Would you meet anyone from Lit for coffee? pt 2

[MrStevee55429]

Certainly, I would meet people from Lit. There is always the opertunity learn something new or see a different perspective. (North side of Minneapolis)

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

There are a few of you that I'd love to meet for some cafe y pan and hugs.

 

[Duke981]

Yes! Absolutely

 

[MrMakersMark]

Meet for coffee?
Yeah.
Bunch of em' probably.

Coffee is good.

 

[Greedy_lion]

Most def. Coffee and.. and…
Sex.

 

[PrettyReckless_ILM]

I would love to. It would be nice to have someone to commiserate with in real life in a safe manner. I'm in the SE of NC in the US of A!

 

[Wageslave]

I wouldn't say no to the idea

 

[Rod_Love]

Sure. Would need to have a certain amount of discretion, trust etc.
I live in Dublin - there’s not too many Lit peeps knocking about here (from what I can tell)…

 

[lifeis2short2b]

COFFEE ! Im pretty sure most guys here would be happy with a DM

 

[gran_pron]

Sure there are one or two litsters around I would have a friendy chat with while having a coffee or a pint.

 

[Lifelongsissy]

I would it would definitely be nice to meet someone who has similar interests and desires. It doesn’t always have to involve sex but if it does that’s a bonus.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Coffee with a Lit woman can be daunting
But? Just be chill. Be real. Let her decide if anything should come of it.

Do not share your dick pic!! Don’t be a dick
I don’t think I was.

Would I do it again??

Yes

Would I ever be asked again ?? Lightning only strikes a few times. Be happy if you come out of it without a deep addiction to it.

 

[athelticguy04]

If a woman was close and we had been talking for awhile I would defiantly meet up and take her out for coffee or grab a meal

 

[TonyF862]

LOVE meeting new Lifestyle and Lit friends who are visiting Nashville (USA). Downtown is such a fun place to be anyway, and meet new friends is always a bonus! So - all you Lit Honky-Tonkers out there, DM me if you’re ever in town and want a local’s tips on the best spots!

 

[Mrlighthouse]

Totally would again

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

Who knows how deep a connection can reach?

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Absolutely!

Even if it was a totally platonic meet-up for lunch and drinks.

Just set the rules before the face to face.

 

[beachlights44]

Sure why not, if I developed a connection with someone on line then I would agree to a meet

 

[IrreverendBoob]

Coffee? Certainly, though depending on how much we've talked and how much trust has been established, that may be strictly limited to a very public setting. I think that's the point of something so casual and public as coffee, though - it lets you meet someone in a manner that is adequately cautious even if they're largely unknown to you. And the implied time obligation is minimal, so if either party finds it uncomfortable, its easy to make an escape.

 

[CountryLane]

Sure

 

[Treeview]

of course

 

[Sweetdreams71]

Most definitely coffee is one of my most favorite things! Especially with friends!

 

[ridemybeard69]

Most definitely coffee is one of my most favorite things! Especially with friends!

Same!

 

[AllAmericanMale]

I have in the past. If we were familiar with each other, and the logistics worked, I probably would again.

 

[TonyF862]

Coffee? Certainly, though depending on how much we've talked and how much trust has been established, that may be strictly limited to a very public setting. I think that's the point of something so casual and public as coffee, though - it lets you meet someone in a manner that is adequately cautious even if they're largely unknown to you. And the implied time obligation is minimal, so if either party finds it uncomfortable, its easy to make an escape.

Coffee is my go to in many/most situations. Lunch is “upgraded coffee” in the sense that it’s a much lesser time commitment than dinner or a date. A little more serious and implies at least an hour. Where as coffee can be even shorter.

I met a long time girlfriend at a dance club one night. I was absolutely mesmerized by her. This was in the days before cell phone and email. I knew I had to come up with some reason to see her again so I invited her to lunch. She later told me that if I had asked her out on a date, she never would’ve accepted from a guy she just met in a club. But lunch was benign, and to your point, in the middle of the day in a very public place. There was no question as to whether or not I’d be going back to her place, etc. So she felt safe. turned into a three year, love affair, and changed both of our lives. We’re still friends to this day.