Would I have been gay/bi ?

[MGTG]

I wonder if I never fooled around with my friend/neighbor growing up would I have still tried it with another guy? My friend and I fooled around with each for years innocently and then actual penetration. I quickly became the receiver in the relationship. And we never switched roles. I loved being the bottom guy and he just wanted to fuck me. It took years to finally get to penetration but it happened and wow was it good. It made me a total bottom. But what if I never did it with Johnny? It seems that time growing up with him and fooling around and trying so many times to get to our goal, which was his cock in my ass balls deep and exploding inside me. Would I have wanted cock some other time in my life? I do think so but that sure did mold me into a bottom boy.

 

[stillworking2020]

I wonder if I never fooled around with my friend/neighbor growing up would I have still tried it with another guy? My friend and I fooled around with each for years innocently and then actual penetration. I quickly became the receiver in the relationship. And we never switched roles. I loved being the bottom guy and he just wanted to fuck me. It took years to finally get to penetration but it happened and wow was it good. It made me a total bottom. But what if I never did it with Johnny? It seems that time growing up with him and fooling around and trying so many times to get to our goal, which was his cock in my ass balls deep and exploding inside me. Would I have wanted cock some other time in my life? I do think so but that sure did mold me into a bottom boy.

I wish I would have taken the chances when I was younger. Things might have turned out different.

 

[SissySalina]

sissy never had the urge when young, did want to cross dress but never fool around. She is the one that introduced sissy to the Bi world and that was mid life. So you never can tell but if you did while your were young then you will do when older but that doesn't mean that you won't when your older.

 

[BBCfan]

I wonder if I never fooled around with my friend/neighbor growing up would I have still tried it with another guy? My friend and I fooled around with each for years innocently and then actual penetration. I quickly became the receiver in the relationship. And we never switched roles. I loved being the bottom guy and he just wanted to fuck me. It took years to finally get to penetration but it happened and wow was it good. It made me a total bottom. But what if I never did it with Johnny? It seems that time growing up with him and fooling around and trying so many times to get to our goal, which was his cock in my ass balls deep and exploding inside me. Would I have wanted cock some other time in my life? I do think so but that sure did mold me into a bottom boy.

I had similar experience with neighbour growing up except we just sucked each other off a couple times.

It certainly was the event I later fetishized to want to fellate bigger cocks than mine to orgasm.

If the event hadn't happened perhaps the fetish never would exist in me but it obviously didn't just happen. I was super horny and curiously turned on by drunken buddies sucking big cock stories.

Perhaps without the event happening my curiosity would have ended once pussy became attainable and obsessed by my thoughts.

Now that I'm more accepting and understanding of my complex sexuality if is a fun aspect to play with.

 

[BiMale4KinkyFun]

I know I was interested in both sexes grown up but never realized it until one day I was play true or dare with a friend during a sleep over. He chose dare and I dared him to walk into his sister’s room with no pants and underwear on. Then when he got into the room he had to start playing with himself. He went into his and when he returned, I check to see if he was hard. When I did I saw he was huge and hard. I made comment about his dick would destroy a girl. As I was starring at it he quickly said truth or dare. I just blurted out dare. That is when he said I dare to grab my dick. That is all the motivation I needed. I reached out and grab him. Once, I touched it I knew I liked guys also or at that time cock.

 

[muycurioso]

awesome

I know I was interested in both sexes grown up but never realized it until one day I was play true or dare with a friend during a sleep over. He chose dare and I dared him to walk into his sister’s room with no pants and underwear on. Then when he got into the room he had to start playing with himself. He went into his and when he returned, I check to see if he was hard. When I did I saw he was huge and hard. I made comment about his dick would destroy a girl. As I was starring at it he quickly said truth or dare. I just blurted out dare. That is when he said I dare to grab my dick. That is all the motivation I needed. I reached out and grab him. Once, I touched it I knew I liked guys also or at that time cock.

do share more

 

[fortguy3737]

For me it was yahoo chat rooms. I met a girl there and she gave me my first proper bj but she only average in retrospect. I was 18 at the time and a 30 year old guy would offer to suck me off and I thought it was gross but we kept talking and he was respectful and laid back. After a few weeks he talked me into letting him blow me and it was amazing. After that I was hooked. It would take a few years for me to touch another guy though.

