Writing male ejaculation frequency

[EverLux]

Correction: Cuddling after sex is kinda rare. Not cuddling in general. These last few weeks I was usually thanked with "oh my god, it's so fucking hot".

People say that about my mad cuddling skills all the time

For real, though -- it is hot. I have no AC this summer, so I'm thankful that I'm single. There's no expectation of or desire to cuddle. Sweaty sex is one thing--sweaty cuddling is another.

 

[EverLux]

* Unless they are Minotaurs. I haven't written that story yet, but if someone proposed that question to me, my answer would be thus: if you're on the receiving end of a Minotaur you're gonna get a monster fucking and end up glazed like an alien cocoon. Trust me.

You should write this story. And when you do, you should let me know as soon as it's posted, k?

 

[ThisNameIsntTakenYet]

In my erotica writing experience I've tried to strike that delicate balance between realism and outright fantasy. Males don't blast "gallons of semen" in one ejaculation and none of them have 20 inch monster cocks.* Women don't have back breaking P cupped tits. I've got incest stories sitting in development hell because I didn't want siblings to see each other nude outside of the shower and randomly go at it like non-related college students.

Really though, my realism ends at anatomy and physiology. I wrote a sapphic incest trilogy where female relatives were attracted to each other because of something in their DNA. I wrote a gangbang story where a girl is only sore and tired after having FIFTY DICKS run a train on her in all three orifices, and even after that I don't recall mentioning her stomach feeling sick after ingesting that much cum—although that story was told from a first-person male POV, so how would he know?

When writing erotica, I think a reasonable amount of realism is fine, and probably for the better, but there comes a point where realism might get in the way. If I am writing a fuck story, getting hung up on how much pounding a pussy can scientifically take isn't going to make it better; it is going to hinder my creative process and the story won't get done.

* Unless they are Minotaurs. I haven't written that story yet, but if someone proposed that question to me, my answer would be thus: if you're on the receiving end of a Minotaur you're gonna get a monster fucking and end up glazed like an alien cocoon. Trust me.

I guess I prefer the kind of stories you described, both for reading and writing. As long as the basics are believable you can basically go crazy with other things (as long as it makes sense in the universe of the story).

You should write this story. And when you do, you should let me know as soon as it's posted, k?

I agree, that sounds like a great idea for a story. I actually had some ideas for a similar story involving half-humans like Minotaurs and Centaurs. I'm sure that besides EverLux and myself there are lots of other readers who would love to read a story like that.

 

[MayorReynolds]

My muse has distracted from Lit for about a year now. I've been working on a novel, penning a script for an RPG Maker game and trying to maintain updates on a blog.

Gotta say though, if anything got me submitting to Lit again it would definitely be Minotaur sex. In fact, I've been kicking that concept around in my head a while. I'm not sure how the Minotaur would fit into the story or how he would come to mate his lucky(?) human recipient. But I saw it in my mind's eye all the same.

His name was Fuckbeast.

 

[ThisNameIsntTakenYet]

My muse has distracted from Lit for about a year now. I've been working on a novel, penning a script for an RPG Maker game and trying to maintain updates on a blog.

Gotta say though, if anything got me submitting to Lit again it would definitely be Minotaur sex. In fact, I've been kicking that concept around in my head a while. I'm not sure how the Minotaur would fit into the story or how he would come to mate his lucky(?) human recipient. But I saw it in my mind's eye all the same.

His name was Fuckbeast.

Lol, that's quite an appropriate name XD
If you do write and upload that story, I would love to be notified too.

 

[OliviaM]

My muse has distracted from Lit for about a year now. I've been working on a novel, penning a script for an RPG Maker game and trying to maintain updates on a blog.

Gotta say though, if anything got me submitting to Lit again it would definitely be Minotaur sex. In fact, I've been kicking that concept around in my head a while. I'm not sure how the Minotaur would fit into the story or how he would come to mate his lucky(?) human recipient. But I saw it in my mind's eye all the same.

His name was Fuckbeast.

Haha. Do you mind if someone else is inspired to write minotaur sex? Cause, damn.

 

[EverLux]

Haha. Do you mind if someone else is inspired to write minotaur sex? Cause, damn.

I wonder what the rules are about Minotaur ejaculation frequency. How quickly can the beast's twelve inches get hard and fire off again and still maintain believability?

 

[Bramblethorn]

Correction: Cuddling after sex is kinda rare. Not cuddling in general. These last few weeks I was usually thanked with "oh my god, it's so fucking hot".

oh, hot weather, sure. Summers are awful where I live. But otherwise, we're likely to cuddle up and fall asleep afterwards.

P.S. Eighteen years! You lucky dawg.

don't I know it

 

[MayorReynolds]

Haha. Do you mind if someone else is inspired to write minotaur sex? Cause, damn.

Knock yourself out. We can compare notes ;-)

 

[MayorReynolds]

I wonder what the rules are about Minotaur ejaculation frequency. How quickly can the beast's twelve inches get hard and fire off again and still maintain believability?

The beast has a refractory period of six seconds, whereupon his monster balls immediately replenish with a fresh load. We're talking about a serious fuck machine here.

We're also talking about a beast that's horny ALL the time. When Ladytaurs aren't in heat in-between mating seasons they just kinda shut down, see. That's when it's especially daring/naughty for village girls to go wandering out too far.

Believability would stretch at a Minotaur with, oh, a three second refractory period.

 

[PervOtaku]

I noticed that in a lot of stories I read on here (as well as in a lot of hentai videos) people seem to ignore the the fact that the average male can only ejaculate about once every 30 minutes or so.

