Getting a (sex) life
I don't know if this is the appropriate thread or not... if not please direct me
It seems semi appropriate as I live in Perth, but it's more of a 'how to?' than a 'personal'.
I'm 20, nearing 21. Male, reasonably attractive. I live with my parents (and my older brother)
I'm a complete virgin (cyber doesn't count)
and I've never had a girlfriend (cyber doesn't count)
In fact, I've only kissed once, and even that wasn't really reciprocated.
Now, unsurprisingly, I'm somewhat unsure of myself. I get terribly lonely, but as friends point out, there is a freedom to being single that I should be enjoying while I can. I can see that they are right; I can do what I please most of the time. Having a girlfriend would place a great number of restrictions on my life - some of which I may not be pleased to accept.
I crave sex, and most things related to sex. Just the thought of having someone to hold at night when going to sleep drives me insane with lust. If only.. if only...
I was talking with one of my friends a few days ago, and this topic came up. One of the suggestions she made was that I "get into the bdsm scene, lots of call for good male slaves there".
On one hand I wouldn't mind doing that - getting 'free love' with no strings etc. But on the other hand, that is not what I want at all. While I have no aversion to sex for the sake of sex, I feel that I really need a relationship.
I guess what I need is your advice. Do you recommend persuing sex? Or would I be better off waiting for the right girl to start my sex life with?
Zustiur.
I don't know if this is the appropriate thread or not... if not please direct me
It seems semi appropriate as I live in Perth, but it's more of a 'how to?' than a 'personal'.
I'm 20, nearing 21. Male, reasonably attractive. I live with my parents (and my older brother)
I'm a complete virgin (cyber doesn't count)
and I've never had a girlfriend (cyber doesn't count)
In fact, I've only kissed once, and even that wasn't really reciprocated.
Now, unsurprisingly, I'm somewhat unsure of myself. I get terribly lonely, but as friends point out, there is a freedom to being single that I should be enjoying while I can. I can see that they are right; I can do what I please most of the time. Having a girlfriend would place a great number of restrictions on my life - some of which I may not be pleased to accept.
I crave sex, and most things related to sex. Just the thought of having someone to hold at night when going to sleep drives me insane with lust. If only.. if only...
I was talking with one of my friends a few days ago, and this topic came up. One of the suggestions she made was that I "get into the bdsm scene, lots of call for good male slaves there
". On one hand I wouldn't mind doing that - getting 'free love' with no strings etc. But on the other hand, that is not what I want at all. While I have no aversion to sex for the sake of sex, I feel that I really need a relationship.
I guess what I need is your advice. Do you recommend persuing sex? Or would I be better off waiting for the right girl to start my sex life with?
Zustiur.