 

[BiMale4KinkyFun]

FYI all 3 people from this event is 18 or older

After I let go I said truth because I could not think of a dare. He quickly answered my question, then said truth or dare. At this point he was still naked from the waist down and still hard. Part of me wanted to see what the next dare would be so I said dare again. This is when said you made me go into my sister’s room and jerk off. If I got caught I my sister would have killed me. So to get even you have to jerk mr off for 2 minutes. That was the time I said he had to jerk off in his sister’s room. I tried to say no to the dare but he said he would tell all our friends that he caught me wearing panties. I knew he was not a person that would bluff. So, I reached out and started to jerk him off. At first I was weakly jerking him when he said I better jerk him off like I jerk off watch porn or he is going to tell everyone about the panties. So, played with his cock like it was my cock. I gripped his cock harder and started sliding my hand the full length of his huge cock. Since I was scared he was going to tell people I wore panties. I also started play with his big balls. It was about a minute in when he started to moan. That is when I realized that I was enjoying playing with my friend’s cock. That is when I really got into playing with hi cock by time the second minute was up he was moaning like crazy. When I stopped and let go of his cock it was twitching and I could tell he was super horny.
That is when he called dice roll. In our friends version of truth or dare we add a dice roll. With the dice each person picks a number and assigns that number a dare you want the roller to do if they land on that number. The roller also gets to pick a dare for a number he could make a person do.
Since there were only two of us, we each got to pick 3 numbers and assign them dares. My three dares were for him jerk off till he came in his sister’s room, punch himself in the nuts and for him to jerk me off till I came. His 3 dares were jerk him off till he came, suck his dick and swallow his cum, let him try to fuck me. I knew not to protest because he would go straight to the panties threat plus I had a good chance to win the roll. He rolled the dice and it landed on me sucking his cock. I was in disbelief and did not say anything. In my head I knew I enjoyed playing with his cock. I also new, if I was given the chance I would fuck his sister until my balls were empty. So many thoughts were going through my head. That I didn’t realize he told me to get on my knees and start suck his dick. I was so lost in thought, I don’t remember me even getting on my knees. It was not until his cock touched my lips that I realized what was going on.
He slowly pushed his huge cock into my mouth until I could not fit any more. Then he said don’t bite him or he will beat my ass. Just as slowly as he pushed his cock into my mouth
He pulled his cock out of my mouth. He continued the slow pace until he started to get frustrated that I was not doing it good enough. He walked over to his computer and cued up video of a girl sucking cock madly. He said to me I want you to suck my cock like that and make me cum. That is when I said if not your will tell all of our friends that I wear panties. That is when push his cock roughly into my mouth till a gagged a little. That is when started suck his dick like the girl in video. I started quickly sliding his cock in and out of my mouth. Then he stated to moan again it made want to go all out like when I was playing with his cock. More he moaned the more I got into. At this point I was jerking him off and licking his balls. That was the tipping point, he said to me I am about to cum. With out any hesitation I started to suck his cock again. Then he grabbed my head shoved his cock down my throat exploded with a huge load. I swallowed every bit of his cum.

That is end of that part of my experience that night.

 

[MGTG]

