Younger man attrack old women!!?

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Younger male question for older women?

How does a younger man attract an older woman for a lesson and then maybe a relationship? I can think of nothing more pleasing that to have an older woman teach me about my bodies pleasures and how to please a woman. After the lesson then spending the rest of my life with her, maybe.

Luvs & Hugs
~Romeo~

 

[peeeepers]

Just make her feel young and don't say anything to insinuate that she's older. She wants to be on your level.

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Not what I meant.....

Thanks, but I meant is there someway to get an older woman or women interested in yourself. I have this one woman particularly in mind. I would like for us to come together somehow, but do not want to be the initiator. This being because of the age difference, I feel the older should be the initiator.

 

[Monazwx]

Romeo

If you want this lady, then you're going to have to make the first move. Being older, lots of women think that young guys are off limits. Has this woman shown an interest in you?

Anyway, you can drop subtle hints, depending on where you see her and how you came to know her (you didn't say by the way). She isn't married right? Divorced or has kids? She may have baggage that you have to address.

I wouldn't go up to her and tell her that you have a thing for her right way, but flatter her. Peepers is right, make her feel young (but sophisticated, not immature). When she is ready, she'll probably let you know.

Question is, will you be able to handle her?

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Good question????

I don't really know but the other night her friend came up beside me and told me that she her friend not the one I like wanted to have sex with me. Well they both have kids and the lady I like has two kids more my own age. The other woman has three little ones.

 

[coolr]

speaking from experience, most older women are pretty wary because of the age difference usually more so than you will/would be, don't bring up the age difference at all, if they do, "so? age doesn't matter, your point....?" so on, make it seem like it doesn't matter, since it obviously shouldn't once you put their mind at ease about it, they'll be more open to you

 

[mecca_180]

I didnt read much of the later replies but i too wondered this from my thread ....curiosity killed the cat................. just curious myself

 

[Guest]

YoungerMan-Older Woman

There is not different from approaching any woman who interests you. There must be something you have in common to share and move from there. Good conversation is the best turn-on. Ask her out causually, a date with no pressure-movie, play, sports event. If there is a spark set up a seduction.

Just be yourself, she may no accept you but she may have some doubts about her age, body, whatever. Don't take it personally.

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

I didnt read much of the later replies but i too wondered this from my thread ....curiosity killed the cat................. just curious myself

What are you curious about, mecca_180?

Also, wanted to thank the rest of you for your input. Especialy goddessNinja for the advice, I think I will.

~Romeo~

 

[CHEWEY]

Mature Women

Personally from my stand point (43) that line was always the kiss of death in a cyber Although I don't cyber with anyone under 30 anymore. For me it is the age thing, The younger ones have no memory of what your talking about such as, music, what was happening in "the" time. I love talking to younger ones but not for that. It makes me feel like a perv to even think about someone my kids age--23 & 25. But I do enjoy thier thoughts and ideas. Never too old to learn I know ya can't get experience till ya experience them but not a very willing teacher But alot of woman are, you know, you know the ego thing(yes, we have them too)feeling young etc. I have always went for the older guys, dunno why

 

[coolr]

Re: Mature Women

Personally from my stand point (43) that line was always the kiss of death in a cyber Although I don't cyber with anyone under 30 anymore. For me it is the age thing, The younger ones have no memory of what your talking about such as, music, what was happening in "the" time. I love talking to younger ones but not for that. It makes me feel like a perv to even think about someone my kids age--23 & 25. But I do enjoy thier thoughts and ideas. Never too old to learn I know ya can't get experience till ya experience them but not a very willing teacher But alot of woman are, you know, you know the ego thing(yes, we have them too)feeling young etc. I have always went for the older guys, dunno why

i know how u feel in a way, me being a younger guy, and alot of women that i've met felt that way, guess i'm just fortunate to be a fan of the older songs and groups, and actually to know what happened before i was born

 

[voyergirl]

age

age is like size. there is no general rule, but we all have definite perimeters we prefer. and in given the right cirrcumstances we may all cross that line. hey chewey i am 29 dear he he!
my point being a woman doesn't want to look at men the same age as her children thing. in many eyes that is a vodoo(sp?)
unless ofcourse the whole "mommy" thing is a turn-on lol

ahh hell i am confused, if it makes ya wet then fuck it and go from there!

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Voyer girl!!!

All girls want size, and I have yet to see a girl turn down an older man. They want the cake and eat it, too. How do the younger mean become well expirenced as ever girl wants, without the training. If you look at my profile you will know that I do not lack in the looks dept. Though, I have already started to become bitter to most girls because the segregate others on age or whatever it may be.

