Would you visit a swingers sex club?

I have wondered about the goings on in those places...I think I would like to secretly watch. :devil:;)
 
Absolutely. I've only been involved with small house parties, with a maximum number of six.
 
I think it would be fun to go sometime too. I’m heading to NOLA in a week, and the reviews of Colette’s are favorable, which would be my first experience. I don’t know if going as a single guy is really that okay. While it would be fun to go with someone, I doubt I’ll find anyone from my conference that will be willing to accompany me... but you never know - if I get the courage to go alone I’ll post a review :)
 
I may have been in a couple houses that were used for sex parties, etc., but I'm just not into a group sex thing :rolleyes:
 
I’ve been and I’d go again. Cj anc I got pretty involved in a swinger community while we were together and I’ve been to a couple parties on my own while I was single. In my experience there were people there of all types. The great thing I found about swing parties is your no is taken seriously. As a rape survivor that was super important and kind of in an odd way healing for me. You just have to find a circle you’re comfortable in.

I can see this, and yes, one of my family mentioned above was raped for years by an older family member of hers.
I think her ability to say NO and control her own sexuality is very very important. It has been healing. And safe for her.

I’m glad it helped you. :cattail:
 
Although I haven’t experienced a sex club (yet?), it does seem like a place where NO really does mean NO! You can participate or not, go with eyes wide open, know what you want, and what the expectations and limitations are. I guess it is all about exploring and enjoying an uninhibited sexual experience. Clearly different than an on-line liaison. Better than masturbating to porn (although if that’s your thing, I think you can do that there too?!). And if you’re smart about it, it is probably as or even more safe and comfortable than randomly trying to meet someone a some other kind of venue when you are horny - just sayin’
 
IDK, it’s kind of an interesting thing to me but I’m not sure I’d be willing to go to one and share the partner that I was with. Maybe the thought of the public exhibitionism involved in having a public sex experience is the interest. But honestly if it were a more than one partner thing I’d be more comfortable with a FMF experience in a private setting. That said though I’ve heard more good than bad and the primary negative was the same as other open relationships. If it was done to strengthen the relationship it rarely prevented the incipient breakup or divorce that was already coming. But then that’s only my own opinion.
 
IDK, it’s kind of an interesting thing to me but I’m not sure I’d be willing to go to one and share the partner that I was with. Maybe the thought of the public exhibitionism involved in having a public sex experience is the interest. But honestly if it were a more than one partner thing I’d be more comfortable with a FMF experience in a private setting. That said though I’ve heard more good than bad and the primary negative was the same as other open relationships. If it was done to strengthen the relationship it rarely prevented the incipient breakup or divorce that was already coming. But then that’s only my own opinion.

I’ve heard that, too.
 
I think I could try it, or at least want to. But I think I prefer to be the one pleasing my partner.
 
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