young guys + older woman , wuts the deal?

[max_dylen]

ive always wandered why I and many other young man share the fantasy of being with a older sexually verile woman, dun know if i spelled that right

any way im 20 and ever since i started beating off i remember fantasysing about being with a older woman and thought my wide spread "research" ive found that im not alone there are thousands of other young guys like myself lookin for a older woman

why is that

then only answer i can come up with is that men reach their sexual peak around 19 years of age, and woman reach it in their 30 , so they say i dont know if im on the money about that fact

id like to hear from both woman and man
or any ages , im really curious about this

also let me flagrantly advertise myself and my search for a older woman , so ladies if u wanna pick my brain about something drop me a line , on second thoughs if any one wants to pick my brain about anything drop me a line

peace + love + harmony

 

[koalabear]

Be sure and send us pics........

 

[SleepingWarrior]

When you are 20 (Like I soon will be also) its hard not to be attracted to older women because alot of the really great looking and sexually educated women are older than we are. Could name a few women here that are in their 20's that I would go for, but in the same aspect as you and I they are most likely attracted to older men.

 

[Eagle70]

I'm 19, i had my virginity taken by an older woman, and i just tend to get along ALOT better with older women than i do with girls my own age. They're so much more mature. And sexy. And everything GOOD. Not foolish like most girls my age...and those that are at my age, generally tend to not exist, at least i havent found any yet.

 

[DevilBoy79]

no clue, perfer woman younger then me, but asking this question is asking why tall men like short women, and vice-versa

 

[Eagle70]

hahaha, i'm tall, and i like tall women..go figure

 

[cymbidia]

So, uh, an "older woman" is 30?


Just trying to get the age thing pinned down for you young virile studs who hav so much to offer those old hags. I mean, those sexually dynamic and experienced love goddesses.



I'm curious, why would such a woman want you, anyway?
Most of y'all don't know how to fuck - not and do it with anything remotely resembling the level of passionate control and exciting variability that love goddesses have come to want in a partner.

Sure you've got staying power, and your peckers don't know what "sit and stay" means, but you're almost uniformly lacking in the attributes of tactile finesse and sexual sophistication that more than make up for what an older man is lacking in stamina. ("Older man" being one who's reached the ripe age of 30+ years if we're carrying through with the young studs def for "older woman", right?)

I'm not downing you sexy little puppy types. There are those who really like to play with you, i know that. I'm not one of them, as is probably obvious, since in a partner i seek one with the capacity for intuitively creative and widely varying sexual play, attributes not often found in young studs - most of whom think humping enthusiastically is, well, goddamn hot sex! Right up there next to a good blow job.

Oh. Yeh. Right. Blowjobs top the list for almost all men, regardless of age.

Anyway, add me to the list of those who prefers to share my sexuality with a sexually sophisticated older man, please. Besides, i need someone exceedingly kinky - and you gotta grow into your kink. It doesn't come to any of us the way masturbation did - as a gift from the gods when we couldn't sleep one hot dark sweaty flesh-dreaming gasping-for-air body-shaking-and-convulsing night. Kink is a thing of trial and error, thought and choice.

There will be a woman who wants what you're selling along shortly, guys. Don't sweat it.

Later, though, when you're old - 32, 33 - you'll be glad women like me exist, too.

 

[scylis]

ok, i'm just going to shoot myself in the head now, cym. you just crushed all my hope, thank you very much!

 

[cymbidia]

Ahem.
The exception to everything i've just said is scylis, of course.

A good sense of humor moves any of y'all sexual puppies right up through the ranks of the other puppies.

 

[MissTaken]

Cym rocks!

 

[SleepingWarrior]

So, uh, an "older woman" is 30?

Oh. Yeh. Right. Blowjobs top the lost for almost all men, regardless of age.

'Older' for me isn't just an age, but speaking on age if your 1 day older than me I consider you an older woman. Mainly the thing for me is experience. I have hardly any real experience, and what I am really looking for is someone who could help me grow sexually. If fast and furious sex is the only thing I wanted I would go for the younger, inexperienced women cause I could tell them thats what its all about. But instead I want some variety: slow, fast, different positions, raw, passionate, etc.


Oh, and blowjobs are low on my list. It's nothing extremely exceptional in my opinion.

 

[Eagle70]

<plane flies overhead...Eagle70 written on the side...>

<Cymbidia takes aim...>

<Eagle70 plummetts in a death plunge...crashing hard into the ground>

Damn Cym...wow, i feel like going and crawling under a rock..hey Scylis, any more ammo in that gun?

 

[Allison484]

So, uh, an "older woman" is 30?


Just trying to get the age thing pinned down for you young virile studs who hav so much to offer those old hags. I mean, those sexually dynamic and experienced love goddesses.



I'm curious, why would such a woman want you, anyway?
Most of y'all don't know how to fuck - not and do it with anything remotely resembling the level of passionate control and exciting variability that love goddesses have come to want in a partner.

Sure you've got staying power, and your peckers don't know what "sit and stay" means, but you're almost uniformly lacking in the attributes of tactile finesse and sexual sophistication that more than make up for what an older man is lacking in stamina. ("Older man" being one who's reached the ripe age of 30+ years if we're carrying through with the young studs def for "older woman", right?)

I'm not downing you sexy little puppy types. There are those who really like to play with you, i know that. I'm not one of them, as is probably obvious, since in a partner i seek one with the capacity for intuitively creative and widely varying sexual play, attributes not often found in young studs - most of whom think humping enthusiastically is, well, goddamn hot sex! Right up there next to a good blow job.

Oh. Yeh. Right. Blowjobs top the list for almost all men, regardless of age.

