of a big family)
Can tolerate my flirtatiousness
Likes a smartass
Gets my humour (on the rare occassion it should present itself)
Has an extremely GSOH
Doesn't bitch about me smoking
Has an inner child
Does NOT have a mean temper
Is neither needy nor high maintainance
Knows what dominance in bed is, without wanting to peg my nipples, have my clit pierced nor beat me to within an inch of my life
Can change a plug, lightbulb and hang a ready made shelf
Does not snore nor think passing wind is funny (it really isn't)
Remebers my birthday and preferably my name
Thinks romance exists, and is even permissable, outside of valentine day

I know thats some list for simply a lover, but you wanna see my ideal man list!!

If you happen to run across him please forward him my e-mail adress dontfuckingwantmuch.com where he can duly apply for the position

*giggles uncontrollably*
It's a good list. It's good to know what you want.

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

Loyal
Attentive
Passionate
Perfect in his imperfections...and loves me for mine.

That's all

 

[janeyl]

I don't have a list. As someone who is not a perfect human being myself, I would hate to think that I and my attributes or perceived lack of them was being checked off on a list. Which ones are absolutes? Which are deal beakers? Which ones are kinda flexible and if they are why are they on the list in the first place?

I'm by no means a doormat but I am a generally optimistic person who is easily pleased and takes pleasure from the smaller things that are simple for
someone to achieve. If I had a list of requirements-I'd only end up disappointed-would you be forever revising the list? Moving the goal posts?

While taking into account the screamingly obvious ones about not tolerating abuse I'd much rather take someone for what they are-marvellously, fallibly human and build a list of things about them I like than reject someone for failing to live up to a set of expectations I'd carved in stone before I ever met them

Just my 2 penny's worth-take it or leave it...

 

[Blue_Eyed_Grl36]

Ideally, here's what I would look for... though I know that no one is perfect and doesn't possess all of these traits.. but if I were looking, these are the things I feel are important to a successful relationship..

Long-term partner only
Fiery sexual attraction is a must
Takes your breath away when you see him or when he sees you
Thoughtful
Romantic
Passionate
Intelligent
Considerate and respectful
Conscientious
Humble
Kind
Great sense of humor
Strong enough to carry both us us when needed
Someone who keeps me on my toes and isn't afraid to debate when needed
Show our love through doing little things
Includes me in his day everyday.. because it's important for both of us
Wants a true partnership
A Best friend , who would be there for eachother always with no quesion
Strong enough to handle me when I'm not at my best - and visa versa
Cares about what's best for our relationship
Adventurous
Ambitious
Loves to be surprised
Someone to grow old with
Love eachother enough to understand we're both not perfect, but always be willing to make it the best it can be everyday..

 

[de-valmont]

Someone who's company is intoxicating enough to be in that entire weekends can fly past without being noticed.

Actually that will do.

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

I don't have a list. As someone who is not a perfect human being myself, I would hate to think that I and my attributes or perceived lack of them was being checked off on a list. Which ones are absolutes? Which are deal beakers? Which ones are kinda flexible and if they are why are they on the list in the first place?

I'm by no means a doormat but I am a generally optimistic person who is easily pleased and takes pleasure from the smaller things that are simple for
someone to achieve. If I had a list of requirements-I'd only end up disappointed-would you be forever revising the list? Moving the goal posts?

While taking into account the screamingly obvious ones about not tolerating abuse I'd much rather take someone for what they are-marvellously, fallibly human and build a list of things about them I like than reject someone for failing to live up to a set of expectations I'd carved in stone before I ever met them

Just my 2 penny's worth-take it or leave it...

What she said

(did I really not share your mother's womb?)

 

[janeyl]

What she said

(did I really not share your mother's womb?)

Sisters under the skin sweetie You've just got a better arse

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

Sisters under the skin sweetie You've just got a better arse

Yeh but you got all the boobage..see...made for each other