Your BDSM Secrets & Confessions

[A Desert Rose]

I saw this thread elsewhere and thought it might be fun here.

I will start. Here's my secret:

*I hide candy all over my house. (Aside from being a chocoholic, I especially love Easter chick and bunny peeps.)

Okay, that's not BDSM. I can be serious. Here's a confession and a secret:

Several summers ago, I had gone back home to visit family for a week. I ran into an old classmate while I was there. He was/is a reserve cop. We went out for a Sunday afternoon ride to the resevoir.

After hiking around a bit, we returned to the car where things got quite amorous. I had teased him about his handcuffs and he asked me if I wanted to be cuffed and "taken in." I said yes, shyly. There was no hesitation on his part. He went around to the glove compartment of his car and reappeared with them. He pushed me down onto the hood of his car, cuffed my hands over my head and pulled my jeans and panties down. He was very vigorously muff diving when some hiker/campers came upon us. Startled, I struggled with my cuffed hands, to pull my shirt down and my jeans up.

One of them said, "Don't let us stop you. Carry on." They kept walking, chuckling as they left.

Needless to say, we did carry on. Since then, the hood of a car has been a sentimental favorite location of mine for fun and games. My secret is that there is something about being caught or the risk of being caught that has always been kind of exciting for me.

Now your turn......

 

[~Dream~]

Well my secret is...

and I'm way too shy to say it in public(sorry) but involves the fact that I have discovered I may actually have a "kink" for fulfilling one of my Master's fantasies about who he "Might" wanna see me with sexually..omg I cant believe I even typed that!!

 

[chicagoguy]

Rose, love your story.



He’s got his chest on my back across a new Cadillac….oh yea….oh yea…it feels good….it’s alright …….even if it’s just the night in my veins
Pretenders

 

[artful]

Re: Well my secret is...

and I'm way too shy to say it in public(sorry) but involves the fact that I have discovered I may actually have a "kink" for fulfilling one of my Master's fantasies about who he "Might" wanna see me with sexually..omg I cant believe I even typed that!!

-OMG-

 

[Goddess Helia]

Rose Verrrrrrrry nice.


I once had the odd pleasure of having a police officer cuffed to my bed.


It was a summer night when I was 20 and one of my room mates was having her off again, on again playtoy come over. He was a police officer. Young Fresh, unjaded by life and completely willing to do as he was told.

The three of us had some wine and joked about his ability to please two women at the same time.

My room mate told him he WOULD please us. So we went into my Bedroom and told him to strip and give us his handcuffs.

He did as he was told and we cuffed him to the bed.

We then used him for our pleasure. It was very exciting having him restrained in such a way. My room mate asked if I wanted to try the cuffs on. I readily agreed.

So I was then cuffed to the bed. She instructed him to give me oral pleasure until I was begging him to stop. She stimulated my nipples and kissed me as he was doing this.

It was a magical night for all of us.


That was the first time I had ever experimented with handcuffs. Every since then I get extremely excited when I am near handcuffs. I like the way the metal holds me.

Respectfully,
Helia

 

[A Desert Rose]

Thank you

chicagoguy, dream and Goddess Helia.

I loved your input, also.

I have a few other incidents I could relate but I would like to have others post here, too.

 

[Ebonyfire]

ADR, a great thread, but I have nothing to disclose. LOL

Eb

 

[A Desert Rose]

ADR, a great thread, but I have nothing to disclose. LOL

Eb

Does that mean your life is an open book or you want your secrets to remain your own?

(smiling at you)

 

[artful]

ADR

Rose
(aka Miss Prissy Bum, Editor-in-chief of Lancecastor Enterprises, and don't
anyone forget it. I plan to be a thorn in your side if you do.)
(smiling at you)

Does this mean you are threatening to "prick" all offenders?

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: ADR

Does this mean you are threatening to "prick" all offenders?

No hon, I just want all the pricks and all at once. ~smiling big~

 

[artful]

Re: Re: ADR

No hon, I just want all the pricks and all at once. ~smiling big~

(Darn)-You edited it out. You want me to edit my post quote?

 

[Desdemona]

Why do I think I missed something here?


