You finally meet in RL!
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plasticman33
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perky_baby said:
I like that, very catchy!! Of course a BJ while wearing a condom, kind of sucks in more ways than one!
MrKinkMaster
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We didn't use a condom. Her getting pregnant was more the worry, but I was fixed so we weren't worried.
rexfelis
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It depends on the woman, and the circumstances. I am very good at "feeling out" a situation. My gut response always tells me when I should back off, or be safe. I am very monogamous, too. And it's not like I have much sex anyway....
But, if my gut response told me that it was safe, and I had spent enough time with her to know it wasn't just the hormones and such, I might do it.
It all depends on the circumstances.
But, if my gut response told me that it was safe, and I had spent enough time with her to know it wasn't just the hormones and such, I might do it.
It all depends on the circumstances.
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MrKinkMaster said:We didn't use a condom. Her getting pregnant was more the worry, but I was fixed so we weren't worried.
Is there a such thing as a temporary vasectomy? Or are you permanently fixed?
mistressastra
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Wow who's that angry one?
I would say no I wouldn't but then I had unprotected sex with the man who became my hubby and we met through snail mail. I guess I was lucky in that I didn't catch anything. I'd think twice nowadays.
I would say no I wouldn't but then I had unprotected sex with the man who became my hubby and we met through snail mail. I guess I was lucky in that I didn't catch anything. I'd think twice nowadays.
perks
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not sure if you meant me, but
let me reply.
I don't think of myself as angry. I think of myself as adamant. I've had too many friends get diseases they couldn't get rid of because they trusted someone.
You know what, maybe I am angry. I'm angry that people play russian roulette with their lives. I'm angry that one of my closest friends died because he believed.
Trust all you want, protect yourself. Live.
let me reply.
I don't think of myself as angry. I think of myself as adamant. I've had too many friends get diseases they couldn't get rid of because they trusted someone.
You know what, maybe I am angry. I'm angry that people play russian roulette with their lives. I'm angry that one of my closest friends died because he believed.
Trust all you want, protect yourself. Live.
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Re: We did
I know this might sound bad or some thing... but I have to agree with Lance on this ... each person has their own views when it comes to such an issue.
And if you & your partner talk about it - and each agree .... then its up to each individual....
Lance Hardrock said:
I know this might sound bad or some thing... but I have to agree with Lance on this ... each person has their own views when it comes to such an issue.
And if you & your partner talk about it - and each agree .... then its up to each individual....
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Re: not sure if you meant me, but
You're right Perky! A lot of us stupidly don't relate to STD's, because we really don't know anyone who has contracted a disease. But, everyone must be aware of the danger. You are more aware than most, knowing someone who actually died.
perky_baby said:
You're right Perky! A lot of us stupidly don't relate to STD's, because we really don't know anyone who has contracted a disease. But, everyone must be aware of the danger. You are more aware than most, knowing someone who actually died.
perks
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Re: Re: not sure if you meant me, but
One in five people in the United States has an STD.
Two-thirds of all STDs occur in people 25 years of age or younger.
One in four new STD infections occur in teenagers.
Cervical cancer in women is linked to HPV
Hepatitis B is 100 times more infectious than HIV
STDs, other than HIV, cost about $8 billion each year to diagnose and treat
One in five Americans have genital herpes, yet at least 80 percent of those with herpes are unaware they have it
At least one in four Americans will contract an STD at some point in their lives.
HPV is the most common STD in the United States. More than 5 million people are infected with HPV each year.
Less than half of adults ages 18 to 44 have ever been tested for an STD other than HIV / AIDS.
At least 15 percent of all infertile American women are infertile because of tubal damage caused by pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), the result of an untreated STD.
Two-thirds of Hepatitis B (HBV) infections are transmitted sexually, HBV is linked to chronic liver disease, including cirrhosis and liver cancer.
You honestly think you don't know someone with an STD? You just don't know they have it. Sometimes, neither do they.plasticman33 said:
One in five people in the United States has an STD.