FYI all 3 people from this event is 18 or older

After I let go I said truth because I could not think of a dare. He quickly answered my question, then said truth or dare. At this point he was still naked from the waist down and still hard. Part of me wanted to see what the next dare would be so I said dare again. This is when said you made me go into my sister’s room and jerk off. If I got caught I my sister would have killed me. So to get even you have to jerk mr off for 2 minutes. That was the time I said he had to jerk off in his sister’s room. I tried to say no to the dare but he said he would tell all our friends that he caught me wearing panties. I knew he was not a person that would bluff. So, I reached out and started to jerk him off. At first I was weakly jerking him when he said I better jerk him off like I jerk off watch porn or he is going to tell everyone about the panties. So, played with his cock like it was my cock. I gripped his cock harder and started sliding my hand the full length of his huge cock. Since I was scared he was going to tell people I wore panties. I also started play with his big balls. It was about a minute in when he started to moan. That is when I realized that I was enjoying playing with my friend’s cock. That is when I really got into playing with hi cock by time the second minute was up he was moaning like crazy. When I stopped and let go of his cock it was twitching and I could tell he was super horny.
That is when he called dice roll. In our friends version of truth or dare we add a dice roll. With the dice each person picks a number and assigns that number a dare you want the roller to do if they land on that number. The roller also gets to pick a dare for a number he could make a person do.
Since there were only two of us, we each got to pick 3 numbers and assign them dares. My three dares were for him jerk off till he came in his sister’s room, punch himself in the nuts and for him to jerk me off till I came. His 3 dares were jerk him off till he came, suck his dick and swallow his cum, let him try to fuck me. I knew not to protest because he would go straight to the panties threat plus I had a good chance to win the roll. He rolled the dice and it landed on me sucking his cock. I was in disbelief and did not say anything. In my head I knew I enjoyed playing with his cock. I also new, if I was given the chance I would fuck his sister until my balls were empty. So many thoughts were going through my head. That I didn’t realize he told me to get on my knees and start suck his dick. I was so lost in thought, I don’t remember me even getting on my knees. It was not until his cock touched my lips that I realized what was going on.
He slowly pushed his huge cock into my mouth until I could not fit any more. Then he said don’t bite him or he will beat my ass. Just as slowly as he pushed his cock into my mouth
He pulled his cock out of my mouth. He continued the slow pace until he started to get frustrated that I was not doing it good enough. He walked over to his computer and cued up video of a girl sucking cock madly. He said to me I want you to suck my cock like that and make me cum. That is when I said if not your will tell all of our friends that I wear panties. That is when push his cock roughly into my mouth till a gagged a little. That is when started suck his dick like the girl in video. I started quickly sliding his cock in and out of my mouth. Then he stated to moan again it made want to go all out like when I was playing with his cock. More he moaned the more I got into. At this point I was jerking him off and licking his balls. That was the tipping point, he said to me I am about to cum. With out any hesitation I started to suck his cock again. Then he grabbed my head shoved his cock down my throat exploded with a huge load. I swallowed every bit of his cum.

That is end of that part of my experience that night.

Wow that is hot! It reminds me of my first guy I was ever with. The guy I started this thread with. We kept our sex life active all this time. I’m 49 now and the last time we fooled around I was 41. He’s always loved to fuck my ass. It almost always ends up with him bending me over something so he can pound me. I have sucked him off to completion lots of times, but no where near as many times he has came inside my ass.

 

[BiMale4KinkyFun]

Thank you. I hand may hot times with my friend and found out how kinky my friend was. I am glad you hot times with your friend.

 

[Marty Fisher]

I wonder if I never fooled around with my friend/neighbor growing up would I have still tried it with another guy? My friend and I fooled around with each for years innocently and then actual penetration. I quickly became the receiver in the relationship. And we never switched roles. I loved being the bottom guy and he just wanted to fuck me. It took years to finally get to penetration but it happened and wow was it good. It made me a total bottom. But what if I never did it with Johnny? It seems that time growing up with him and fooling around and trying so many times to get to our goal, which was his cock in my ass balls deep and exploding inside me. Would I have wanted cock some other time in my life? I do think so but that sure did mold me into a bottom boy.

Does it really matter because after all, you got a taste of cock and loved it! So many wish they were in your shoes (or panties) ;-) Enjoy!!

 

[Marcs4u]

For me

It goes back to my early teens. I was fascinated with the Penthouse Forum stories and I always found myself imagining that I was the girl sucking dick or being fucked.
My first experience didn't happen til I was 19 and I've related that story in past posts but, I tried to bury my lust for cock after that.
Didn't work out very well...lol... I never could get the thoughts of cock out of my mind and continued to fantasize about bring a slutty girl! Barely a night went by without me fucking myself with whatever I could find lying around and I was limber enough to be able to suck my own dick.
I didn't have another encounter with a guy til I was in my early 30s, another story I've related here before, when I ginned up the nerve to visit some adult theaters/bookstores. It was sporadic, at first but, became more frequent over the years.
Cut to now, too many stories along the way, 2 daddies, 3 FWBs that keep me very busy but, I still can't get enough cock in me.
To answer the OP's original question.... I think it was inevitable and I couldn't be happier!

 

[sweettalk4u]

It sounds like a great start but you should explore your bisexuality through bdsm as well. Who knows what you might discover about yourself?

