Would you be the other man/woman?

Would you be the other man/woman?

  • No, I don't need the drama

    Votes: 6 8.5%
  • No, I don't want the heartache

    Votes: 3 4.2%
  • No, I shouldn't interfere in their marriage

    Votes: 16 22.5%
  • Yes, why not?

    Votes: 9 12.7%
  • Yes, the issues in their marriage don't matter to me

    Votes: 12 16.9%
  • Yes, it's sex with only a part-time relationship, the best of both worlds

    Votes: 25 35.2%

  • Total voters
    71

EllaPure

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The thread about cheating on your spouse got me thinking. So here goes.

For all the single men and women of Lit, would you ever be willing to be the other man/woman in an affair?
 
The thread about cheating on your spouse got me thinking. So here goes.

For all the single men and women of Lit, would you ever be willing to be the other man/woman in an affair?
No takers, maybe you should open it up to the married cheaters.

You don't have to be single to be the other person in the affair.

Just a thought
 
I wouldn't but in my past, I have been the other woman when I wasn't in a relationship.
 
I was the other man in a failing relationship once. That didn't feel too good. Just an affair or casual sex would be a little different, but I certainly wouldn't want to be wrecking anything again, or even to be a part of the falling apart.
 
The thread about cheating on your spouse got me thinking. So here goes.

For all the single men and women of Lit, would you ever be willing to be the other man/woman in an affair?

I would and am currently fucking a few married women.
 
Naughty boy ;) Isn't it fun? I loved it when I was doing a couple of men.

Thank you, being bad feels so good. Hell yes it is fun. I love getting them to do something that might get them caught, but is never really a threat to. For instance, go out "shopping" in a high mini skirt with no panties on underneath them. Or sending her home to him after she just swallowed my cum and not let her brush her teeth until she gets home. Boy that is fun.
 
Thank you, being bad feels so good. Hell yes it is fun. I love getting them to do something that might get them caught, but is never really a threat to. For instance, go out "shopping" in a high mini skirt with no panties on underneath them. Or sending her home to him after she just swallowed my cum and not let her brush her teeth until she gets home. Boy that is fun.
I just adore dirty men :devil:
 
My only criteria in this circumstance is that the married partner's pre-existing relationship be a stable one...not falling apart in pieces.

basically, as long as s/he is staying put in their family situation with no plans to change that, and is understanding that mine is equally immutable, then go nuts!
 
I agree Cin. There has to be an agreement that there is a purpose to the affair, and breaking up an existing relationship is not one of them.
 
I have been the other man before. It was when I was younger and when we started she didn't share that she was marrged and I didn't care cause I was getting regular, incredible sex.
 
Don't mind being the other man, no drama. She leaves when we are done, no strings attached.
 
Maybe.

I'm against the practice of cheating, it's really wrong.

However, if I'm single... it's not my place to worry about it.
Well, as long as he doesn't kick my ass or shoot me later. >.>

I'm somewhat hypocritical about it, however I've never actually been in a situation where I could be helping a woman cheat on her spouse or bf.

I'd probably have more of an attack of the conscience if the situation were to actually arise.
 
You need another choice in your poll......:).

Been there a couple times will not do it again.....:devil::devil::devil:
 
I am in along term relationship and having an affair with someone who is single as his wife died a few years ago - he dosnt want to commit - suits me- I have great sex which I dont get at home and he treats me like a princess ... what more could I want??
 
I'm currently sleeping with a married man. It's purely sexual. He's in a sexless marriage, but loves his wife very much and has no intentions of leaving her. I also have no intentions of telling her or taking him away from her. He only sees me when he comes to where I live for his work/business and that's the way it's going to stay!
 
I haven't recently, but while living in LA I definitely did. The way I see it is that if they're going to cheat it's either going to be with me or some other person. If I see that they start developing an attachment with me, I've broken it off before. Not trying to make a woman leave her man, but if she's just looking for a little something discreet on the side it's no big deal.
 
I've done it twice, but I get too attached. One left his SO, and the other didn't. Either way, I ended up feeling like shit. No thanks.
 
i have and theres nothing more exciting than the secrecy and hiding of having an affair with a married man
 
Back when I was single I had been the other man in a few relationships. Each time the woman had no intentions of leaving her spouse. In those relationships it felt like the emotional and physical support I was able to offer was more good then bad.
 
I did it.

I didn't care.

I don't know if either of them did.
 
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