Two-thirds of all STDs occur in people 25 years of age or younger.
One in four new STD infections occur in teenagers.
Cervical cancer in women is linked to HPV
Hepatitis B is 100 times more infectious than HIV
STDs, other than HIV, cost about $8 billion each year to diagnose and treat
One in five Americans have genital herpes, yet at least 80 percent of those with herpes are unaware they have it
At least one in four Americans will contract an STD at some point in their lives.
HPV is the most common STD in the United States. More than 5 million people are infected with HPV each year.
Less than half of adults ages 18 to 44 have ever been tested for an STD other than HIV / AIDS.
At least 15 percent of all infertile American women are infertile because of tubal damage caused by pelvic inflammatory disease (PID), the result of an untreated STD.
Two-thirds of Hepatitis B (HBV) infections are transmitted sexually, HBV is linked to chronic liver disease, including cirrhosis and liver cancer.
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Re: Purple Haze is right
I take pills to prevent pregnancy. Regardless of how long I'd known someone, on or offline, I would use protection when having sex with them unless I KNEW for a fact they were safe (through bloodtests). That's still not 100% protection, but it's as close as we can get.
Before I was married, I was tested every three months for everything under the sun. Not because I didn't use protection, but because I knew sometimes protection can fail. I'm clean. I know I'm clean because I've taken the time and effort to be tested.
I know too many people who have too many health issues due to trust, their 'gut instinct' and any number of other justifications. I love the feeling of a man cumming inside me. I don't love it enough to risk my life on a whim.
Oilpainter said:
I take pills to prevent pregnancy. Regardless of how long I'd known someone, on or offline, I would use protection when having sex with them unless I KNEW for a fact they were safe (through bloodtests). That's still not 100% protection, but it's as close as we can get.
Before I was married, I was tested every three months for everything under the sun. Not because I didn't use protection, but because I knew sometimes protection can fail. I'm clean. I know I'm clean because I've taken the time and effort to be tested.
I know too many people who have too many health issues due to trust, their 'gut instinct' and any number of other justifications. I love the feeling of a man cumming inside me. I don't love it enough to risk my life on a whim.
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Not you, perky
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plasticman33
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Re: Re: Not you, perky
Mmm, better left forgotten! The temptation was there, but I bit my tongue!
perky_baby said:
Mmm, better left forgotten! The temptation was there, but I bit my tongue!
Lance Hardrock
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I still say
Just from my point of view, I had no qualms whatsover about my meeting. That might not be true for others and it might not be true for me the next time.
Just from my point of view, I had no qualms whatsover about my meeting. That might not be true for others and it might not be true for me the next time.
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Well, it really depends. I would be protected cause I'm married to el Studo, but he would have to be in utter fear for his life. For his own protection sex would best be something that never actually happens. I recommend a good three foot distance and eyes religiously above the neck.
plasticman33
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Elizabeth said:
Absolutely right, Liz! The risk is to great!
I can just hear it...
Are you on the pill?
Yes.
How do I know?
You can wear a condom if you're uncomfortable...
I have an idea, don't these community health places have tests, where you can like get a 'clean bill of health'?
Like a card: "I'm STD free." (With an effective date)
Seriously...
Are you on the pill?
Yes.
How do I know?
You can wear a condom if you're uncomfortable...
I have an idea, don't these community health places have tests, where you can like get a 'clean bill of health'?
Like a card: "I'm STD free." (With an effective date)
Seriously...
christophe
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food for thought....1 in 4 people in the usa has the human papiloma virus.....genital warts......25% of the people you have sex with are infected....
makes that whole condom thing look more appealing
makes that whole condom thing look more appealing
Private Vasquez
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Well, after you get over the initial "HOLY SHIT, YOU DON'T LOOK LIKE YOUR PICTURE!!!" surprise...then yeah...condoms, foam, IUD, the pill, biohazard suits and what not....get it on!!!
