Your first time Dominated?

French Prodomme. She was gorgeous. She ended up marrying one of her clients, lucky fellow.

She introduced me to nipple-clamps. Every time I wear them I think of her.
 
11 years ago with an ex boyfriend. It was heaven. Have loved been sub ever since.

My first time was with an ex girlfriend 11 years ago too, I was also the sub/sissy and enjoyed it very much. There is something about giving up control.
 
I think the first time it really solidified in my mind that I enjoyed it was with a BF.

It had been a while since we'd seen each other and I met him while he was still at work. He was not in the mood to wait. He took a break and the next think I knew he drug me right into the bathroom and was tugging my pants down - no words, just a look of utter lust. I was slightly shocked but I could see how bad he wanted it and it made me wet instantly.

He turned me around and shoved in in one go and grasped my tits hard while I clutched the sink and was fucked harder than I could ever remember. :heart:
 
A series of GF's...

First one asked me to dress up in her lingerie and pretend to be her lesbian lover. We did it a few times. The next was a much more experienced girl who not only dressed me up, she put makeup on me, painted my nails, the works.

She man-handled me, treating me like a woman. She stuck her fingers in my ass and instructed me on how to relax and take it. We had many great experiences like that, it was definitely one of the happiest sexual chapters in my life.

I don't crossdress much anymore - it was more of a side-kink than a main one I think, but in any case, I had wonderful experiences that led me gently into more typical submissive roles in the bdsm lifestyle.

I still have a lot to explore, I still consider myself 'green' in the dom/sub lifestyle.
 
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Once with a much older man he made me strip him. We showered and i washed him. Afterwards he sat down and took me over his knee and spanked me. Unfortunatley not much more happened after that.. have a bunch of instances of acting out online for various men and women as well but that was my only irl experience.
 
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my first i was hitchiking around hawaii at 18 yrs of age a 28 yr ole guy picked me up told me he was a gay top i had no idea what that meant but boy by morning i knew went back for more several times
 
It sort of evolved with an old boyfriend. Hey why don't you do this or can we try this. Mostly my suggestions of foreplay games. He was sort of into into it but I found how much I was drawn to it
 
Leather Daddy

My 1st time came so out of the blue. Had been chatting with a guy on a hookup site for a long time, just chat, not real sexual stuff. Well one day he gets a hold of me and asks if he can stop by, since he is in the area.... sure I say, why not?

He comes over and as we talk, he starts putting on these tight leather gloves, He just took over from that point on. I had never given the Leather guys a 2nd look, (That's all changed), Set ground rules, expectations, limits. I figured why not, so I gave into him 110%. And wow did I get so much in return.

I owe him a lot, he helped me come out and be the happy ass person I am today.
 
Was it a BF or Stranger who introduced you to Dom/Sub , BDSM?
For me it was a stranger at a bar (although I later found out it was a set-up by my husband to make me submissive). The guy totally dominated me and before I knew it, I was his little submissive slave willing to do whatever he wanted. Now my husband is a cuckold.
 
For me it was a stranger at a bar (although I later found out it was a set-up by my husband to make me submissive). The guy totally dominated me and before I knew it, I was his little submissive slave willing to do whatever he wanted. Now my husband is a cuckold.
Did husband want to be a cuckold
 
I don't know. It's very addictive - not having any control over my life, just doing what I'm told, and the orgasms, oh my. But I'm embarrassed. If my friends found out about me, the humiliation would kill me.
Fine lines I see. Hopefully you don’t get found out. However, just think of the endless possibilities if you did.
 
My first time was with a sugar daddy. Our first time he was quite rough, rougher than I was expecting.

We discussed it and he expressed his desires, we set some limits and a safe word and second time was better for both of us.
 
My first was my partner. She was a perfect soft sensual Domme.
She just told me not to let go of the headboard as she used sensation and touch to make me a puddle.
 
I was still exploring my gay side. He was physically and sexuslly superior. He sensed my need to submit to him, and he just took over. He was in charge but gentle with me. He told me he had a great orgasm. I was rewarded with the first load of cum that I swallowed. It remains my best gay experience.
 
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