~Romeo~

 

[voyergirl]

looks?

here is my take on your responce!!!!!
" " = you
( ) = me
now try to follow me okay lol

All girls want size, and I have yet to see a girl turn down an older man. They want the cake and eat it, too. How do the younger mean become well expirenced as ever girl wants, without the training. If you look at my profile you will know that I do not lack in the looks dept. Though, I have already started to become bitter to most girls because the segregate others on age or whatever it may be.

~Romeo~

"All girls want size, " (NOT TRUE that is a very general and sexist remark!)

"and I have yet to see a girl turn down an older man." - ( i have and i am sure i will again and again, age doesn't gaurentee maturity)

" They want the cake and eat it, too." - (NOT everyone is like this!)

" How do the younger mean(men i think) become well expirenced as ever girl wants, without the training." _ ( this one made me laugh i am sorry. listen i don't know WHO you've been with, but NOT EVERY GIRL wants an experienced guy. and training lmao, is there like a "bootie camp" for guys to get fucking experience? NOT!)

"If you look at my profile you will know that I do not lack in the looks dept. " - ( i looked, i saw nothing)

"Though, I have already started to become bitter to most girls because the segregate others on age or whatever it may be." - ( don't know what to say to this one, i don't quite understand the comment. sorry)

voy

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

voyergirl

I'm not going to get in an argument with you about how I feel and how I feel the world is. YOU come here with the wrong intentions, this board is not to critisize anyone, it is merly to share. True you may say that I critisized, but you will also have to tell me where I made my words point to any individual. I can tell my words upset you (which you shouldn't let happen), and for that I hope you will forgive me. I did not mean all girls when I said it, I meant most girls in general from my observation's. I in no way meant for that to be a sexist statement. As far as my profile if you saw nothing I am sorry that I was that rude, the statement now sounds quite egotistical.

~Romeo~

 

[Suzan]

younger men-older women...

.I especially agree that no matter the age,you have to have that sexual attraction to eachother.You can have the best conversation in the world and not even want to have sex with them or anything-cause their so damn ugly...lol...Every aspect matters in order to have a fullfilling relationship.Personally I am older and young men find me desirable-but to me ( if I was looking)I wouldn't even look at a relationship with someone 15 years younger than I,very seriously.If anything a boy-toy! But in most cases I have seen with people I know...this type of lifetime relationship-with the age difference and all,doesn't seem to last a lifetime.

 

[Sex & Diamonds]

Hey Romeo


I'm with voyergirl on this one.

Yes the BB is for people to share, and that's excatly what she did, just cause you didn't like what she said don't mean it isn't sharing


Just gotta take the good with the bad honey.

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Ok, but I no longer have a use for this question

Sex & Diamonds, I respect different views, but I think she was trying to put me down in a nice way. I do apologize for saying you were wrong, Voyergirl. I should have said I thought you were wrong instead of you wear wrong. Please excuse me for any wrong peceptions you may have had.

~Romeo~

 

[voyergirl]

romeo

Sex & Diamonds, I respect different views, but I think she was trying to put me down in a nice way. I do apologize for saying you were wrong, Voyergirl. I should have said I thought you were wrong instead of you wear wrong. Please excuse me for any wrong peceptions you may have had.
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originally posted by romeo

okay first of all i was not trying to put you down in any way. i was simply lightening the situation. you seemed shut down to new partners and transfixed on the views you shared with us in your post. just try being more positive about women and i mean ALL women, just because you've had a bad experience in the past. if you look at every relationship as though it will turn out bad then it will do just that!

as for the saying i was wrong bit! "don't let it happen again or i'll hunt ya down and smack your ass!"

kidding kidding that was a joke, lighten up romeo!

listen as hard as it is to believe (gulp) yes, i am at times wrong lol.
and every once in a while i need to be reminded of that fact.

aslo i have no preconeived opinions about anyone here. in general everyone here i have met here has been great!

and romeo if i wanted to insult you believe me you and everyone else would have known it!

voy

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Reasons......

Maybe the reasons are because I am in a small town, before I was old enough to drive I lost the ability to drive, leagaly, and I am yet to get very far form here for any extended period of time. I am not bitter towards women in contrary I love them with all my heart. I lash out with my typed words because I feel lost. I have so much I want to share with someone but I'm continually left to the side lines.

~Romeo~

 

[voyergirl]

i feel sorry for you, heve you tried dating outside of the circle of your small town?

and by the way, what did ya do to loose your licence?