You want sugar with that?

[sunstruck]

When your close friends disagree with you, your actions, thoughts, whatever, do you prefer they come out with it straight and harsh or candy coat things to soften the blow?

Are you the kind of person that is always straight foreward even when you know what you say can be hurtful, or do you often hold your tongue or soften your words to spare someone's feelings?

Personally? I usually try to get my friends to see things for themselves first, kind of guiding them through my thought process without exactly telling then what I think. But if they are being blatently dim, just refusing to see the truth for what it is as opposed to what they want it to be I'll not mince words. I've found that people are more willing to forgive you for calling them a dumbass than they are if you stand aside and let them continue to be a dumbass. That's what friends are for. lol

 

[Dillinger]

Did you say blow?

 

[sunstruck]

Hey everyone look! It's Dillinger's COCK! Now the Christmas season has truely begun.

Would someone please steal his AV and make it more festive? Maybe a santa hat or stripe it like a candy cane?

Hey there Dillyicious.

 

[Dantetier]

Can anyone guess if I'm direct or all sugary sweet?

 

[Purple Haze]

I don't think anybody cares, really.

 

[sunstruck]

Well Hazie, we all know which categorey you fall into you sweet talker you! lol It's one of the reasons I like you.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

depends on the situation. In face to face discussions I am, as a rule, much more cutting and to the point than online, where I tend to sugar coat.

 

[DarkAngel]

Boo Whoo

 

[marksgirl]

My friends candy coat anything.....HA! Maybe when hell freezes over!

 

[Mia62]

depends on the situation. In face to face discussions I am, as a rule, much more cutting and to the point than online, where I tend to sugar coat.

That bridge is getting higher by the second.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

That bridge is getting higher by the second.

here is to hoping you fall off it. A header would make my holidays all the brighter.

 

[sunstruck]

here is to hoping you fall off it. A header would make my holidays all the brighter.

Ok that's another for the shoot from the hip categorey. lmao

 

[Lancecastor]

Personally? I usually try to get my friends to see things for themselves first, kind of guiding them through my thought process without exactly telling then what I think.

Does this explain your fondness for using Unreg so often?

 

[Mia62]

Re: Re: You want sugar with that?

Does this explain your fondness for using Unreg so often?

 

[brokenbrainwave]

profound and totally void of original thought. WB brat, things never change.

 

[Mia62]

Thank you, dear...but I was just quoting that so she could see it. Unless, of course, she has me on ignore as well.

Ciao, kids. Have a good day.

 

[teddybear4play]

My roommate/best friend and I never mince words with each other. We know each other too well not to just cut to the chase, and we each know no malice is intended.

TB4p

 

[Calamity Jane]

Would someone please steal his AV and make it more festive? Maybe a santa hat or stripe it like a candy cane?

 

[DarkAngel]

How about we just pour some salt on those wounds and rub it in for yeah.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

LOL pcg, with a bow and everything?

Wonder if the wifey will take that as her xmas gift, I am a cheap bastard ya know.

Edited to add Brat, your dedication to civil duty is astounding. Really, you deserve a plaque or something...

 

[sunstruck]

Re: Re: Re: You want sugar with that?

Mia, or whatever, thank you for quoting Lance so I would see it. You are truely thoughtful and kind.

I've never posted unregistered intentionally anywhere or at anytime. I think anyone who knows me here would agree that when I have something to say I say it. As me. In fact I think BOTH of you would know that.

But then, you weren't really making an accusation, just trying to plant a seed of doubt in others.

Nice try. Original too. No one's ever done THAT before.

 

[Guest]

i am not

one to candy coat things, thats why my wife is always pissed at me!!!!

 

[sunstruck]

PCG you're awsome. lol

 

[DéjàNu]

Iv played with Dill cock too

 

[Calamity Jane]

PCG you're awsome. lol

There ya go bein all sugary.

In answer to your question, if I know the person pretty well, I tend to be blunt. If they know me well enough to call me friend, they know how I am.