would you? could you?

[boston_bbw]

Ladies.... if you are what is considered "the other women" you know your man is cheating on someone else with you. If he were to leave the women and make you #1 would you trust a man that you now know is a cheater to think you are his only one?

 

[bisexplicit]

would you, could you...

...in a box? Would you, could you with a fox?

 

[cinnamonstick]

No, I don't think I could ever really trust him. Unless I kept him on a short leash.

 

[Illusionz]

Reverse the gender roles implied in the thread and you have my current situation. Hmm...

 

[Guest]

Ladies.... if you are what is considered "the other women" you know your man is cheating on someone else with you. If he were to leave the women and make you #1 would you trust a man that you now know is a cheater to think you are his only one?

Highly unlikely.

 

[babydoll2u]

I had to think about this long and hard... as I was in this situation once.

No... I realize now that I wouldn't have been able to trust him not to do the same thing to me.

 

[Meladie]

That would be a cold day in hell.

 

[Phalenopsis]

No. No matter how hard I might want to, there would always be a question.

 

[BedtimeStories]

Ladies.... if you are what is considered "the other women" you know your man is cheating on someone else with you. If he were to leave the women and make you #1 would you trust a man that you now know is a cheater to think you are his only one?

Of course not. Once a cheater, always a cheater. And, no, I am not condeming people who step out of the relationship for whatever reason. Hell, a lot of my fuck buddies were/are married. But, they're just that. Fuck buddies. Sure, I've become good friends with some...but I wouldn't be stupid enough to think that he'd make me his primary and then never cheat on me.

 

[Joe King]

Ladies....

I find it odd you would only pose this to the ladies, as if men were the only ones who cheat and women are just complicit bystanders. The ability to do this to someone comes from a frame of mind, not a gender. Aside from that, once a cheater always a cheater is true. I'm not even sure reform is possible, though I used to.

My advice for sexual satisfaction, with regards to avoiding drama and ignoring morality is, never be a cheater and only be a cheatee if you plan to KEEP it casual and brief and can live with the guilt.

 

[Guest]

I find it odd you would only pose this to the ladies, as if men were the only ones who cheat and women are just complicit bystanders. The ability to do this to someone comes from a frame of mind, not a gender. Aside from that, once a cheater always a cheater is true. I'm not even sure reform is possible, though I used to.

My advice for sexual satisfaction, with regards to avoiding drama and ignoring morality is, never be a cheater and only be a cheatee if you plan to KEEP it casual and brief and can live with the guilt.

Good point here, but the person who made this thread was asking the women. Maybe a man should make one, too.