Young Bi guy with questions

[Workinguy20]

Hi

I am a new comer to Lit and I have a few questions to those guys older and younger who have feelings for guys. When was the first time you knew you wanted to be with a guy sexually ? If you already had it how was your first time with a guy ? How do you know if you really want a certain guy or not ?

 

[TulaneCowboy]

First time I knew: 14 years old
First time I was: 15 years old and it was awkward but good.
How do I know: The same way anyone knows. There's attraction and desire. Relationships are the same way. I don't fall in love with genitalia, I fall in love with people.

In all of life the "why" of sex and love is fairly easy. It's the rest of the questions that make it complicated.

 

[webber1998]

The first time that I was with a guy I have to be honest and say that I had never even thought of it before. It was my first sexual experience. After the first time though, I knew that I wanted to do it again... and again... and again... that was when I was 14.

After the first time, which was awkward, but extremely exciting, having sex with him was all that I could think about. I wanted his cock... and we had LOTS of fun exploring.

Now that I am older, I have to meet someone. Get to know them a little bit and know whether they are for me or not. If we hit it off, great.

 

[Workinguy20]

New Qusetions

Tell me about your first time with a guy ? How did you know that he wanted what you wanted ? How did it turn out in the end for the relationship ?

 

[Cigan]

Mine is kind of an odd one. I was very very VERY out of touch with my own hormones and emotions when I was in high school. I was dating a girl, because she was completely head over heels for me and I just sort of was along for the ride. She was bi and we would talk about that sometimes and one day we were talking about the video to NIN closer, and I made a comment about how good Trent Reznor looked tied up and blindfolded. Now I think about this now, and it was completely a "I want to fuck him raw" comment on my part, but somehow attraction on a subconscious level and conscious acknowledgement of that were not meeting with me. My girlfriend at the time laughed and made the comment that I was totally bi. (The wording was oddly ditsy for her). The comment struck me and I actually sat down and thought about it that night and realized she was right. We didn't date for much longer. Funny thing is I think back and I realize I fell for guys before, I just never knew I did. I never even thought for a moment that sexual desire could have been part of it. I don't exactly know how I developed self repression so completely in middle school and early high school, but I did.

 

[Workinguy20]

First Times

Come on guys tell me about the first time u sucked a fat one lol

 

[Cigan]

Hey now, there is a whole thread to the first time we sucked cock, and we all had fun posting on it. It's still on the first page, don't make us type it up again for no reason.