YOUNGER men

[Guest]

Have any of you girls ever been attracted to any guys under the age of before or recently?

 

[michaelmt1]

????

i think something is missing from that q.


Mike

 

[arcticfox]

Have any of you girls ever been attracted to any guys under the age of before or recently?

When I was teaching English in Nepal at the age of 18, I had a terrible crush on one of my pupils. He was 14, but very physically mature. I felt sure he had a crush on me too, but I never did anything. He lived just behind the place where I was living for 5 months and I used to watch him helping his mother and looking after his younger siblings, and washing himself on the roof of his house. I used to fantasise about him but since I was his teacher I didn't feel it would be right to make any moves...

since then, not really!
But lately I've been thinking about seducing 15 yearolds and whether it would be a turn on. I'm 25 now, btw. It would be nice to have an affair with a boy and introduce him to the ways of women. But it would take care and responsiblity. Don't know if I have the time and energy for that.
Does that answer your question?

 

[Timeus]

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since then, not really!
But lately I've been thinking about seducing 15 yearolds and whether it would be a turn on. I'm 25 now, btw. It would be nice to have an affair with a boy and introduce him to the ways of women. But it would take care and responsiblity. Don't know if I have the time and energy for that.
Does that answer your question?

I understand the attraction...and it may be mutual.

But please, I beg you, don't--not 15 or 16 year olds anyway. Maybe at 17 or 18.

I don't know how to express this...but I have a very strong gut reaction that this is harmful. Boys are so confused at that age. They need to learn step by step about sex and women and love. You may want to instruct them about cunnilingus and stamina and so forth but what will happen is you will wind up breaking their hearts. Remember they are far less mature than 15 year old girls and all mixed up with a struggle with Dad. They are leaning on Mom at this time.

Think about how well it works out if a 25 or 30 year-old guy seduces a 14 or 15 year-old girl.

If you want something besides your own pleasure introduce him to a 17 or 18 year old girl who knows a few things.

Well, that's my take on it anyway.
Love,
T.

 

[arcticfox]

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I understand the attraction...and it may be mutual.

But please, I beg you, don't--not 15 or 16 year olds anyway. Maybe at 17 or 18.

I don't know how to express this...but I have a very strong gut reaction that this is harmful. Boys are so confused at that age. They need to learn step by step about sex and women and love. You may want to instruct them about cunnilingus and stamina and so forth but what will happen is you will wind up breaking their hearts. Remember they are far less mature than 15 year old girls and all mixed up with a struggle with Dad. They are leaning on Mom at this time.

Think about how well it works out if a 25 or 30 year-old guy seduces a 14 or 15 year-old girl.

If you want something besides your own pleasure introduce him to a 17 or 18 year old girl who knows a few things.

Well, that's my take on it anyway.
Love,
T.

Hmmm...hate to say it T, but you're probably right...
I mean, it was only a vague thought anyhow
I wasn't thinking to instruct them in techniques etc. more than to help them to start to learn about love and sex more in general...but I guess people can do that perfectly well left to their own devices, it just takes some time and mistakes, that's all... I had forgotten that 15 year old boys are younger than 15 year old girls... But let me tell you *very* few 17/18 year old girls are going to be interested in a 15 year old boy! I mean, come ON!! That is NOT what I was after at that age, anyhow...

But, I would say, that there is a cultural precedent for the 'initiation' of boys by older women in some cultures...women approach things differently from guys so the 30yrold guy/15yrold girl is not exactly equivalent. My first love lost his virginity and had a long-standing relationship with a 27yearold (I think) when he was 14. She was his brother's girlfriend...but the result of THAT was, I think, that he became a bit of a sex-fiend and just got really into fucking women. Don't know if that's good or bad.

Still, it's all a moot point anyhow since I don't have time to go scouring the schoolyards for bits of teenage totty

arctic

 

[arcticfox]

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But let me tell you *very* few 17/18 year old girls are going to be interested in a 15 year old boy! I mean, come ON!! That is NOT what I was after at that age, anyhow...

Oh my god...I just realised I contradicted myself completely....I WAS such an 18yrold interested in a 14 yrold...duhhhhhhh

But then, I think that may have had more to do with the fact that I was in Nepal, there were no men around that I could have a relationship with...I saw this boy every day...he was absolutely gorgeous... basically, I was hormonal and desperate!!

In general, though, at that age I was more after a man than a boy...

 

[Guest]

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But let me tell you *very* few 17/18 year old girls are going to be interested in a 15 year old boy! I mean, come ON!! That is NOT what I was after at that age, anyhow...

But, I would say, that there is a cultural precedent for the 'initiation' of boys by older women in some cultures...women approach things differently from guys so the 30yrold guy/15yrold girl is not exactly equivalent. My first love lost his virginity and had a long-standing relationship with a 27yearold (I think) when he was 14. She was his brother's girlfriend...but the result of THAT was, I think, that he became a bit of a sex-fiend and just got really into fucking women. Don't know if that's good or bad.

Still, it's all a moot point anyhow since I don't have time to go scouring the schoolyards for bits of teenage totty

arctic

Thanks...
Yes, there are other cultures where this is not only tolerated but encouraged. Heck, 18th and 19th century France--initiations. That being said, well, (a) we are living in the culture we are living in; (b) the fact that this is done elsewhere doesn't mean they are on the right track--I think lots of cultures are far more screwed up/ about sex & love than Western cultures (e.g. under Taliban, only sexual outlet for men was homosexual contact); (c) lots of boys fall in love/get infatuated with their 22-35 year old teachers--Mom+Lover (d) Even today a large part of German male character, behavior, fetishes and general immaturity I'm convinced is directly traceable to the roles and attitudes of German moms especially, aided and abetted by their dads...Boy I'll catch hell for this one, but I'll stand by it!

I'll bet the same thing goes mutatis mutandus for why there is a geisha culture in Japan, but got no time to go into that now.

I'll bet your first love has spent the rest of his life trying to re-create the thrill and ease and comfort of that first relationship with Mom-mistress. And...it can't be done. May need a headshrink.

You are right about 17 year old girls and 15 year old boys. I'd be suspicious of any such girl interested in any such boy.

That being said, I understand about the lure of virginal beauty, Thomas Mann etc. although the pederasty stuff has no place the way our society is constructed--not excluding our ideas of freedom, personal responsibility and rule of law.
Timeus

 

[Guest]

Under the age of what...?

I, personally, prefer men older than me. It's been very rare I've dated a guy younger than me.

 

[Guest]

ID LOVE TO HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL OLDER THAN ME. OLDER WOMEN ARE THE BEST. THEY'RE MORE MATURED AND EXPERIENCED. I'M STILL YOUNG BUT I'D LOVE TO HAVE SEX WITH AN OLDER LADY.

 

[Monazwx]

I'm with you on this one Tiggs. I'm trying to get away from the younger guys. Immature beyond belief, with no long-term goals.

However, if I could find one over 18, with ambition and maturity I would mind at all.

 

[SexySlut2]

I have always been attracted to younger guys. Over 18 but always younger than me. As a matter of fact, my husband is 6 years younger than me.

 

[UK Male Virgin]

I love the thought of being with an older woman. I find older women so sexy, I think it's the experience thing. I'd love to go with an older women for my first time.