Younger Men

[Tacky Daddy]

ok, the short men topic was succes, here's another one...

let it be no secret that i'm a 19 years old

my question(s) is:

how old are the majority of women on here? and how many would be turned on by a guy my age?

looking forward to some good replies...

 

[peachykeen]

Well I never really cared much for younger men. But now that I'm in my mid 30's, I reckon I'm getting to the age where a woman can really appreciate a 19 year old. So long as I don't have to actually talk to him, anyway.

 

[Tacky Daddy]

as long as u dont have to talk to him??? hmmm....

 

[College_geek]

Well, being an 18 year old, a 19 year old would be my blood running, but there are some older men out there that can do the same thing. Not that I would have a sexual encounter with a man much older than me, but there are some 40 and 50-somethings out there that are quite tasty to oggle at.

 

[SensualCealy]

There is nothing wrong with younger men as long as they are just that- MEN.
To be mature enough to carry on a conversation that isnt about your car or the CHICKS at the BAR is what older women look for.
It helps to also know how to treat a woman.
I find it uncomfortable chatting with younger guys when Im on Yahoo, but there have been a few surprizes too! (Love ya Dinger!)
What ever you do , dont try too hard, be yourself.
Cealy

 

[Tacky Daddy]

i feel u...

whatever i do, i always try to be myself

but on a strictly sexual level, does younger guys turn you on?

you mentioned having conversations with young guys on yahoo, are those regular conversations or are you into that cyber sex kind of thing?

not that i wanna get too personal, just curious whether or not u just like talking to young guys or they really turn you on...

 

[SensualCealy]

I go on the adult sites for yahoo, usually to flirt.
I know it is prejudice to think a young man is immature, but in alot of cases they are. I think at this point I have maybe 4 guys that are younger then I am on my friends list. They ask me for my opinions on issues dealing with women and we flirt like crazy. I guess we help eachother out.
One thing you have to remember with women its more of a mind game with us- we need you to turn on our mind and get us fantasizing, where as guys usually are visual, you see what you like and you get turned on.
If older women turn you on and you relate to them better, they of course seek them out. I have a couple friends married to guys much younger then them, and they dont seem to have any problems other then the usual ones when it comes to marriage.
Good luck and just have fun!
Cealy

 

[Tacky Daddy]

ok... well i guess its a control thing

i would love to have sex with an older woman being in control

is that normal? and how can this explained?

are there any psychic reasons for this?

 

[SensualCealy]

Bringing a fantasy to reality can be a good thing, it also can be a disappointment.
Make sure you get to know the one you are seeking really well before it becomes sexual-IMHO. It will only help things when it comes to actually having sex.
Take care,
Cealy

 

[wicked woman]

You might want to check out this thread

You're too young for me but generally I like younger men.

As for the age ranges of women on Lit...they run the full gamut (from 18 to at least 70)...occasionally on the General Board you'll see a thread with a poll about ages.

 

[Tacky Daddy]

i will check it out, thanks a lot...

 

[Bobmi357]

Well, being an 18 year old, a 19 year old would be my blood running, but there are some older men out there that can do the same thing. Not that I would have a sexual encounter with a man much older than me, but there are some 40 and 50-somethings out there that are quite tasty to oggle at.

Now now Geek, you do us older men a disservice. Not only do older men generally know what they are doing in the bedroom, but generally have the ability to hold a conversation about other things besides our cars or sports.

As a 45yr old, married to a much younger woman (13yrs younger to be exact), she's never complained about these old bones being unable to keep up with her. In fact there are times when she complains I'm as horny as an 18yr old. She was 22 when we first met, and perhaps not as experienced as I was, but I've still learned much from her as I'm sure I've shown her much.

Don't discount older guys just because we're older. We might not be able to fuck all night long, but we can make up for that lack in other ways.

 

[College_geek]

Now now Geek, you do us older men a disservice. Not only do older men generally know what they are doing in the bedroom, but generally have the ability to hold a conversation about other things besides our cars or sports.

As a 45yr old, married to a much younger woman (13yrs younger to be exact), she's never complained about these old bones being unable to keep up with her. In fact there are times when she complains I'm as horny as an 18yr old. She was 22 when we first met, and perhaps not as experienced as I was, but I've still learned much from her as I'm sure I've shown her much.

Don't discount older guys just because we're older. We might not be able to fuck all night long, but we can make up for that lack in other ways.

