Your first time Dominated?

a man I met online, we exchanged messages over time. One day he's lets me know he's around my area. I invite him over. No idea he was a Leather Daddy. Well he is, and did what Leather Daddy's do. I submitted totally to him, the more I gave in the more pleasure I got. This man taught me a lot about myself. He helped me come out. And yeah his 8"uncut was amazing! LOL
 
Role play with a girl when we were both pretty sloshed - I was restrained and she did something I never asked for or wanted. But the fact that she had total control was hot and I not only forgave her, I begged her to do it again!
 
Hi everyone I haven't been around for a bit but here's my story

Mine was the first guy I messaged here after discovering Lit had a forum after MANY years of reading stories :LOL::ROFLMAO: So once i discovered the forum and him well I have never looked back He could have me laughing one minute and total submission the next! All LDR online He showed me submission wasnt about making me do anything but making me Want to do it for him. He was (and I'm sure still is) amazing I miss him but he would be so happy to know how far I have come

I experimented a bit online here after that and had a bad experience LDR online so yoyoed a bit talking to different guys here

Fast forward to now and I have the most amazing REAL LIFE Dom. I have never felt so safe in my life! The minute I met him I was drawn to him and we spent the next year getting to know one another before he even touched me in private! It may seem long but its what I needed and he intrinsicly knew that. He is inventive makes me laugh and I never really know what he s up to next! The respect consent & trust we have is next level and I have never been happier
 
My roommate in college set me up on a double date and that blind date turned out to be someone who would change my life forever. Nothing drastic but still exciting. He taught me how satisfying it was to submit and that empowered me in a way. I've had some wonderful and some not so wonderful experiences since then. In my 50s now but no regrets!
 
In my early 30's I had just given my first blowjob and thirsty for more. Forget what site I used to set up another "meeting", but when he opened the door, I knew this would be different. He told me I could "tap out" at any time but he was going to use me. He tied me up and fucked my face and toys with my ass for a long time, then his roommate came home. Needless to say, I was very late for my dinner date with my GF and full.
 
It happened so slowly I can't name the first time.
My college boyfriend tied me up a few times, but that was at my request. He didn't know what to do with me once I was tied up. I knew I needed something, but I didn't know what.

Things were slow to develop with Bob. I didn't have a lot of knowledge or experience. I had learned too much about incompatible relationships from the college boyfriend. And I was trying so hard to build a responsible relationship with a firm Christian foundation.


It could have been the first time I was with him, the night he kissed me and teased my tits, but refused to go further, until I was a horny hot mess who couldn't continue my good girl charade any longer, and I had to let go of every thing I was taught in strict Catholic upbringing. And i just HAD to fuck him and suck him and swallow his cum.
Maybe it was the first time Bob tied me up.
Maybe it was the first time I nervously gave him head in the car or at his work.
Maybe it was the night my son was conceived under the moonlight in his driveway, when I was forced face down into the hood of a hot car as he held me hands behind me and took me from behind.
 
I was young and fascinated/obsessed. I went and bought a copy of Screw and pored through the dungeon/domme ads and picked a place pretty much at random. When I got there I was terrified but they showed me around and introduced the ladies.The one I picked knew I was scared but she was very sweet and sensual. I'll never forget that hour.
 
The second time I had sex, by a Domme TV.

She made me suck her cock on my knees, then told me to be a good girl and lick her tights-encased feet.

I put my arse in the air and licked the strange taste from her feet. I knew she was watching my arse wiggling as I worshipped her feet and my clitty was dangling down between my legs, being ignored for a bit. It made me so horny, but she didn't do much else so maybe she was just playing the role.

(She did suck me off later and licked my arse.)
 
I had said that I would try anything sexually once. However, at the time, I had really no BDSM experience. She simply required me to lay over her lap and she spanked me with a ruler repeatedly in the same spot until I begged her to stop. The next day, I was pegged for the first time while being videotaped. I was scared, yet turned on. Despite the pain of having something that large in me for the first time, I couldn't help but want more.
 
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I can't give out too many details, except to say I was coerced by my worse bully into sucking his cock every Thursday at 2pm while his mom was at Pilates. He said it was 'protection payment' but he never stopped bullying me for liking guys. I really loved not having the choice to not do it.
 
I can't give out too many details, except to say I was coerced by my worse bully into sucking his cock every Thursday at 2pm while his mom was at Pilates. He said it was 'protection payment' but he never stopped bullying me for liking guys. I really loved not having the choice to not do it.
Sorry to hear that, kind of hot though.
 
My wife was the first to dominate me.......with her mind and body.......her straps and strap-ons....and her fist!
 
My first time? In theory, boo, I met someone in real life who's writings I was infatuated with - I thought she was so cool - and I wanted to be like her, for her to train me. She had little time to spend on me. She asked me to get a tattoo...a 'branding' that I was her property. I hesitated for a brief moment and she slapped me so hard around the face I fell to the floor. She told me not to waste her time.

I came back to her, the next day, after having got that tattoo, boo.

That was the start.

A x
 
I read an ad from a pro Domme in South Jersey, she was perfect, an Icelandic woman with crew cut blonde hair, and small breasts. She had converted her attic into a dungeon...and when we walked upstairs her naked behind was inches from my face.
 
I guess I always liked controlling women but you would not really call them dominating. But the first iMessage was by a friend of mine. She was kinda socially shy in most situations but not with me. She decided she wanted to explore her dominant side with me. She was the first and got me hooked.
 
So my first time was when I met a girl whose name was Lila, although she used the nickname "Pupa" (it means bottom in Polish). She used this nickname because she liked to dominate guys using her ass.

The first time I met her, it was summer, and she was wearing a bikini. All in all, I could describe how my acquaintance with her began, but I'll move on to the best part.

She didn't immediately start dominating me. The first time took place at the end of August (I met her in June).

The thing is, then Pupa decided to sit on my face, which she did. The fact that being her seat is a wonderful experience. But as soon as she started sitting on me, she started saying that she had something cool for me. I just had to agree by giving a thumbs up.



As I did she was started bouncing her booty up and down.
And she did it for so long that her bottom hurt and my face hurt. That's why we agreed that first I would kiss her ass until it stopped hurting ( ladies first ), and then she would massage my face with her bottom until the pain subsided.


Since then, I have been her ass slave.
 
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