 

[meflash]

FYI all 3 people from this event is 18 or older

After I let go I said truth because I could not think of a dare. He quickly answered my question, then said truth or dare. At this point he was still naked from the waist down and still hard. Part of me wanted to see what the next dare would be so I said dare again. This is when said you made me go into my sister’s room and jerk off. If I got caught I my sister would have killed me. So to get even you have to jerk mr off for 2 minutes. That was the time I said he had to jerk off in his sister’s room. I tried to say no to the dare but he said he would tell all our friends that he caught me wearing panties. I knew he was not a person that would bluff. So, I reached out and started to jerk him off. At first I was weakly jerking him when he said I better jerk him off like I jerk off watch porn or he is going to tell everyone about the panties. So, played with his cock like it was my cock. I gripped his cock harder and started sliding my hand the full length of his huge cock. Since I was scared he was going to tell people I wore panties. I also started play with his big balls. It was about a minute in when he started to moan. That is when I realized that I was enjoying playing with my friend’s cock. That is when I really got into playing with hi cock by time the second minute was up he was moaning like crazy. When I stopped and let go of his cock it was twitching and I could tell he was super horny.
That is when he called dice roll. In our friends version of truth or dare we add a dice roll. With the dice each person picks a number and assigns that number a dare you want the roller to do if they land on that number. The roller also gets to pick a dare for a number he could make a person do.
Since there were only two of us, we each got to pick 3 numbers and assign them dares. My three dares were for him jerk off till he came in his sister’s room, punch himself in the nuts and for him to jerk me off till I came. His 3 dares were jerk him off till he came, suck his dick and swallow his cum, let him try to fuck me. I knew not to protest because he would go straight to the panties threat plus I had a good chance to win the roll. He rolled the dice and it landed on me sucking his cock. I was in disbelief and did not say anything. In my head I knew I enjoyed playing with his cock. I also new, if I was given the chance I would fuck his sister until my balls were empty. So many thoughts were going through my head. That I didn’t realize he told me to get on my knees and start suck his dick. I was so lost in thought, I don’t remember me even getting on my knees. It was not until his cock touched my lips that I realized what was going on.
He slowly pushed his huge cock into my mouth until I could not fit any more. Then he said don’t bite him or he will beat my ass. Just as slowly as he pushed his cock into my mouth
He pulled his cock out of my mouth. He continued the slow pace until he started to get frustrated that I was not doing it good enough. He walked over to his computer and cued up video of a girl sucking cock madly. He said to me I want you to suck my cock like that and make me cum. That is when I said if not your will tell all of our friends that I wear panties. That is when push his cock roughly into my mouth till a gagged a little. That is when started suck his dick like the girl in video. I started quickly sliding his cock in and out of my mouth. Then he stated to moan again it made want to go all out like when I was playing with his cock. More he moaned the more I got into. At this point I was jerking him off and licking his balls. That was the tipping point, he said to me I am about to cum. With out any hesitation I started to suck his cock again. Then he grabbed my head shoved his cock down my throat exploded with a huge load. I swallowed every bit of his cum.

That is end of that part of my experience that night.

WOW!!! so HOT!!!!

 

[BiMale4KinkyFun]

Thank you,
I am lucky, we stayed touch for all these years and had great fun many times.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

My first cock

belonged to a friend at high school.We sat beside each other and fiddled with each other's cocks during lessons. Maybe other boys saw us, I don't know. But I went on to date girls, fuck women, marry, divorce etc. It took me half a century of adulthood to realise that sex is sex and it doesn't really matter who you have it with, as long as it feels good. I've sucked three cocks and will probably suck more. I'm somewhat ambivalent it because I don't enjoy it as much as eating/fucking cunts. But in the end, it's all sex. Unfortunately, my wife doesn't share that view; if she did, we'd be having threesomes with another man or another woman, as often as we could. As it is, I either have to deny my interest in cock, or be unfaithful to my wife. With a man.

 

[Sunnyade]

If I had started younger in life? I've no doubt things would have been different for me. Not unhappy that I didn't explore when younger, just making sure I take all the opportunities now.

 

[MGTG]

If I had started younger in life? I've no doubt things would have been different for me. Not unhappy that I didn't explore when younger, just making sure I take all the opportunities now.

Did you have any fun from Craigslist? I wish it was available when I first started cruising. You really had to work at it back before Craigslist. But now it’s gone so sad.

 

[bottomshooter]

I often wonder. When I was about 25, I met a guy at work who was 44 and gay. Long story short (especially looking back), he made passes at me, I responded subtly at times. We talked philosophy, history, literature, and religion. He was very educated. We connected intellectually immediately. I struggled at the time as I was married to a beautiful woman with a huge rack, kids, heavy into church, etc. but I found myself coming up with reasons to talk to him at work. He always came by my office. My struggle became harder as I started masturbating thinking of him and I. First it was just us mutually masturbating but soon we were kissing in my mind as well and then I was making love to him in my fantasies. I struggled at the time that I was "cheating" on my wife but these fantasies were SOOO pleasurable, erotic, and , oh my god, arousing. We never had a physical encounter in real life.