Anyway, add me to the list of those who prefers to share my sexuality with a sexually sophisticated older man, please. Besides, i need someone exceedingly kinky - and you gotta grow into your kink. It doesn't come to any of us the way masturbation did - as a gift from the gods when we couldn't sleep one hot dark sweaty flesh-dreaming gasping-for-air body-shaking-and-convulsing night. Kink is a thing of trial and error, thought and choice.

There will be a woman who wants what you're selling along shortly, guys. Don't sweat it.

Later, though, when you're old - 32, 33 - you'll be glad women like me exist, too.

Cym, that is absofuckinlutely the best answer I have ever read on Lit, bar none!! Go Girl!

From one "older woman" to another.

Allison

 

[DevilBoy79]

hahaha, i'm tall, and i like tall women..go figure

eh got me stumped

 

[scylis]

Ahem.
The exception to everything i've just said is scylis, of course.

A good sense of humor moves any of y'all sexual puppies right up through the ranks of the other puppies.

yeah, well, you say that now. just wait until you put your hand on my shoulder and i cream my pants from just that alone.

 

[max_dylen]

cym i agree wut a spectacular answer , really thought out , makes me with i thought about wut i posted a lil more heh
to answer ur question when i say older woman age isnt that important
its more about attitude as all things in life are
its more about experiance and not nessesarily sexual

for me i have to say that i see a older woman as a authority figure , mainly cuz my parents taught me to respect my elders, but also cuz of that whole experience thing, and that excites me cuz im sort of a sub
or it might be that i see myself as a very mature 20 year old , maybe all 20 year olds think that ,who knows

well i cant organize my thoughts tonight so ill leave it at this

 

[alexandraaah]

I disagree; I've found some wonderful men who are younger than I am. My last boyfriend was 38, (I'm 31) and he acted about 17.

That's all I'm saying right now.

Mad about the boys.

 

[Eagle70]

Older women are more mature...i grew up with a sister 10 years older than me, and one 8 years older than me, and i grew up with their friends, etc...around adults, mainly. I just get along so much better with "older women" then i do with girls my own age, just cause i'm not used to dealing with girls my age, and their foolish "maturity". I went to an all boys highschool for christs sakes. Older women are the only ones i know how to deal with, cause to them, i'm not 19, i'm older...to girls my age, i'm either the "dad" or the "big brother".

 

[cymbidia]

Oh, and blowjobs are low on my list. It's nothing extremely exceptional in my opinion.

You haven't, obviously, had me suck your dick.

There are blow jobs...and then there is oral sex as it's performed by someone who really loves the whole thing.

I get immense pleasure from sucking cock. I get really wet. My nipples tighten into hard nubs. I moan around your dick as it slides in and out of my mouth and deep into my throat. I squirm and wiggle and gasp for air. I can almost cum, sometimes, just from sucking cock. I love it. All of it. From the feel of your cock as i nuzzle it with my lips, just tasting the precum a tiny bit with the tip of my tongue...to the long slow licking down your erect dick, tongue tasting your skin the way you'd lick a cherry popsicle on a hot summer day...to the gentle insertion of my finger into your ass in search of your anal hot button (aka your prostate gland)...to the easy in-and-out of my finger in your ass while my mouth is sliding, hot and wet and slippery and firm, up and down on your cock...i love it. You would, too. Don't give me that "It's nothing extremely exceptional in my opinion" stuff because all it tells me is that you've never had a really good blow job. All it takes is one to blow your mind, errr, change your mind.

Of course, i'm too old for you pups.
And you're not sexually sophisticated or kinked enough for me.
So there we are.

 

[Eagle70]

<Throws arms up in the air>

I give up

 

[Zamdrist]

I think I'm gonna fuckin' hurl.

I've always been attracted to older women, and vica versa. Yeah, I spelt that wrong, shoot me.

While I might want the 18 year-old blonde hussie, reality kicks in.

 

[SleepingWarrior]

Even hearing you describe it doesn't really do much for me. Personally I am much more intuned to the feelings that are shared through LOVEmaking. I don't get off unless there is a mutual love and respect that I can feel being shared. I have my hand for feeling just the plain ol' physical sensations of climax. So basically I am in a no win situation. I have a great deal of love to give but no one to give it to because I am very picky about who I allow myself to develop feelings for.

And to expand on my so called 'no win situation' I feel I must add that one can't become truely experienced unless you learn how and what to do from someone who knows that already. I am not gonna learn anything spectacular from a girl that doesn't have a clue on what needs to be done to grow sexually either. And to compound my situation even if I did meet that someone who could fulfill my wants and desires I am not very capable of letting my feelings be known for fear of being laughed off.

 

[Zamdrist]

Even hearing you describe it doesn't really do much for me. Personally I am much more intuned to the feelings that are shared through LOVEmaking.

So like, it wouldn't turn you on to say...not make it to the bedroom with your lover, and just rip eachother's clothes of in the hallway and have hot sweaty animalistic sex on the floor?

 

[StrawberryPez]

So like, it wouldn't turn you on to say...not make it to the bedroom with your lover, and just rip eachother's clothes of in the hallway and have hot sweaty animalistic sex on the floor?

WOO HOO! I could go for a little of that right about now

 

[SleepingWarrior]

So like, it wouldn't turn you on to say...not make it to the bedroom with your lover, and just rip eachother's clothes of in the hallway and have hot sweaty animalistic sex on the floor?

Oh it would turn me on immensely. While fucking like animals on the floor is a form of sharing each others love it just isn't the same as an intense encounter of slowly and passionately sharing each others love for one another. I personally get more pleasure from the love involved in a relationship than the fucking. Guess i am just a weird that way maybe.