You want to get me what?

[x_Ava_x]

The other day under the influence of a few drinks a friend confessed he wanted to get me pregnant. Literally with a real baby.
I found this confusing since we aren't romantically involved. I've also had the same thing said to me by a previous boyfriend.
Has anyone else had this said to them? Or guys, have you said this to a woman?
I'm curious why getting somebody pregnant would be such a big turn on?

xx

 

[vibes]

The other day under the influence of a few drinks a friend confessed he wanted to get me pregnant. Literally with a real baby.
I found this confusing since we aren't romantically involved. I've also had the same thing said to me by a previous boyfriend.
Has anyone else had this said to them? Or guys, have you said this to a woman?
I'm curious why getting somebody pregnant would be such a big turn on?

xx

Pregnant women being a porn genre, I gather the whole situation must be a turn on for some.
Aside of that, are you sure the two guys weren't romantically involved, unknown to you?

 

[rexhame317]

OMG...funny this came up. I actually had someone, who I just started chatting with recently, say this to me. Multiple times.
In his defense, he is over 10 years younger, and is probably thinking about it, but I am past that stage in the game!!

 

[vibes]

OMG...funny this came up. I actually had someone, who I just started chatting with recently, say this to me. Multiple times.
In his defense, he is over 10 years younger, and is probably thinking about it, but I am past that stage in the game!!

I had never thought of a pregnancy as a game, especially when I was young(er)

 

[x_Ava_x]

Pregnant women being a porn genre, I gather the whole situation must be a turn on for some.
Aside of that, are you sure the two guys weren't romantically involved, unknown to you?

No, they didn't know each other.
I just think a baby is something pretty serious and since me and him are still young.

 

[vibes]

No, they didn't know each other.
I just think a baby is something pretty serious and since me and him are still young.

LOL

I realize I have worded it wrongly: I meant that each of them might have been romantically involved with you ...

 

[SpiritRider]

The other day under the influence of a few drinks a friend confessed he wanted to get me pregnant. Literally with a real baby.
I found this confusing since we aren't romantically involved. I've also had the same thing said to me by a previous boyfriend.
Has anyone else had this said to them? Or guys, have you said this to a woman?
I'm curious why getting somebody pregnant would be such a big turn on?

xx

Never said that to a woman, not even my ex-wife...and we had two kids. LOL

 

[rexhame317]

I had never thought of a pregnancy as a game, especially when I was young(er)

I mean game as in my life. Just had my youngest hit their tween years, so past the baby stage.

And it came up EVERY time we talked about sex. Just weird

 

[OnceFuturePoly]

Famous seduction line (or least in a movie I saw the other night):

"How about a candle light dinner, a weekend in Venice, you have my baby?"

 

[subwannabe]

There are some who get into this for some reason. I never could figure out why other than cave man genes where we men can prove our virility. We also might like showing off to other males who we had got a chance to "knock up".

Having said that, I think in most cases this is some kind of a stalker trick to be used to catch someone we want. I'm going to assume you are very attractive. If a man were to get you pregnant, maybe, just maybe, we could talk you into getting married and be able to fuck you for a very long time. If nothing else, maybe we can not get married and if our lives are intertwined through having a baby maybe, just maybe, we would still be able to fuck you from time to time. If none of those happen this person can still fall back on the cave man gene scenario where we can show others proof that we had "nailed" you.

 

[x_Ava_x]

There are some who get into this for some reason. I never could figure out why other than cave man genes where we men can prove our virility. We also might like showing off to other males who we had got a chance to "knock up".

Having said that, I think in most cases this is some kind of a stalker trick to be used to catch someone we want. I'm going to assume you are very attractive. If a man were to get you pregnant, maybe, just maybe, we could talk you into getting married and be able to fuck you for a very long time. If nothing else, maybe we can not get married and if our lives are intertwined through having a baby maybe, just maybe, we would still be able to fuck you from time to time. If none of those happen this person can still fall back on the cave man gene scenario where we can show others proof that we had "nailed" you.

Yes I thought it might just be some sort of caveman instinct, haha.

But thanks for the further insight, maybe it is just his way of saying he wants to be with me. An unconventional way. Unfortunately i'm not interested in him but I suppose I should be flattered?

 

[Elaya]

I can see how it would be a form of excitement through ownership and domination. what would make more of an impact on someone, the ultimate "staking out your territory"... than there... I planted my seed.. now she has my child in there.

That's my interpretation. I can understand it. It's the follow through that likley isn't so well envisioned.

 

[ebunny15]

Yes, that has been said to me. It sounds exciting when it's being discussed, and God knows how much I've always wanted to be a mother. But in the daylight, thinking about it alone in my house, not being married, in my 30's, and with my family history, most of the time it hurts to much to really think it would happen.

 

[AdjectiveNounVerb]

I'm assuming a "You know if we stay together, I'm going to want to marry you and have kids someday" sort of conversation doesn't count, right?