That may well be the start, but just wait until you are the grandparents looking after the kids...
You two sound like my Mum and Dad!You know you're getting old when you and your husband have separate bedrooms, and like it that way. We both sleep better (he likes a soft mattress, I like mine firm). Of course, we visit from time to time, but as far as sleep goes, I want my bed all to myself.
You two sound like my Mum and Dad!
I do see the point, but it's like wearing something in bed - I hope I never get that old.
I do recognise that, but for me I prefer that to be an occasional indulgence. If she usually wasn't there, I'd feel lonely.I never shared a bed until I got married. I didn't like it then, and I don't like it now. I'm selfish: I want the whole damn bed to myself.
Fats Domino sang a song about this gettin' old business.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_KAceUZPbSg
Hurry up!
I never shared a bed until I got married. I didn't like it then, and I don't like it now. I'm selfish: I want the whole damn bed to myself.
). I'm so restless I doubt anyone could sleep next to me. More power to them if they could.
Heck, I knew I was getting old when a young private joined one of my units who couldn't even remember Vietnam.
Why not take charge? Not in bed, but in areas of erotica and fantasy. Instead of going to the local watering hole to play pool, for example, entice him to go to the local lesbian bar with you. Here, you can play with him - tell him what chicks are attractive to you (even if you don't have an interest in chicks), find out what turns him on about chicks and take it home to bed.
Why not take charge? Not in bed, but in areas of erotica and fantasy. Instead of going to the local watering hole to play pool, for example, entice him to go to the local lesbian bar with you. Here, you can play with him - tell him what chicks are attractive to you (even if you don't have an interest in chicks), find out what turns him on about chicks and take it home to bed.
Well, I know that you are a bit sub, and I don't mean to tell you to take a lot of charge, but what about a small step? Buy him some underpants that turn you on. That's a start.We don't have a local lesbian bar... This is a small jerkwater cow-town (in other words, you'd miss it if you blinked), so we are lucky to have even the place with the pool tables. Besides, I *like* playing pool and when the kids are here, we don't get to do it very often. However, I'd like to be able to do both! lol
As far as the taking charge part, I have problems with that... As much as I want to, I am very timid with that kind of stuff due to previous issues and such. I'm working on it and improving, but it's slow going.
Well, I know that you are a bit sub, and I don't mean to tell you to take a lot of charge, but what about a small step? Buy him some underpants that turn you on. That's a start.
