Wow is this overwhelming!!!

hvnangel212

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I'm VERY new to all of this and all of these posts... I'm a little overwhelmed!:confused::confused:

I know that I'm submissive and have had a few easy experiences with it in the past... I know the who I'm looking for, a male Dom, and online for now, but the what's and how to's I'm still a little hazy on... Guess I could just some guidance into this world!:)
 
hvnangel, welcome to Literotica. As a woman looking for a man in any adult community, you'll have your pick of several good offers and many other not-so-good offers. Don't worry, trust in your desires, be true to yourself, and be patient. Even with 50 PMs in your inbox it can still be hard to find the right man, especially if you're looking for more than just a temporary thrill. But good men are out there and they want to give you pleasure. Trust your instincts and desire - you're doing fine.

I'm VERY new to all of this and all of these posts... I'm a little overwhelmed!:confused::confused:

I know that I'm submissive and have had a few easy experiences with it in the past... I know the who I'm looking for, a male Dom, and online for now, but the what's and how to's I'm still a little hazy on... Guess I could just some guidance into this world!:)
 
I'm VERY new to all of this and all of these posts... I'm a little overwhelmed!:confused::confused:

I know that I'm submissive and have had a few easy experiences with it in the past... I know the who I'm looking for, a male Dom, and online for now, but the what's and how to's I'm still a little hazy on... Guess I could just some guidance into this world!:)
Would love to chat with you.
 
I have absolutely no idea...

Words of advice: go slow. Do NOT submit to someone who you wouldn't feel right giving your real name to.

There are a lot of fakers and idiots out there. Don't be in a rush to give yourself to one of them.

Take your time. Get to know people. Make sure what you want to give of yourself is what he wants, and vice versa.
 
Submission is a gift

And should NEVER be given lightly. Don't rush, get to know people, find the one who's kinks line up with yours and whose philosophy mirrors your own. I know u crave this but don't be so quick that u make the wrong choice because u are getting tired of not finding the right one.

I believe in destiny and no coincidences ! So take your time read about bdsm and read bdsm talk, read the library, educate yourself and then choose knowing the choice seems right to you.

I am always around if you have questions and would be glad to help! I am a switch and have exp both sides. This means I am both a Domme and a sub.
Anyway good luck I know you will find the person you are destined to find!
Kitten:rose::devil:
 
Welcome!

Enjoy your stay here. You have received some very sound advise on this thread. Hope you enjoy yourself and find what you are seeking!
 
And should NEVER be given lightly. Don't rush, get to know people, find the one who's kinks line up with yours and whose philosophy mirrors your own. I know u crave this but don't be so quick that u make the wrong choice because u are getting tired of not finding the right one.

I believe in destiny and no coincidences ! So take your time read about bdsm and read bdsm talk, read the library, educate yourself and then choose knowing the choice seems right to you.

I am always around if you have questions and would be glad to help! I am a switch and have exp both sides. This means I am both a Domme and a sub.
Anyway good luck I know you will find the person you are destined to find!
Kitten:rose::devil:
Thank you!!!! Actually I may have some questions... I'll have to pm later :)
 
Good luck, hon. There's plenty of good people on here to talk to. RawHumor being a pretty good one from what I've seen over the years. Go with the good advice and take things slow. I know it's tempting to rush headlong in; but that'll just get you into trouble.
 
Thank you to everyone, I'm starting to have a much better understanding of everything! But still haven't found quite I'm looking for yet... ;)
 
I would be happy to help with advice etc, feel free to drop me a PM if you have any questions etc
 
hvnangel212

Dreamykitten2 is offering good advice. If you want a good, (and emotionally healthy), Dom/sub experience, take your time before you make your choice. You are going to recieve a lot of offers, and not all of them are going to be good, at least for you. Seriously, read Dreamykitten2's post again. Learn before you leap.
 
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