We would go to lunch at least once a month and talk intellectual things. I would "excuse" statements he made in my mind as we were just talking intellectual things and I would compartmentalize all of it. When we would talk Greek philosophy, he mentioned how he was like Plato and I was his student. Then, later in the conversation, he would mention how older Greek men would often take a younger man as a lover. My Christian sensibilities would comment "But he had a wife" and he retorted "a younger extremely virile man burgeoning with sexual needs made a better lover than his wife." He then went on to state that he believed in the theory that the Shakespeare's poems were really love poems from an older man to a younger man. Somewhere in the conversation, I commented, "I bet you have much to teach me." Also, he was not good with technology and I went over to his house a few times to fix his computer. I looked at his temp internet files once as he was getting us water and confirmed what I believed. We worked closely for about 5 years. I then moved departments and while we didn't talk nearly as much, we would go out to lunch once in a while. My sexual fantasies about us abated quite a bit but they would come back intensely every few months.

If I knew then what I know now, we would have had an affair. Looking back, I realize how much I wanted to succumb to his seduction. I realized I had flirted back. I realize how much he wanted me to fuck him. We shared many things and I have come to realize that I at least had a crush on him and was probably in love with him.

 

[Marty Fisher]

I wonder if I never fooled around with my friend/neighbor growing up would I have still tried it with another guy? My friend and I fooled around with each for years innocently and then actual penetration. I quickly became the receiver in the relationship. And we never switched roles. I loved being the bottom guy and he just wanted to fuck me. It took years to finally get to penetration but it happened and wow was it good. It made me a total bottom. But what if I never did it with Johnny? It seems that time growing up with him and fooling around and trying so many times to get to our goal, which was his cock in my ass balls deep and exploding inside me. Would I have wanted cock some other time in my life? I do think so but that sure did mold me into a bottom boy.

It's really hard to say unless of course you're 100% gay through and through in which case you most likely would have found your way to the bottom with someone else when you were older. Those of us who were fortunate enough to explore, even before we were old enjoy to know that we were "exploring", are blessed with the memories and the knowledge that some of the things we were told were "bad", are really quite enjoyable.

 

[Marty Fisher]

This is the kind of stuff that fuels my bisexuality.....I got a taste of cock at a very early age and had to have seconds, thirds, fourths, and more but I'll never get tired of thoughts like this....

https://videos.SPAMPOST/file/videos-out/705626-1595853801-294/705626-1595853801-294-480.mp4

 

[MGTG]

Me too!

This is the kind of stuff that fuels my bisexuality.....I got a taste of cock at a very early age and had to have seconds, thirds, fourths, and more but I'll never get tired of thoughts like this....

https://videos.SPAMPOST/file/videos-out/705626-1595853801-294/705626-1595853801-294-480.mp4

I also started at a very young age, I seamed to be easy pray for my friends growing up, not the one I shared about in this post, but also my next door neighbor who was 3 years older than me. He was the one who showed me how to jackoff, and showed me my first dirty magazine. Eventually he trained me to be his little cocksucker. It got to the point where any time nobody was around his cock was in my mouth, and when we had complete privacy he was fucking my mouth the entire time. I learned to swallow every drop with him. I also got my mouth raped by another friend and 2 of his brothers on a sleepover.

 

[TallOne]

Flip the question. Would most people be bi if not for societal shaming?

 

[Marty Fisher]

I also started at a very young age, I seamed to be easy pray for my friends growing up, not the one I shared about in this post, but also my next door neighbor who was 3 years older than me. He was the one who showed me how to jackoff, and showed me my first dirty magazine. Eventually he trained me to be his little cocksucker. It got to the point where any time nobody was around his cock was in my mouth, and when we had complete privacy he was fucking my mouth the entire time. I learned to swallow every drop with him. I also got my mouth raped by another friend and 2 of his brothers on a sleepover.

Sounds delicious MGTG! I was usually the proactive one seeking cock to suck. I would have loved to have that role reversed and been the one sought out to suck their cock!

 

[Marty Fisher]

Flip the question. Would most people be bi if not for societal shaming?

I think YES!!!