Would an honest approach work?

[nearly_astray]

Dear Ladies,

I'm an older gent (mid 50's) seeking a bit of online diversion of the feminine persuasion. I have in the past posted the openings to various scenarios hoping to attract a role play partner. Those have resulted in a few very pleasant chats. I'm wondering if a more direct approach might be more productive.

I'm reasonably articulate and I'm told I'm fairly presentable for an old guy. I have a good sense of humor (at least people laugh at me a lot). I'm pretty well read and able to carry on a conversation about many topics. I'm not looking for any long term relationship and not looking for real life meetings.

I'm hoping to engage in a bit of erotic chat with a lady who would find that enjoyable. I'm open to most topics. I think I could maintain my end of the conversation.

The rest of the honest approach... You know how men are. If we have a pleasant erotic chat, I'll likely start stroking myself and eventually I'll decide to go ahead and have a wank. If we're really having fun I'll probably invite you to watch.

Cheers

 

[nearly_astray]

apparently not well

Alas, this approach seems to have generated little interest (more than zero, less than I'd hoped). I wasn't ever much good in singles' bars either.

 

[eric60red]

Perhaps a diffferent aproach is needed, spice up you profile, you dont realy want to kill do you?

 

[nearly_astray]

it is a bit lame

Eric,

I'll admit my profile seems a bit lame. I have removed the "joke" about my occupation. I'd forgotten that was there. I will put some more work into the rest of it later today.

 

[Que]

In general terms if you mean the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth no that actually does never work on a woman...

Its not that they like prevarcation; I think they do appreciate an artful dodge though.

Let them work at it...

Just a bit.

I think your ad was really well written though... I thought it rather sly and a bit of hand how you mentioned some exhibitionist tendencies I think women are actually fascinated by such things but they have to think of it a bit more as just " oh and by the way why don't I pop my cam on" rather than" hey you" - followed immediately by a trench coat reveal.

 

[GorgeousGeekGirl]

Query does have the best response.

Looking at your profile, it's pretty vanilla. All it really says is the obvious, you're a man wanting some sexting from a woman, which we already know from your ad, or simply the fact you're here.

As far as me, and do take this personally, looked at your threads and saw incest. Ewwwwww, and again ewwwwww. There are deal breakers out there, and for me, incest is one. I will never want to chat with a guy who I see is into that, ever. When on pm's me and I see that, I hit the block button. So keep in mind, we look just not at profile, but also posts

 

[nearly_astray]

What thoughtful responses

Query - I had not really expected such thoughtful or philosophical comment to my original post. Having been appropriately chastised, I will put a bit more of myself into my profile and I'll keep my trench coat buttoned.

Ms. GorgeousGeekGirl - I appreciate your comments as well. Although your response indicates it's unlikely we will connect, I feel the need to add a bit of clarification. In moments of weakness I have responded to posts by women requesting incest role play. I've never posted a thread or a response suggesting it.

 

[babyjane20011]

Hello there

Dear Ladies,

I'm an older gent (mid 50's) seeking a bit of online diversion of the feminine persuasion. I have in the past posted the openings to various scenarios hoping to attract a role play partner. Those have resulted in a few very pleasant chats. I'm wondering if a more direct approach might be more productive.

I'm reasonably articulate and I'm told I'm fairly presentable for an old guy. I have a good sense of humor (at least people laugh at me a lot). I'm pretty well read and able to carry on a conversation about many topics. I'm not looking for any long term relationship and not looking for real life meetings.

I'm hoping to engage in a bit of erotic chat with a lady who would find that enjoyable. I'm open to most topics. I think I could maintain my end of the conversation.

The rest of the honest approach... You know how men are. If we have a pleasant erotic chat, I'll likely start stroking myself and eventually I'll decide to go ahead and have a wank. If we're really having fun I'll probably invite you to watch.

Cheers[/QUO
Being hoest sounds great but, it doesn't always work. I'm upfront with people I chat with about my disability and the majority of the time my candor has a negative effect. so think before you speak.

Nancy

 

[nearly_astray]

no longer vanilla

OK, so I've done some work on my profile. It's probably still vanilla, but at least now maybe it's vanilla with some nuts and maybe a splash of chocolate sauce. I haven't added a picture. Still trying to decide what to do with that.

Thanks for the comments!

 

[afternightpersonality]

Dear Ladies,

I'm an older gent (mid 50's) seeking a bit of online diversion of the feminine persuasion. I have in the past posted the openings to various scenarios hoping to attract a role play partner. Those have resulted in a few very pleasant chats. I'm wondering if a more direct approach might be more productive.

I'm reasonably articulate and I'm told I'm fairly presentable for an old guy. I have a good sense of humor (at least people laugh at me a lot). I'm pretty well read and able to carry on a conversation about many topics. I'm not looking for any long term relationship and not looking for real life meetings.

I'm hoping to engage in a bit of erotic chat with a lady who would find that enjoyable. I'm open to most topics. I think I could maintain my end of the conversation.

The rest of the honest approach... You know how men are. If we have a pleasant erotic chat, I'll likely start stroking myself and eventually I'll decide to go ahead and have a wank. If we're really having fun I'll probably invite you to watch.

Cheers

I really appreciate your honesty. I am a bit confused by all of the responses that say it's not something women appreciate or value. Maybe I'm not the norm, but I can't think of any women I know who like to be lied to, even if it's with a wink, a nudge and a smile. A lie is a lie. Now, role playing, with both parties aware that it's a game of sorts, is different. But I love that you were honest. Please don't change that. In being equally honest, I was very interested in speaking to you until I read that you are married. Nothing wrong with that, as there are many here who are. That just happens to be a hard limit with me, so to speak. I am sorry that we won't be able to interact for this reason, but I still wanted to say that I think you're unique in your honesty, and please continue with it. Best of luck.