It's not that, really, it's just the fact that if I started dating a man who was around the age of 50, it would feel like I was dating my father, and although that turns on some people, that's not a fetish of mine.
I think talking with older men is the best thing, because they're not going to start asking if I'm horny every minute of my life and I can hold an intelligent conversation with them. Intelligent conversations are a lot rarer (not nonexistant) with younger men, so it's a nice change of pace to talk with a man who's not talking about how drunk he was last night at the party and how he hooked up with the hottest girl in the sororiety. Psst...I don't give a crap about that stuff!

 

[dollface007]

I have to say, i'm 24 and i'd much rather go out with a 45 year old than a 19 year old. In fact, i won't even date 24 year olds! People often think i'm older than i am b/c i'm very focused in my career, have goals, have my own opinions, and make rational adult decisions for the most part. Find me a 19 year old that could match me on an intellectually stimulating level and i'll give you...well, i don't have any money, but i'd give you alot!!
i have dated men who are way older than me (but not nearly as old as my dad). Also, my little brother is about your age and dating one of his "peers" would seem kind of icky to me.

 

[Tacky Daddy]

even though you wont date a 19 yr old its still interesting to hear how u feel, thanx for contributing

 

[asiasiren]

No thank you on the 19 year olds.
One experience with a 19 year old and it just turned out he went and told all his college buddies about his experience and with whom. He wasn't even satisfying because of his inexperience. But of course he was a stud because he had sex with an older woman.

Give me a man with experience. We can then enjoy each other and not get on these ego trips that young men seem to get on.

Maybe it's a thing about wanting to have sex with their mothers or something. Go find a young girl and learn. She will start you on your road to knowing what your doing. When you know something on how to treat a woman, then yes, it is possible. Of course, you will be older then and more desireable.

Nothing personal against you or any other young man on Lit, just bad experiences with kids trying to act mature.

 

[MrsTrooper]

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[Mary Hall]

I`m 23 and would prefer to date an older man

 

[crazybbwgirl]

When I was 33 I met and ended up living with a 22 yr. old guy for 5 years. He was wonderful and very mature for his age - and very fun too. But he didn't know anything about sex. So I went about teaching him all that I knew. And just when he was nearly trained to perfection he up and decides to join the Marines! The Marines! Anyway - we're still good friends, but I now only date older men. 50 is perfect. I really enjoy a man who knows exactly where all my special buttons are and how to push them. I would rather be with an older man and let him be in control. I'm exhausted from being in control my whole life! I'm ready to let someone else do it....

 

[SnoopDog]

I think it was Madonna who once said:
'Take a 19-years-old, he doesn't know what he's doing, but he can do it all night,
Snoopy

 

[hypatia]

I have to agree with the people who have emphasised the importance of being able to talk to someone. I'm 49 and find that the age of a person is not a factor in how attractive I find them. Intelligence, imagination, consideration - these are the things I find appealing in a man. I have several 'fuck-buddies', one of whom is 64 and another is 23. They both have the ability to entertain, arouse and satisfy me - and that's what's important. Seduce the mind and the body will follow.
kj
p.s. Snoopy, some of the 'more mature' guys can do it all night too!

 

[SexyChele]

I'm approaching my mid-40s and definitely prefer older men. Sorry, but I just wouldn't have that much in common with some one who is 19. And to me the bigger part of sex is in the brain, not the body. If he can't keep up with me on topics that are of interest to me, he loses me. And most of the topics that interest me are of no interest to younger men.

Besides, the idea of having all night is one that I personally find exhausting. I'd much, much rather have the quality than the quantity any night!

 

[SnoopDog]

I'm approaching my mid-40s and definitely prefer older men. Sorry, but I just wouldn't have that much in common with some one who is 19. And to me the bigger part of sex is in the brain, not the body. If he can't keep up with me on topics that are of interest to me, he loses me. And most of the topics that interest me are of no interest to younger men.

Besides, the idea of having all night is one that I personally find exhausting. I'd much, much rather have the quality than the quantity any night!

Hey, I was just quoting.

 

[dark rayne]

well my so is 19 and i am few years older than him. He is very mature as in he doesn't talk about cars and chicks he gets me very sexually aroused in fact he is more in to mentally arousing then just looking but it is up to you.
Because my So is not like anyother man i have ever met. well thast my two cents.
dkranye

 

[College_geek]

well my so is 19 and i am few years older than him. He is very mature as in he doesn't talk about cars and chicks he gets me very sexually aroused in fact he is more in to mentally arousing then just looking but it is up to you.
Because my So is not like anyother man i have ever met. well thast my two cents.
dkranye

Yeah, my Zerg is 20. He can act his age sometimes, especially when he's talking about something he really likes (not cars and "hot chicks", I may add), but most of the time he's a very mature and intelligent man. It may only be a 2 year different between us, but I'd take him over any of the other guys at UMass.