Your Hot Wife Conversation

[ned63]

I like hearing that you both get turned on. Then have some great hot sex mmmmm Like to hear more about you and your wife mmmm

 

[000777]

I like hearing that you both get turned on. Then have some great hot sex mmmmm Like to hear more about you and your wife mmmm

She has had a few fun adventures! You can Pm me if you want.

 

[ned63]

She has had a few fun adventures! You can Pm me if you want.

Yes I have PM you. Sure like to talk with your wife too sometimes mmmmmm

 

[TBLS32]

I think a lot of married women would be surprised to learn on how many husband's have a "hot wife fantasy" about their wife. When I shared with my wife that I had this fantasy she was wondering if I was sharing this as a way to say that I would enjoy another woman. To be candid I am not against sharing with another couple, but if I had to prioritize it I would have to admit that I would enjoy seeing my wife experiencing another lover first.

No, I am not looking at being submissive to another man, but I enjoy seeing my wife experience new things and experiences that make her feel good about herself. She made a comment a few years ago stating that she wished she had sewed some wild oats before meeting me. I figure why not do it now? When she is feeling good about herself she is a much more enthusiastic lover. So, my intentions are not entirely for her benefit.

I do not think this is anything I can push her into, but something she needs to decide to do. So, my questions are as follows:

Ladies: What is something your husband did that still made you feel like he loved and desired you, but it helped you feel comfortable to someday act on having sex with other people?

Guys: What in your view did you do to help your lady feel more comfortable with having sex with others? I got to think you did more than to tell her she had a "hall pass", right?

As much as I would want to witness at least part of it happening I think my being there that first time would hold my wife back. That is the last thing I want her to do as it may be her only time she tries it. My main concern is her safety, but I trust her judgment. I simply want her to enjoy sex with someone besides me.

I look forward to learning from you.

My ex wife and I spoke about the topic for a very long time before we ventured and tried. The conversations, turned to talking about it during sex, then asking if she had someone in mind, then when we went out I would encourage her to dress up and not worry if she got hit on. The turning point for us was when she went out with her girlfriends one night and came home with a phone number. She saw that I was excited and not angry. And it moved on from there

 

[ned63]

My ex wife and I spoke about the topic for a very long time before we ventured and tried. The conversations, turned to talking about it during sex, then asking if she had someone in mind, then when we went out I would encourage her to dress up and not worry if she got hit on. The turning point for us was when she went out with her girlfriends one night and came home with a phone number. She saw that I was excited and not angry. And it moved on from there

Love to hear more about your wife and you mmmmm

 

[TBLS32]

Love to hear more about your wife and you mmmmm

Sorry I am new here. Do i tell me here or does it have to go somewhere else?

 

[ned63]

Sorry I am new here. Do i tell me here or does it have to go somewhere else?

I will send you a DM- conversation for you to reply to.

 

[LustyScribe]

Sorry I am new here. Do i tell me here or does it have to go somewhere else?

Here is fine or, if you prefer, you can send that person a DM.

 

[TBLS32]

We were together for 18 years, but we are recently separated. The only thing we were on the same page about for the last few years was our sex lifestyle. It started as her living the hotwife life, then I would watch and run things. Somewhat like a Stag Vixen arrangement and after that it turned into group sex, swinging, swapping.......anything sexual

 

[MrPervYoung]

Does hot mom count? lol

 

[Richelieujuniour]

Your words..."It's more a by-product of your wife being satisfied by another man and letting you know that she finds it more satisfying." I agree...seeing another man pleasing your wife is incredibly arousing...and the humiliation is "a by-product" of the act...you will undoubtedly question her love and desire for you...it's all part of the gut-wrenching envy of wanting her to want you as badly as she seems to want him...I would not be aroused or pleased by any humiliation from him...but my own, self-induced humiliation is terribly arousing...

I live for couples like you!

 

[AndyJacker]

I’m taking another approach. My wife really enjoys a good fingering, and I love nothing more than pleasuring her that way. It is a full clit and pussy worship for me, while she holds and strokes my dick. The intensity of her orgasms has me wondering if another guy would makes things even more exciting. With this in mind, I have slowly convinced her that a realistic dildo in our lovemaking would be a great addition to the fun. I ordered it the other day, and I can’t wait to see what chapters it opens for us.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

For years my Lady would suck my cock while she fingered my sissy-pussy which made me more submissive and sissy-fem and willing to suck cocks for her and guide cocks into her pussy. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot that likes sucking cocks.

