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[ericachastislut]

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[PaxNurgle]

There've been a few threads about this subject over the years. My take on it is, while I love the idea behind it, I'm also very picky over whom I'd hand the keys over to. It would have to be someone with whom I'm in a trusting and mutual romantic relationship, even if it's a kinky and not necessarily monogamous one (On her part anyway. Obviously if I'm the one whose caged, my relationship with her is gonna be monogamous by default.)

So in other words, I'm not one of these guys who'se into looking for some random online "Domme" (who may or may not even be a real actual female) to be a long-distance keyholder. And I couldn't just ask a female friend to do it unless our relationship had evolved beyond just casual friendship. I might have already said this before in one of the other threads on this subject, but part of it for me is both a matter of giving up control of my sex life to someone I love and respect, which thereby becomes a tool for her to teach me to be more attentive and better at making her happy. And of course, the longer one goes without a release, the more intense it is when you finally do.

 

[Goldenfinger]

My wife has the key to my chastity cage. It was a gift to her and one I’ve never regretted.

 

[rodeoclown]

I would like to get one but not sure what would happen. I love the idea but dont knkw that a long distance Domme would be the way to go. Its exciting to think about though.

 

[PaxNurgle]

My advice has always been to avoid the long distance thing if at all possible. Especially when it comes to chastity cages. Your key holder should be someone who you are intimately involved with face to face on a regular basis. At least, that would be my advice.

 

[rodeoclown]

I did a lot of in person stuff first. Honestly it can be just as much fun long distance, especially if she's a bit of a stranger. Like, someone you trust to actually give the code back if needed.

Yeah i would like to meet and talk first, play maybe. But have that personal connection. I have to be careful, cant wrar to the Dr and i am there often unfortunatly.