Maybe I'll just take my stuffy nose and sore throat back to bed. <sniff>

 

[Ebonyfire]

Does that mean your life is an open book or you want your secrets to remain your own?

(smiling at you)

I do not put my business in the street.

Eb

 

[A Desert Rose]

I do not put my business in the street.

Eb

Smart woman you. But most all of us know that already.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I do not put my business in the street.

Eb

I only disclose my business to the person who has a need to know. He knows who he is.

Eb

 

[~Dream~]

Des..

Why do I think I missed something here?


Maybe I'll just take my stuffy nose and sore throat back to bed. <sniff>

_________________________
I am so sorry you are not feeling well Sis (gets ya some chicken noodle soup, some 7-up , some tylenol and a soft pillow and good book to read) now that your "comfy" how about a "secret to share hmmm?

 

[Cirrus]

Secrets...oh my where to start. It's not really BDSM, but here goes. This is THE smarmiest thing I've ever done in my life, and I'm not proud of it. I would NEVER do anything close to this again, but...

My boyfriend about 4 years ago, let's call him Ed, was impotent. Dead from the waist down. Full of machismo, he refused to do anything about it. BUT, the relationship was great otherwise, and we did do everything but have intercourse. Still, that's only satisfying to a point. I need intercourse to feel as close as possible to my SO. Maybe I'm weird that way.

Anyway, our relationship was kind of on the outs, but we lived together and since I couldn't afford a new place at the time, I stayed with it. I really DID care about him, but at this point it was more platonic than romantic.

One night after visiting with family I visited male friend, who we'll call Cal, who lived nearby. He was also friends with Ed. We got drunk and ended up in bed. Worst sex I ever had. Small penis, 2 pump chump. Anyway...chalked it up to a drunken mistake and moved on.

Then I met Cal's friend, "Jack", again friends with Ed, a few months later and we had an instant physical connection. A few months later, we all went to a cabin for a fishing tournament. Ed is asleep in his room, not being one to party or stay up late, and Cal, Jack and I are in the main room of the cabin drinking. Cal went outside to get some air, and fell asleep on the porch. While he was outside, Jack and I started fooling around. We didn't have sex, in fact never got our pants off, but enough got done....let's just put it that way.

Ed didn't know about Cal, and Cal didn't know about Jack or vice versa. The worst part of this is, that same night when I crawled into bed with Ed, he wanted to fool around, not knowing I had just messed around with his friend, and a few months prior fucked the other one.

I have NO idea WHY I did any of that...it seems like something another person did, actually...

 

[A Desert Rose]

Worst sex I ever had. Small penis, 2 pump chump. Anyway...chalked it up to a drunken mistake and moved on.

...it seems like something another person did, actually...

Great story. We do often wonder "who person" that was........and we have all been in that position at some time or another.

2 pump chump really made me chuckle.

Thank you for your post Cirrus.

 

[artful]

ADR

I have a few other incidents I could relate but I would like to have others post here, too.

Ok Rose,...your turn again!

 

[~Dream~]

yet another secret..

had met a supposed self-professed Master online about 2 years ago now and just His voice captivated me so that He talked His way into my bedroom through Yahoo voice chat and set up a "list" of things that were "recquired of me to do to "please Him"

being quite faithful to my promises ,I carried them out such as clothespins on nipples,so many minutes per day,no underwear on, masturbation for so many minutes ,etc , all were his "commands.

Well one night HE wanted me to try to "fist ' myself and I had rented a camcorder and as He talked me through this He wanted me to "record it for him also,nedless to say I tried my damndest to please him,to no avail so I made an explicit video for Him instead at His recquest and was just getting raedy to mail it to Oregon to his home..

Thankfully to GOD, something happened to show me that HE was NOT faithful to me.. He knew I had deep feelings for him ,and yet had told me I was His only online sub... that was a lie!I found out through friends at yahoo chat that He was doing the same damn thing with 3 othe women and 1 was a real bitch who hated me...If ever you go to yahoo chat and come across the name Kerovan ..think again , that's him and He hurt me very badly..I was foolish& naive.. it was a good learning experience for me though..

the tape was destroyed the night before I was gonna send it.. pays to be careful ..(hope this helps someone)