Would you accept any phone sex offer...

[T.H. Oughts]

Ok, so you might turn down some guy or gal in a bar cause you don't know who they were with the night before or if they turn into an axe murder when you get them home.

But if you were offered phone sex without you paying for the call would you turn it down???

 

[kotori]

Seriously?

I don't think so; I'd be too self-conscious to "talk" about it. More so than actually doing it. Maybe that's weird or stupid, but when it's talking, the brain has to actually be engaged and can't just run on autopilot. In that sense, there is almost a higher level of intimacy--it which case casual phone sex would have a very quiet kotori on one end of the line. If it were someone I knew well and loved, that would be different.

(You just wanna call me again, right? 'fess up.)

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Seriously?

(You just wanna call me again, right? 'fess up.)

lol, But I'd wanna be able to hear you voice.

 

[takingchances42]

But if you were offered phone sex without you paying for the call would you turn it down???

Giving your phone number is always a risk -- as is making the phone call, in this age of caller ID. You have just given someone that you really don't know at all the ability to reach into your real life. It wasn't here, and there was no cyber or phone sex involved, but I recall agreeing to give my phone number to a very nice woman earlier this year. Who turned out to be a very lonely woman -- and I was suddenly her friend. To be called four and five times a day, so she could tell me about her life and what she was thinking. This could have a good thing if it had slowly developed with mutual attraction -- but instead I felt abruptly invaded, and quickly put a stop to it.

On the other hand, risks can be fun. Please call me at 1-800-HOT-FORU, and let's get it on!!!!

 

[SINthysist]

Don't put it on speed-dial!

Man, hit the wrong button and it's no more family reunion this year...

 

[erosman]

I absolutely don't hesitate to talk to anyone...but...'any phone sex offer' is a huge wilderness.








so...No.

 

[SINthysist]

My phone is just too fucking small to have sex with...

...and if T.H.'s husband picks up the phone...

...you might be in for an ass-kicking!

 

[Tantanah]

It would have to be someone I feel close to and trust enough to be open.

Only one such person in my life right now.

 

[brokenbrainwave]

nope, the only offer for phone sex I will accept is from the person I married. I am not condeming anyone nor saying that my way is the right way for all, but for me it is.

 

[PepperminTrish]

No, I wouldn't just accept ANY phone sex offer. I try to be very careful about who gets my number. There has to be trust and a 'connection' with the other person. I can't imagine having phone sex with someone I haven't talked to before.

 

[Cheyenne]

No, I wouldn't accept. I don't "do" phone sex with people I know, so why would I do it with a stranger? How intimate could that be? No, thanks.

 

[SINthysist]

How about thread sex?

Has it been done? Whose good at it? How do you know when the foretyping is over?

 

[Cheyenne]

How about thread sex?

Has it been done? Whose good at it? How do you know when the foretyping is over?

Yup, I've done that! But not with just anyone for thread sex, either.

 

[Guest]

 

[Orwell84]

The idea of phone sex sounds like it could be fun. I'll admit I haven't actually done it. I agree with most of the sentiment above though. Doing it with a stranger, concerns about giving out info, etc. could be problematic.

 

[HorneyNotRude]

well if it just came out of nowhere like in a p-m i would have to say.............. oh who the hell am i tring to fool, yes i would...........
and have, it gives you a chance to be someone different, someone who the people at work don't know....... turn off the caller I-D and have fun, if thats the mood your in, or use a calling card. so yea if you want, im up for it......... lol

 

[perks]

depends if I'm working or not.

 

[BigDawg69]

Phoner!

 

[HorneyNotRude]

are you working now ???............ LOL

 

[Vilac]

I don't want to come off as sounding like a bitter asshole or anything, but I want to relate my story.

I have only spoke to one person from Lit on the phone. It was a last minute decision....and she was the one that asked me to call. It was in no way prompted by myself....and I was the one who dialed the digits. In fact, the first time I was asked to call, I turned it down.

First off...I hate the phone. Hate is an understatement. Loathe is a more accurate description. Nonetheless...I called. One thing turned into another...and after talking for close to 90 minutes or so...the conversation turned sexual.

It was a great call. I enjoyed the company very much. And...I found I was speaking to an intelligent, funny, articulate woman who was more than friendly.

Turns out that after that, the PM's stopped. The Yahoo chats stopped. And...I was left with the stark realization that I was just another one of (most likely) many who were a .....(how to put this?!) ....verbal conquest to this woman.

I felt/feel used. And...for as logical and sane as I used to think I was, I quite simply cannot shake that feeling. It shouldn't be a big thing....because as my rational side tells me....what the hell else should I of expected? But..nonetheless, it bothers me.

And...I'm smacked dead in the face with my origional pledge to myself when I joined Lit: That I would not converse with members on the phone...and keep my "distance" from people until I felt as though I "knew" them well.

So...I feel like an asshole. I've allowed myself to become a number. I've allowed myself to feel "used". And...if that's not bad enough...I can't figure out why the hell it matters to me at all.

Stupid. That's what I feel: Stupid.

I'll be more guarded next time. Which is really too bad....because I have a feeling there are some genuinely good and decent people on here.

Stick with your gut feelings.

Thanks for reading my rant.
V~

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[perks]

are you working now ???............ LOL

no

 

[cyn1959]

phone sex

YES!


I've had some wonderful experiences with men over the phone, and it gets even more interesting while using my vibrator. I can just roll my eyes back in my head and pretend...

Now this doesn't mean phone sex is the only kind of sex I have, that sounds like a very lonely life. BTW, calling cards are a good tip...

 

[JazzManJim]

Phone sex?

Me?

Oh perish the thought.....

 

[RosevilleCAguy]

Ok, so you might turn down some guy or gal in a bar cause you don't know who they were with the night before or if they turn into an axe murder when you get them home.

But if you were offered phone sex without you paying for the call would you turn it down???

Yep. It would be like trying to satisfy hunger by listening to somebody else eat.