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LacyCasy

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If you had the chance to meet your online sweetie without any strings attached or your spouse finding out, would you do it?
Yes sex would occur during this meeting.
 
LacyCasy

I'm very flattered, but we barely know each other. Thanks for thinking about me, though.
 
No. It's cheating. Plain and simple. Call me old fashioned, but that is wrong.

MADDOG
 
No. It's cheating. Plain and simple. Call me old fashioned, but that is wrong. And having an "online sweetie" isn't exactly innocent either. They may just appear to be words on a screen, but there is a real person behind them. It may seem harmless enough, but if I were your spouse, I wouldn't be too happy about that either.

MADDOG
 
IN A HEARTBEAT!!!

That's a very good question, LC. I would have to say, HELL YEAH. I have had a sweetie in MD for over a year now. She is 20 years my junior and is often talking about us meeting one day. We've discussed just about everything that we were ever involved with in our lives and we're very opened with each other. I would definately take that chance to meet her, greet her, and greatly seduce her (or have her seduce me--haha).
 
Well I'm single, so I wouldn't have a problem with at all!! Stings attached or not! I actually have the feeling I would like the relationship to continue after the first meeting!
 
I half agree with MADDOG. Some couples are completely comfortable with online play.

But, for me anyway, cheating is cheating. Even if my husband never found out, I would still know what I had done. Regardless of consequences, it would still be a violation of trust.
 
I don't know that would take a lot of thought, although this week I might jump at the chance faster than I should.
 
Not only would I, but I'm going to. But not for some sordid little affair. I will accept any strings she wants to offer. I will even offer some strings of my own.
 
Kitten Eyes said:
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But, for me anyway, cheating is cheating. Even if my husband never found out, I would still know what I had done. Regardless of consequences, it would still be a violation of trust.
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I'm with you, cheating is cheating...
 
Being single, I have met alot of on-line ladies, with no strings attached... I've never really had a on-line sweetie, i'm not looking, but if it happens, so be it.
I have had a great time with everyone of them, whether sex was involved or not.
If i was married or had a "sweetie", i would probably consider it cheating, trust is an important thing to me.
 
I have an "online" sweetie and if I can ever get my hands on him again...grrrrrr.
I also have an ex.....him, well I'd cut my hands off if they touched him again.

But to answer seriously, it would depend on what those people would be experiencing at that time in their lives. Is it cheating? YES I think it is, but sometimes people need to find what is missing in their life.
 
Thats how I met my hubby....I have never regretted ...I have found the man of my dreams:) And I love the big lunk head with all my heart:p


THE WIFE
 
Hell no. I speak from experience here. My ex-husband and I tried and open marriage. That's why we're ex. That's what happened even with me knowing. There's more to it than that, but that's the general idea.

I also had an affair with a married man I met online. That turned out even worse. Don't do it, at least not until you're available, or maybe with your husband's knowledge. You sound like he wouldn't like the idea of swinging, though.
 
Pretty sure most of you know my situation on this one.

Truthfully though, I would have to say that ALL parties would have to know what is going on and be not only comfortable with it but, talk about it. Find out if everyone is willing to go through with it. If anyone should have second thoughts then it's not going to happen. Be clear and respectful to everyone, including yourself.

To me it sounds like your doing this without your husband's approval, and by that your not only cheating him but yourself. By that I mean that like Kitten eyes said earlier, you will know that you have done this, the guilt will lie with you, not your husband. By having that guilt you will not be able to carry on day to day living like you do now.

Is it really worth it??? I really think all parties should know about it and talk in depth before something happens.

Good Luck anyway with your decision.
 
I'm with Nicole on this one. ALL parties need to know and ALL parties should be clear on ALL aspects of the relationship. It's working for the Mrs. and I. All four of us keep everything in the open.
In fact my girlfriend and the wife's boyfriend will be here this weekend. Won't be on the computer much this weekend! I use to think it would be hell getting old. Boy was I wrong! Experience does count for something!
 
Patryn said:
Hell no. I speak from experience here. My ex-husband and I tried and open marriage. That's why we're ex. That's what happened even with me knowing. There's more to it than that, but that's the general idea.

I also had an affair with a married man I met online. That turned out even worse. Don't do it, at least not until you're available, or maybe with your husband's knowledge. You sound like he wouldn't like the idea of swinging, though.
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Stop with the bitching and self pitty "why me"s Patryn! It's getting old. No one gives a shit about you! No one cares that you and your EX didn't know how to respect each other even in a swinging marriage, and no one cares about you being a married man's sloppy seconds!
 
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