Writers, do your stories come from

Datadr

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real life experiences, fantasies, or other suggestions. Which are the easiest for you to write, the so called write themselves.

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All the above. Other.

For the most part it started as fantasy. I'll be posting those in the humor catagory. Thay are that bad!

Then I started writing them as fantasies (and role playing) to be acted out. The ones acted out, I do not consider mine. Seeing how they were shared.

From there I moved from exprience to better fantasies. A lot of things I would act out.

Then I have one I wrote for the Halloween contest. that is from "suggestion" I suppose.

And there is one that I have no idea where it came from. It just happened. Sadly, it was the easiest to write. I only hope I can tap into that source again.

That's just me.
 
My stories come from my imagination.
Some are suggestions for story ideas that people have sent me.
Like Amulette de Puissance. A vampire story based on a request by someone who wanted a vampire story involving me, his girlfriend and himself. He provided physical descriptions only and I filled in the gaps.
I love to just sit down and write, this is when the story seems to flow the best and is the easiest to write.
 
i think my stories are a mixture of the two. i write sometimes of what i would like to happen. sometimes about what i wish will never happen. but always there is a part of me in the story.

i use real life experiences to enhance the fantasies of my story. it works out rather well for me. kind of gives a foundation for the story.
 
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A mixture of real life and fantasy...

Of course, I haven't submitted any yet, so maybe I shouldn't be responding.

:)

Hello Dr! (hugs)
 
Both.

The sexual acts involved come from fantasy. Some of the settings come from experience. I like to base many of my stories in exotic places in the world.
 
My stories come from my fantasies that I have. I use my writing ability to express my deepest darkest hidden desires. I also use feedback from the readers. I give the readers what they want to read. Without the reader feedback we have no barometer to gague how well we are writing.
 
Real experiences

All of mine come from real experiences. They may have been altered for a variety of reasons.
 
Fantasy & Reality

One of my stories, "Slutty Cockpig," is based on actual experience, with only a little embellishment. My two gangbang stories venture into the realm of fantasy, although the character of Steve is "based upon" me. The one that bombed, "A Christmas Tail," is obviously a fantasy, but also a satirical piece.

I'm thinking of writing a story about a gorgeous black transexual who sweeps a bottled-up, repressed, straight (or at least so he thought) white male off his feet, and totally transforms his life.
Wutta ya think?
:p
 
Both and neither. The one on one sex is ususaly based, in part, on real experience, although not always. The group sex is purely made up. I just take all the elements of a really good shag and write about them as if they happened all at the same time.
 
both

Well most of my stories is purely from real life with just a touch of fantasy...its more exciting that way :D

TroubleZ4u
 
all fantasy

In my imagination they make me excited and aroused, but would I play them out in reality? No..... they're too extreme and too 'rough' for want of a better word.

For me fantasy is best kept that way, but for others..... well, I believe it's up to the individual.

Rach xx
 
real life experiences, fantasies, or other suggestions. Which are the easiest for you to write, the so called write themselves

I am apparently the oddity. I have an idea, and expand it to chapters so the whole plot is complete. In parallel I define the characters and then write the chapters as the fancy takes me.

My stories (and my novels) are all completely plotted before I write a word of text or dialogue. My characters do not "write the story themselves", nor does the story change significantly from the original idea during the writing.

I can only suppose that this is because I make my living (the day job) writing non-fiction, usually on demand from customers.
 
I'm not certain how many of the respondents here write poetry, but as that is my primary submission, I figure I'd throw in my "insperation." In the case of the poetry, it's all based upon what I want the reader to feel, and then I try and get that sensation into words that do the best job.

H.Pindar
 
The story presently in discussion was a "Wrote itself" with some fantasy and some experiance.

In the other posted story(3 parts) it was all fantasy.

Some of the sex is from experience, some whishful thinking, some pure fantasy.
 
Fantasy

What I write tends to be something that is fantasy that I wouldn't mind happening.
Vs fantasy that I have no desire taking part in in real life.
 