 

[rickybobby808454]

My ex wife and I spoke about the topic for a very long time before we ventured and tried. The conversations, turned to talking about it during sex, then asking if she had someone in mind, then when we went out I would encourage her to dress up and not worry if she got hit on. The turning point for us was when she went out with her girlfriends one night and came home with a phone number. She saw that I was excited and not angry. And it moved on from there

i love encouraging my wife to do that

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I think a lot of married women would be surprised to learn on how many husband's have a "hot wife fantasy" about their wife. When I shared with my wife that I had this fantasy she was wondering if I was sharing this as a way to say that I would enjoy another woman. To be candid I am not against sharing with another couple, but if I had to prioritize it I would have to admit that I would enjoy seeing my wife experiencing another lover first.

No, I am not looking at being submissive to another man, but I enjoy seeing my wife experience new things and experiences that make her feel good about herself. She made a comment a few years ago stating that she wished she had sewed some wild oats before meeting me. I figure why not do it now? When she is feeling good about herself she is a much more enthusiastic lover. So, my intentions are not entirely for her benefit.

I do not think this is anything I can push her into, but something she needs to decide to do. So, my questions are as follows:

Ladies: What is something your husband did that still made you feel like he loved and desired you, but it helped you feel comfortable to someday act on having sex with other people?

Guys: What in your view did you do to help your lady feel more comfortable with having sex with others? I got to think you did more than to tell her she had a "hall pass", right?

As much as I would want to witness at least part of it happening I think my being there that first time would hold my wife back. That is the last thing I want her to do as it may be her only time she tries it. My main concern is her safety, but I trust her judgment. I simply want her to enjoy sex with someone besides me.

I look forward to learning from you.

I'm with you on this one brother. You basically wrote out what I have discussed with my wife. We have been together for 43 years and known each other for 49 years. I am not against sharing whether it be with males or females as she likes both.
We both feel like let's go do what we want to do for awhile before we hit geriatric phase of our life.
Is it a little scary? Sure it is before we got married I ran around alot but one thing that is still clear in my mind was when I was dating one woman several were interested in me. When I was alone then nobody seems to want you and people on these pages talk about that in different ways.
But there are things I want to do she doesn't really want to do and visa versa.
Why not have a buddy of whatever sex that you can companion with.
Is there risks of falling for the buddy of course there is and I think that is what holds her back. She wants to grow old together and I really feel you can do both

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Thanks for sharing this. I do think the initial response from most wives is that the husband is looking for approval to seek things with other women. For most husbands this is not the case at all.

I liked on how your friend helped your wife learn that sexy is not a one size fits all situation. I find women of all shapes and sizes to be sexy. I liked that your wife felt better about herself from his attention.

I have often wondered if a single friend would be helpful for my wife, if she had some attraction to him. I think not loving the other man would help a wife to give it a try. Glad it worked out for all three of you.

Mine wouldn't just fuck anyone she would need the emotional connection which could make it dangerous but if she belongs elsewhere she should go.

 

[dingdongditchding]

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My wife, like a lot of women, had body image issues even though I kept telling her how sexy she was. I gradually got her to exhibit more and more of her body. It turned her on to see other men checking her out. My best friend was your typical "bad boy" who was always flirting with her and would fondle her at times. That's how he always was, and I knew that's as far as it would go. He saw I wasn't upset, and my wife would let him feel her a little and playfully fight him off. I talked her into giving us private lingerie modeling shows. It was a safe way to exhibit herself, and it turned us all on. My wife and I had great sex for weeks after one of her shows. It was then that I started planting the idea of fucking him while I watched. She thought it was a way for me to then ask to fuck other women. It took a lot of convincing that it wasn't my motivation. It all came to a head when my friend said these shows were torture for him. I agreed that it wasn't fair to keep on teasing him like that. My wife finally agreed to fuck him. The first time it happened, we were all nervous but once he fucked her, the dam had been broken. He fucked her 4-5 times per year for over ten years. It ended when he met his wife, and my wife didn't want to be the "other woman."

feel, like boobs and butt OR everywhere. HOT!

 

[dingdongditchding]

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Mine wouldn't just fuck anyone she would need the emotional connection which could make it dangerous but if she belongs elsewhere she should go.

I am that way. Demi

 

[000777]

Mine wouldn't just fuck anyone she would need the emotional connection which could make it dangerous but if she belongs elsewhere she should go.

I think the majority of wives are that way, they need a connection and

Mine wouldn't just fuck anyone she would need the emotional connection which could make it dangerous but if she belongs elsewhere she should go.

I think the majority of wives are that way. They need a connection and to have a least some feelings for the guy.

 

[10ReiferMann777]

Mine wouldn't just fuck anyone she would need the emotional connection which could make it dangerous but if she belongs elsewhere she should go.

My wife told me exactly the same thing. She needs more than sympathy. We met Him. She still loves him today, even though they are no longer intimate together.

