You know what gets me down ...

[DrDav]

You find someone nice and sexy to chat to, you're into them, they seem into you.

Then you find out they're attached, irl.

Maybe it's just me, that I have a moral difficulty with this.

It really seems like nobody is single and available. There's plenty of single people who don't want any attention, plenty of attached people who want to 'play' regardless.

I know it's not like that, but it really feel like it, since they're the only types I seem to meet.

Grumble grumble.
Need a hug.

 

[done_got_old]

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[koalabear]

Real life is still the best way. You can't realistically go by what is presented on-line, or as you stated you will be disappointed. So get off the puter and enjoy real life, it's too short to waste searching on line.

 

[DrDav]

Real life is still the best way. You can't realistically go by what is presented on-line, or as you stated you will be disappointed. So get off the puter and enjoy real life, it's too short to waste searching on line.

Indeed, easier said than done though. Poor health and family circumstances don't allow me the luxury of looking for real-life fun. So, I have to content myself with online connections with people I'm hardly likely to meet.

Sad eh?

 

[DrDav]

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Thank you

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

You find someone nice and sexy to chat to, you're into them, they seem into you.

Then you find out they're attached, irl.

Maybe it's just me, that I have a moral difficulty with this.

It really seems like nobody is single and available. There's plenty of single people who don't want any attention, plenty of attached people who want to 'play' regardless.

I know it's not like that, but it really feel like it, since they're the only types I seem to meet.

Grumble grumble.
Need a hug.

Here's one (((((((((((((DrDav))))))))))) just for comfort. Keep yer chin up, ok?

 

[Cathleen]

Try not to let it get you too down DrDav. It's not all bad.

 

[INeedLove]

If it makes you feel any better, it happens to females too! I've even made mention of not being interested in married men in my profile. Several have ignored it! Like I would put something there just to have something to type? Sheesh!

 

[pink]

i'm so sorry sweetie. It happens to all of us and it hurts.

 

[Raidho]

I don't know you, DrDav, so this isn't about your approach as it is "women like me." (Heaven forbid there might be another like me out there...)

Sometimes it's not so much that they're single and don't want to play ... it's just that they're single and don't want to play with just anyone. I was dead set against anything of the sort until I met someone who changed my mind, and it did in fact carry over into real time.

And I hear ya about the married thing...It's not that I'm looking to get married or get in a serious relationship, it's more that I don't want to have to deal with already-married or already-committed stuff. While it is partly ethical, the majority of it is purely selfish.

Regardless the circumstances, connections can and will happen.

Don't give up

Oh, and Cathleen, VERY nice Memorial Day av.

 

[Emerald Eyed]

Ever ask them right up front?


I usually do in the first conversation

 

[DrDav]

Thanks all.

(BTW the rare time I do 'play' with someone, I like to have got to know them, and neither will I play with 'just' anyone, there has to be some compatibility or it just doesn't work).

As for asking up front, indeed I do, although, especially lately, it's only seems to be the the people who I hit it off with, then are the involved ones.

Yep, keep trying, keep talking I know.

I can be forgiven for being a little frustrated, can't I ?

 

[Raidho]

I'm sure that someone will forgive you