To date, only one of my stories ("The Birthday Bang") comes from a personal experience. While the subject of having birthday sex with someone is not from my personal experience, the female character of the story is. I met a woman online and we became friends. She is a few years older than I and I was amazed that when we met in person, she was incredibly sexy. She wore a short black dress on our dinner date and I constantly complimented her about her beautiful "Tina Turner" legs. To this day, we are still friends and I've always told her that if I marry again, I hope that it would be with her.

As for the other stories that I have posted here, there are all from ideas in my head. I often have an idea swimming in my head for days and decide to put it into a story. "Lesson In Biology" was my first idea but became my 3rd story here. I'll have to say that the hardest task is making my ideas into a good story.
 
My one story was a dream I had one night. A very powerful dream too - one of the few times I've awaken the next day scrambling to find something to jot down the memory of it. I tweaked it a bit to better suit the audience (why have asian when your target might want caucasian?), but beyond that and the fictional beginning, that's what I saw. (or felt, maybe I should've said :) )

Basically, my spree's of writing occur when I feel so compelled to write that failing to would be a disservice (be it to me or others). To each their own, however.
 
Experiences

As I said, my experiences are based on true things that happened to my my wife and I. Sometimes I addes to or took away from the reality to make it a better story but they occured over a period of 10 years or so and ended with the advent of the AIDS epidemic.

I have published two and there are 9 in all. Actually experiencing them in person was an experience without peer especially with someone I love as much as I love my wife.
 
At first, they were from experiences I had already had the pleasure of enjoying. After a while though, I found that I was living out my fantasies and others that were shared with me by my close friends through my stories.

I have a very dark imagination in what I consider fantasy sex. Things that I fantasize about while masturbating are not always thoughts I would share with a person I was fucking.

There are just some things that I want to keep all to myself in the real world, so I write about how I would live them out in my stories.
 
Secret thoughts

What kind of dark things do you imagine in your fantasies? I can understand not sharing every fantasy with the person you are fucking-if you want to keep fucking them! My previous wife before Sandy was so uptight about sex that I certainly never tried to bring anything out of the ordinary up.

It was such a revelation to find someone like Sandy who had the same fantasies and turned out to be my soul mate.
 
Well, I certainly don't want to carry out the "dark" fantasies with anyone for real. A good example is the vampire story I've written, while a good fantasy (IMnsHO) I certainly have no interest in "embracing" anyone so I can watch then devour their own family for my personal entertainment...

:)

But, I certainly wouldn't consider dating someone seriously if they were strongly opposed, or objected, to such fantasies. Indeed, we may not enact them, but I'd like us both to at least enjoy reading them...

H.Pindar
 
<Chuckling>

Fantasy.

My only work that's accessible to the public is a first-person bondage and lesbianism story. Rachel and Heather (not their real names, naturally,) are based on real people; one an ex-girlfriend, the other her lover. We were still good friends until she got transferred to West Virginia.

That's what I do; I spin people I know into a fantasy scenario.

Does that answer the original question?

And to answer a previous post; Good God! There's almost no way to show someone all your deep dark corners when you want them to respect you enough to have sex with you. Love is different, it transcends all kinds of silliness, but you still have to be gentle breaking some of your fantasies out to a lover. Imagine telling a girlfriend something like one of my kinky fantasies, of being dressed like a woman, tied up, gagged, and being sodomized by her with a strap-on. How many women would freak right out at the very idea? (I'm not counting Lit women. You're a pretty kinky bunch.)

:D
 
Datadr said:
real life experiences, fantasies, or other suggestions. Which are the easiest for you to write, the so called write themselves.

Thanks
<P>
My stories come from my imagination, often with the help
of stories by other authors who get them IMnsHO wrong.<P>
My characters generally are paste-togethers of several
real-life people.<P>
My advice to other authors is always "take small bites,"
that is to say, steal a habit -- or a trait -- or a physical
characteristic from a real person. Don't take a real person
and describe him in hte story. <P>
One example might be from my story "Hold That Thought." I
really told a kid having a nightmare that the creature he
feared would eat me first. That is stealing from reality.
I was, however, *not* boffing his mother at the time he
had the nightmare -- or ever, for that matter. And the
monster didn't show up to eat me. That is imagination. <P>
 
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