 

[Mrbingo1976]

Great replies, thank you. I so often wonder what is said or done by the other man that makes it easier for the wife to go to his bedroom? Is it something about him physically or something he said or both?

I just find the idea of telling your wife she has a hall pass as a non-motivator. There has to be some connectivity with the other man. Hopefully, she does not have deep feelings for him, as I do not want to add that to the mix. I know in the past my wife has allowed boyfriends "more access" to her body when she did not feel emotional attachment. In her view she said it was easier to enjoy the physical part of the relationship without loving them. If that makes sense.

What did the other man do to help in those first steps?

yes, i know i broached the subject with my wife.. i just said, i know we get off on denial and long term chastity but you are free to go with someone else if you want, i honestly wouldn’t mind.. she said, but who would i go with.. i said ah, you’re thinking about it. who you thinking of? she said, you’re bad.. i said i want you to be excited and pleasured. she said maybe jamie.. i said he’s ripped he runs and cycles. plus he flirts with you when we’re out. she said i know. i said i wouldn’t mind at all.. i’d love you to be worshipped. a friend is different to a stranger.. i remember him trying to snog you goodbye as we got in a cab. he’d fuck you better than me. she said, you talk about it long enough i’ll do it.. i said do.. be amazing you bringing him home and upstairs. doe he know i’m not allowed sex? yes. does he know i’m caged? not yet. ok. say want to come round , wear your tits on show top and i’ll make my self scarce.. you’re bad. but on a good way.

 

[Mrbingo1976]

My ex wife and I spoke about the topic for a very long time before we ventured and tried. The conversations, turned to talking about it during sex, then asking if she had someone in mind, then when we went out I would encourage her to dress up and not worry if she got hit on. The turning point for us was when she went out with her girlfriends one night and came home with a phone number. She saw that I was excited and not angry. And it moved on from there

yes, very similar, a slow start of us talking about it for ages a a turn on and many cold feet moments early on. dressing with cleavage on show and getting chatted up, guys sitting with us and saying i was a lucky guy etc, worked late a lot and she stayed over in a hotel and said i think he fancies me.. i said if it feels right i’m totally fine, in fact more than fine.. i have no interest in seeing another woman at all. i don’t even look at other women, i can’t imagine wanting to to do anything. we both get off on other men finding her attractive.

 

[LMWM321]

My wife and I have discussed the following as a scenario where she might be inclined to accept my offer to let her be with another man. It's one that assures family and friends don't find out, and one that prioritizes her pleasure and her safety - all of which are VERY important to both of us.

My wife and I travel often and are fortunate enough to stay at some really nice high end hotels. One of one our routines when traveling is to finish each day with a late night drink at their nicest bar. As we become regulars over the 7-10 night stay, we often develop a friendly rapport with the bartenders. As you may have noticed, the people who are hired to tend these expensive bars are often quite charming and very attractive.

As the days go by, my wife will tell me which of the single (deduced during our friendly banter) male bartenders sparks her sexual interest. The next time we see him, we'll engage in more friendly conversation, then my wife will head upstairs. I will remain at the bar and wait for an opportune moment to have a short convo with him out of earshot of other people. When the moment presents itself, I will tell him my wife finds him to be very attractive and will offer him the opportunity to come back to our room to have sex with her. Given that my wife is also quite attractive, it's likely he'll at least be intrigued by the offer. I will then tell him that I insist on paying him for this, and handsomely; perhaps as much at $1000 - for four hours.

Why pay if he's willing to do it for free? It helps to assure his discretion - after all, accepting payment for sex is illegal and would certainly lead to his termination. Also, it underscores that his role is to do only what my wife asks. ..He's not coming to our room to get his sexual desires fulfilled, he's coming to fulfill hers. Plus, he must be okay with my presence. Depending on what my wife prefers, I will either be in the room with them, or will be in the sitting room of our suite with the door open. For this to happen my wife would have to feel perfectly safe. She is not a large woman, she could be easily and quickly be overpowered by a large man who decides he doesn't want to respect her expressed boundaries. For example, a blow job can begin as a consensual act then quickly become violent, oral rape. Any signs of such distress from my wife would result in the guy getting a beating from me then a call to the cops. I wouldn't expect this to happen, but one can't be too careful.

And why 4 hours? Well, if my wife thoroughly enjoys it she might want another go round with her hunky toy before sending him on his way. He'll be encouraged to sit and enjoy a glass of wine or bourbon with us as they both recharge. ..A lot of planning and expense went into this night, so my wife would be encouraged to wring it for all she wants

Will I impose any limitations on my wife - ie., what forms of pleasure she can engage in? Nope, none at all. Whatever she wants that he's willing to do is more than fine by me.

 

[000777]

My wife is on a business trip. She called me and told me she has a dinner date with one of the clients tonight! That's a good sign.