I was wondering if this is the same as those guys in anime who wave around impossible large swords? This might sound like a weird comparison, but hear me out. In anime, they threw logic and real-world physics out of the window because that would make for a better or more awesome story. That's what I'm getting at. Could people be ignoring the real world limitations because that would make for a better story? And do you think that's a good thing or not?

Hentai also vastly exaggerates the volume of cum in an ejaculation.

I find that after orgasm, I can reach a second one sooner if I'm watching or reading some really outrageous porn that pushes hard on whatever button I want pushed that day. So the 30 minute thing probably isn't a exacting rule. Also depends on age, I imagine.

Yes, obviously in a story it's more fun if the guy can cum more than once during a fuck scene. In my stories I always give him some time to recharge so it's not completely ridiculous.

A lot of stories make use of suspension of disbelief, but it's a question of degree. It's not hard to find things that rocket over the point were you can reasonably suspend your disbelief.

 

[ThisNameIsntTakenYet]

The beast has a refractory period of six seconds, whereupon his monster balls immediately replenish with a fresh load. We're talking about a serious fuck machine here.

We're also talking about a beast that's horny ALL the time. When Ladytaurs aren't in heat in-between mating seasons they just kinda shut down, see. That's when it's especially daring/naughty for village girls to go wandering out too far.

Believability would stretch at a Minotaur with, oh, a three second refractory period.

Hahaha. Well, because it's a mythical creature you can basically write whatever you want. No one can prove that it doesn't work that way in real life, because they don't exist. And since it's a fictional creature, the reader probably has already thrown most of their sense of reality out of the window, so it might be easier to accept some weird or unusual things as opposed to a piece of erotica that is more realistic.

 

[scenester]

in a thread rife with generalizations and blanket statements, I'll just say:

- I've had several relationships that go beyond six months that still have cuddling after sex.

- In my stories, I do like using post-orgasm cuddling as a reason to do conversation/character development

- I've never timed myself, but in my 20s, I could usually get hard about 3-4 times a night/session with a nice bit of cuddling/making out in between. In my 30s, this was more like 2-3 times a night, and I suspect by my 40s, this will be 1-2 times.

- there was one person that I was with for three months where I was somehow able to have multiple orgasms while continuously fucking her, and I'm still a bit amazed by it. I suspect part of it was pheromones. She always smelled amazing. I also suspect that part of it was just being in really good shape at the time.

- I also find my partners sometimes need a bit of downtime themselves just to recover, especially if they orgasmed and certain parts/nerves are just too sensitive. It can be kind of sexy and erotic to write about people slowly warming each other up by touching and paying attention to how their partner's body responds differently between foreplay and (for lack of a better term) "-replay"

 

[Learin]

Sweaty cuddling in a hot, humid room...ugh. Otherwise it's really appreciated.

I like it when authors try to be as real as possible. The effort is noticeable and I really appreciate that. But TMI and sloppy reality ruins any fantasy that's intended to make people feel good. I mean, I get it that people clean up after sex but you don't have to fixate on that. One author in EC went on and on about how the lady cleaned herself after an epic anal session. Too much yuck.

Also, hunky men with endless stamina is good stuff up to a certain limit. Any more than that and the story transcends from erotic fantasy to Sci-Fi. Forget about the poor vagina, how can a penis handle two hours of hardcore abuse?


If you want to experiment, write what you want to write. There's no better place than this. No one said you can't submit two versions of the same story.

Good luck.

 

[jonavy]

personal experience

I wrote a mostly biographical story about my sort of honeymoon when I was 24 yo. My bride was 11 years older. She was my first love and my first sexual partner. My editor had a problem with me stating how many times I had orgasms that night. Not one to argue with my editor I re wrote the story to be more "humble" about it. But how many times you can go at it is really up to the right ingredients. Such as; in a romantic setting, in love as well as lust, both uber hot for one another, young enough to rapid recharge, excellent build up of anticipation, chastity and separation prior to with known period of chastity and separation just after, superior visuals (she looked smoking hot) and audio stimulation both just prior to and during, and finally mentally prepared/stimulated for a full night of hardcore banging. Bottom line in about 8 hours I popped over 20 times. My dick was coughing hairballs by the end but I still counted them. I didn't know that it would be that unbelievable but than again it was one unbelievable night that has never happened since and never will.

Before anyone asks its not posted yet.
and I still have the scars.

 

[Kantarii]

Damn, I bet it would kill a guy to actually have multiple orgasms in the real world.... Hahaha.

 

[HandsInTheDark]

Hahaha. Well, because it's a mythical creature you can basically write whatever you want. No one can prove that it doesn't work that way in real life, because they don't exist. And since it's a fictional creature, the reader probably has already thrown most of their sense of reality out of the window, so it might be easier to accept some weird or unusual things as opposed to a piece of erotica that is more realistic.

Refractory periods are kind of strange in general and not all animals have them. The only hard limit (er, excuse the pun) to constant sex is gamete production. Meiosis isn't instantaneous. If you're coming by the teaspoon, well, balls only hold so much material and only rebuild it so fast. Any other delays can probably be explained away by fantasy or worked around in sci/fi, but ultimate no guy is going to cum and cum 24/365, or even 4/365, regardless of drugs and realistic improvements.

In one sci/fi story of mine, Becoming Marie, some guys manage to develop a way to eliminate the refractory period almost entirely (along with a lot of other biological changes) - but they weren't fertile after the change. Which they were fine with; I was exploring what perfect sexuality would look like if men could redefine it however they liked, and I think the results were part hot and part creepy. But it's science fantasy, fundamentally implausible. It rated ok though.